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How to deal with criminals. Yes our lives are filled with them. Run a way, or get tough.

Updated on November 13, 2013

Convicts are a small part of criminals

We do not need a court to tell us what a criminal is.
We do not need a court to tell us what a criminal is. | Source

First things first.

If you are in a weak and vulnerable position your best option is to run a way. It just is. Criminals are toxic. Criminals are bad. Criminals will hurt you. It does not matter if you use "authorities" or not. If you remain in any way engaged with criminals you and yours will be hurt.

On the other hand if you have the fortitude, faith and guts. You need to stop criminals from their activity. Also if you cannot safely run a way, you must confront, standfast and move on to victory over the criminal.

Let us define criminal for this purpose: Someone who wrongfully takes something from someone else.

We do not deal here with a jay walker on a deserted street a 4 am. But we recognize that so called "victim-less" crimes is not a true concept. Suppliers and purveyors of such prey on the weak.

Are you a criminal?

Probably by my earlier definition you have committed a crime. One small cheat. One small lie. One small thing that is not yours. But this does not make you a criminal. Criminals in this sense are people who live their life that way. Think of them more like an alcoholic. They get into a habit that is addictive as hell and from that point lies and deceptive practices are part and parcel of who they are.

So let us take an example to get to what we are talking about. Habitual tax cheaters. Business owners that break rules to save money. People who when considering every option also consider what a normal person would not consider to solve their problems. Welfare frauds. Mega-Corps that consider penalties for violations a "cost of doing business".

These are bad folk and you can think of 100 more types.

They suck in innocents to do their bidding. The lie and deceive to maintain their habits.

Do you know a criminal?

Is a criminal negatively effecting your life?

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The only correct answers here are Yes and Everyday.

Do not deceive yourself. That is the first thing that criminals steal from you. YOUR JUDGMENT.

If I am going to use you or take from you wrongfully, the first thing I would do is to take out your defenses. Those would be these: Integrity, Judgment, discernment, common sense and dignity.

First what us criminals will do is knock out your self esteem. I do not care what position you are in I can make you feel not worthy. Then I offer you a way out. It does not matter if it is a drug of choice, a "sign here" or a say this to so and so, and of course the easiest of all, "this is a secret between you and me - strictly confidential."

Maybe by those examples you are starting to see that criminals are all around.

A fun reminder

They strength is in you.

If a person gets it in their head that something is wrong, really wrong, I have found the will find the strength to rise up to correct the problem.

I have also seen criminals come and ask for help to stop. Matter of fact I get asked that regularly. Struggling businesses do not get that way by accident. And in fact about half of them get that way because they tried to cheat and that just seldom works for long.

So if you really want to make a difference in life. Stand up to criminals when ever you see them operating. Say no to that boss. Say no to your spouse. Say no to yourself.

First thing is not to be an accomplice. Crime is not an option for you. Drill that into your head. Lying is for liars not you. Keeping quiet is a lie. Even if an activity seems innocuous but requires a small deception --- that is the beginning of hell.

Do not go in for the small sins that appear victimless. Do not even give an inch on your self respect. Be a nutcase about honesty.

Just do it!

Parents teach you children well, their parents hell

Teach hard and fast what wrong is. Even admit to some and tell of consequence -- inside.
Teach hard and fast what wrong is. Even admit to some and tell of consequence -- inside. | Source

We are not immune we are weak.

Criminal thought is toxic and addictive. The thrill the getting away with it. These are hard opponents if you chose to fight crime. You can get dirty. And I promise you that if you involve yourself enough to fight it, you will get hurt.

But the rewards are worth it. I promise that also. Remember it is not about stopping the crimes as much as it is about you. When you stand up for what is right you will not fall for wrong.

You are a champion, do not forget that.

Live in peace, walk in beauty. But first learn to stand upright.
Live in peace, walk in beauty. But first learn to stand upright. | Source

You are worth the fight.

I will not say to save your soul. I will not call on wrath of God or consequence of failure. I will speak of the great good you can do in you if you do the right thing. It is good to do the right thing and you are good. It is bad to do the wrong thing and it will make you bad.

You are worth the battle.

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      Bill Holland 3 years ago from Olympia, WA

      I love the way your mind works; you drew me in and had me hooked; I love to see where your train of thoughts will go to. Well done!

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      Eric Dierker 3 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      I am afraid my thoughts are like the runoff that goes without a channel. Not as stable as a creek with banks. Thank you good friend.

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      ologsinquito 3 years ago from USA

      Great article Eric. The world needs a lot more prayer.

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      Brian Prickril 3 years ago from Savannah, GA

      Your article really made me think today. Although I don't personally know any criminals, the truth is they affect my life much more than I thought. This is why I keep a small bat for home protection. This is why I lock the windows at night. It's all a precaution...just in case. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that I'm always watching my back.

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      Eric Dierker 3 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Brian, do not forget the price you pay in taxes and in retail stores. I have patrolled for over 3,000 hours. It is just amazing how much is taken.

      I will do so more writing on this. That theft of your personal secure feelings is insidious.

      Thank you for commenting in this area.

      (although I would bet you have a little "Thai Chi" mixed in with that Yoga ;-)

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      Eric Dierker 3 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      I like "In prayer we trust -- all others pay cash". ologsinquito, your expose's are a true tribute to your character. Thank you.

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      Dil Vil 3 years ago from India

      There are various reasons behind the birth of criminals. They must be changed to normal by making them realize the importance of life. Great hub my friend. You always write amazingly. Like billybuc said, i am as well wondering about how you get such great thoughts to write.

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      Eric Dierker 3 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Friend do not wonder to long on that or you will conclude as Bill has, I have many personalities. So it is easy for me to just tap one a day and run with it. Some truth in that ;-)

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      Denise W Anderson 3 years ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

      This is an interesting concept, that anyone can become a criminal, if they are treated like one! We all have the good and bad within us, and those that we choose to be around bring one or the other out. We have the ability to leave a situation where we are doing something we know is not right, and we can stand up to it. Thanks for giving me a reason to do so!

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      Eric Dierker 3 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Denise, I hope this letter did for you what writing it did for me. 1 Hour ago I tendered a resignation for a company. Short cuts were wrong. So they did not take it -- and gave me the job to make it right. That is what I do.

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