Personal Development | Thoughts on Human Nature
Each one of us is unique.
On ways in which people are equal
I believe that people are equal in a number of ways. One of which is mortality. We, humans will die eventually regardless of who we are. Another is that, everybody has equal opportunity of experiencing pains and joys in life as we go along living. Each and everyone of us has his or her own share of heartaches and pains; joys and victories. Thus, as humans, we are equally vulnerable. We are also equal in terms of our basic needs for survival like food, clothing and shelter.
In showing respect to others, how much weight do you give to the following?
On the basis of showing respect
Personally, I respect people regardless of who and what they are; so long as they are not doing anything that threatens my sense of well-being and my rights as a person. I just have to give the kind of respect that is due to others as to my own.
It is human nature to desire of maximizing one's potentials.
On viewing others as more developed
Yes, I do believe that some people are more developed as humans than others. Say for instance, in terms of maturity, educational advancement, experience, spiritual foundation and a lot more.This can simply be explained through knowing our individual differences.
On accepting differences among people
People differ and that should be accepted. Individual differences has long been studied thousands of years ago tracing its roots from the studies of Plato, Charles Darwin and many others. Several factors are to be considered like heredity, traits, culture, learning, personal choice, unconscious mechanisms, cognitive processes and upbringing.
Each one of us has our own stories to tell.
Which of the following factors influence most in shaping your life?
On freedom to shape own life
I believe that I don't have much freedom in shaping my life due to a number of considerations. I only have just enough but not that much. Among these considerations are in the aspects of resources, responsibilities in the family, personal limitations, situational and time constraints.
Factors like heredity, family history, early childhood experiences and environment have its own contributions in shaping my life. Of course, in various degrees or intensity, depending on the situation.
The aspects in the environment that continually take control of my behavior are my religion (faith in God), my work, my relationship with my family, my relationship with colleagues/friends, and the expectations of other people. In a nutshell, the roles that I play in the society.
See how one's attitude in life matters...
On aspect in life having control
The aspect in which, I definitely have the control is in terms of my attitude. I do not have any control with what other people may say or do. I do not have any control with what life may throw along my way. However, I am convinced that I am in full control with the kind of attitude that I would choose in my dealings with other people and in facing the circumstances happening in my life.
We are actors and actresses in this movie called life.
About This Article
There are several assumptions we can find underlying our views about human nature. This is my personal attempt to share my opinions on certain aspects based on knowledge learned and experiences encountered while growing up. Being human, I learned that we are dynamic individuals. So, as I move along with this lifetime, I may have changes in perspectives. Nevertheless, I just do hope and pray that in this process of becoming; I can fully embrace what it takes to be truly human.
Characteristics of a Psychologically Healthy Person by Gordon Allport
I would like to share this construct of Gordon Allport about the characteristics of a psychologically healthy person. Check if you possess all these characteristics at this point in your life.
- You can extend your sense of self to persons and to activities beyond yourself.
- You can relate warmly to others, exhibiting intimacy, compassion and tolerance.
- You can show self-acceptance and achieves emotional security.
- You can hold a realistic perception, develop personal skills and make a commitment to a kind of work.
- You can exhibit a sense of humor and self-objectification, that is an understanding or insight into yourself.
- You have a unifying philosophy of life, which directs the personality towards future goals.