- Quality of Life & Wellness
I.Q., E.Q., and Life Experience
There are a number of tests you can take, both online and off which will measure your Intelligence and give you a number. 100 is average, over 130 is gifted, over 160 is genius.
These tests are a mixture of academics and logic. Your vocabulary is tested, your mathematical ability, your capability of recognising patterns, deduction, etc.
Having a High I.Q. (Intelligence quotient) means you will probably do well in
academic subjects. You will probably enter college and go into the
professions. Or, become a very successful conman.
If you have a low I.Q., you'll not do well at school. You will probably go into lower
level employment and might become the prey of the successful conman, unless
you consider yourself dumber than everyone else and so assume other people
are trying to trick you.
There are various tests you can take which will rate your emotional intelligence.
The importance of emotional intelligence is the difference between life and death.
I am not overstating.
People with high emotional intelligence can 'feel' something is 'wrong' .
By the slighest clues, they pick up danger, (whether, physical, financial
or emotional, and escape.
They know how to talk to people, they know how to pacify and they 'get over'
with less trouble than others.
Those with low emotional intelligence usually get their noses punched, rarely get
what they want. Their inability to pick up on the feelings or attitudes of others is
a severe handicap.
The clerk who is fuming will lash out at the abrasive customer, the thug on the
corner, may see if his glock is loaded.
This is the importance of Emotional Intelligence.
Been there, done that; is the basics of Life Experience. Those who learn their lessons know how to function successfully, those who don't learn, repeat.
Some people claim to have practiced their profession for 30 years; they have practiced for one year, thirty times. Some people take life as a learning experience, and increase their knowledge every day. Some people never learn.
Some people learn how to be here now, and can focus, some are always thinking of what happened or what is going to happen, so aren't here.
Putting it all Together
The problem with these various
categories is that they aren't
combined on a test, but are in life.
One might have an I.Q. of 170 but
be extremely stupid in real life.
They may be unable to connect
with people, understand simple
protocols, or catch the interplay between others.
Academic learning has very little survival value when you've offended someone
who has a very short fuse..
Some people are virtually psychic when it comes to others, but bobble around
in a daze because they don't understand themselves.
There are people who learn from the mistakes of others, people who learn from
their own mistakes, and then, there are those who never learn.
They are just as stupid at 65 as they were at 16.
Those with reasonably High I.Q.s and E.Q.s do very well because they know
how to 'package' themselves for the greatest benefit. Coupled with life
experience which they recognise, will make them successful.
Other people like them. Other people will go the extra mile for them. Although
they may be scorned by presumptuous and pretentious folks they seem to be
happier than their peers.
This is because it takes more than one category to be successful in life
Life is made up of various features.
It isn't a textbook.
It doesn't conform to algorithms.
Let us take reality.
1. Your office is five miles southeast of this corner. Logic states
that you should reach it within 7 1/2 minutes travelling at 40 m/p/h.
2. However, travelling on this road means it will take you one hour because
of the traffic.
3. If you drive west for two blocks, then south, you'll be able to get on a less
travelled road which with a few twists and turns will get you to the office
in ten minutes.
4. If you realise the traffic starts at 7:30 and thins by 8:45, you can make the
office by 9 leaving just after 8:45.
The first idea is I.Q. it is all measurement.
The second is reality.
The third is E.Q. where you deal with each aspect singlularly.
The fourth is life experience.
Putting them together, you will succeed.