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How To Make the Law Of Attraction Work For You – A Step By Step Guide
The Law of Attraction And How To Use It
Many of you have seen the movie "The Secret." Have you used the techniques? Have you figured out what it's really all about? In this article, I’m going to show you exactly how to do it and I’ll hold nothing back. If you follow the steps, you’ll never need any more information than what you’re reading right now.
I’m going to completely explain how I figured all this out so you understand where I’m coming from. Please trust me when I tell you that this does indeed work. I have already proven it to myself (several times) and now, I’m ready to share my discoveries with you. So here goes…
(If you have questions or comments after you’ve read this, feel free to write me at: firstname.lastname@example.org I’ll help you, all that I can…no charge. Everyone should have this information and no one should ever have to pay for it, because it’s a spiritual gift meant for everyone.)
How It Started For Me
One night, I was browsing the internet and by accident, found a link to "The Secret" movie that had recently come out. (You can see it for free on YouTube.) Can you imagine being able to just think of something, and it appears? Suppose you wanted a raise, or a new car, or a house, perfect health or that someone special. What kind of power could cause you to get any of those things, with just a thought? Well, that's what "The Secret" movie implied. And since I'm always up for something weird and puzzling, I decided to watch the movie (which was also available on the site), and judge for myself.
I was amazed! I read the movie reviews too, on a lot of different blog sites. Some people thought it was nonsense but most, believed it. I did a "hmmm" to myself, after reading those. Then I watched the movie, again. There was just something about the facts presented that rang true with me. Still, I couldn't figure out exactly how it worked. So I watched it two more times. Basically, the steps were to state a wish, think about it as thought you had it already, and zap! It would materialize.
One of the people in the documentary said that some people just take it and run with it. Others find it difficult to accept and can't seem to get passed step one. Then it dawned on me that I probably needed to stop questioning how it was going to happen, and just run with it. When I watched the movie for the last time, I wrote down all the steps, did them, and then waited for results.
It was all supposed to happen within a matter of hours or days or maybe even a few weeks. But for me, it didn't happen at all. I was very disappointed, but for some strange reason, I couldn't give up. Something told me that there was truth in this. I just had to dig deeper.
It Needed More Research
I got on the internet again and did numerous searches, all concerning the Law of Attraction, and how to get it to work. At last, a clue surfaced! Meditation had helped many people get into the right "mind mode" to ask for what they wanted. If you weren't in that mode, then it wouldn't happen, it said. So I researched until I found a company that sold the best meditation course on the market, and began to work with it.
(Note: If you feel you need help to learn to meditate, please contact me and I’ll help you do that, at no cost. The link to the site above is excellent, but it can be a little pricey if you’re on a tight budget. If you can’t afford it, just send me an e-mail and I’ll help you.)
Months went by. The meditation course did me a world of good, as far as calming me down and making me more focused and intuitive. Still, I could not make the Law of Attraction work. Back to the drawing board…
Another Eye-Opening Movie
Another internet search brought up a movie entitled, "What the Bleep." It didn't really say that it was about the Law of Attraction, but something told me to watch it, and judge for myself. And so I did. Again, it was amazing. Actually, it was related to the current uprising of a theoretical science called Quantum Physics. The movie explained how a person's mind actually works, using this new theory. Your brain creates its own reality, depending upon how you program it. And you program it by the way you think. (So YOU do the creating.) Another clue!
(Note: YouTube has a huge assortment of videos relating to “What the Bleep” and of course, it’s all free, so if I were you, I’d watch every one of them.)
The Final Search
Right after seeing "What the Bleep," I found my brain suddenly flooded with intuitive ideas. I can't even remember how I found this, but on one of my internet searches, I finally discovered the information that made everything fit together. (I will always be grateful for the existence of YouTube.) I entered the words "Law of Attraction" into the YouTube search box, and up came a list of videos called "Abraham-Hicks."
(Note: These videos are also plentiful on YouTube. And again, I’d watch every one if I were you – I have!)
These videos were more than an hour long but I remember staying up all night, listening to every one of them. There, I found the "missing link" to all of this. (If you've never watched these videos, I strongly recommend that you see them, and listen to every word, especially if you find this method hard to swallow. They're truly amazing.)
The Final Test
Two years later, armed with all this information, I decided to give it another try. This time, it worked, over and over and over again. I thought about something, did the necessary actions, and there was the thought, materialized in reality! I can't even put into words, the true bliss that I experienced, when I finally succeeded. Now, I'm going to show you how to do the same thing, by using one of my own wishes, as an example.
All The Steps
Step 1: You must know what you want. Pick something. (I picked a new house. My family and I were living in two, separate apartments and being able to buy a house and live together, would actually be cheaper and definitely more enjoyable.)
Step 2: You must be clear about what you want. I wanted a house, but I knew that I had to clearly visualize it, in as much detail as I could. I looked through magazines and found a picture of a house that I'd be happy with. I cut that picture out and taped it to the middle of a blank sheet of paper.
Then, below the picture, I wrote down everything I wanted the house to have. I listed the number of bedrooms and baths, the size of the lot, the condition of the neighborhood and the house itself. I put in the price and I wrote in that price didn't matter because regardless, I was going to be able to get a mortgage.
The fact that I had the worst credit history on Earth, would make no difference. The fact that I had almost no cash to work with, made no difference either. I was going to get that house because I was CREATING the situation, from scratch.
I wrote everything in the positive. In other words, I didn't say, "My credit is awful but that doesn't matter." I simply wrote "I will get a mortgage." (Note: I pictured a giant rubber stamp, coming down on my mortgage application that read "Approved!")
I basically played with that creation page. In effect I was creating something, from nothing. I knew, from all I had learned, that if you play with your wish, give it enough thought, detail it out and have fun with it, it will come. After an hour or two, I was done. I clipped the page to a clipboard and hung the board on the wall, next to my computer. I basically live in front of my computer, so I knew that it would be something I'd look at a lot…which brings me to the next step.
Step 3: Keep thinking about it. Be happy about it. Smile, as you're thinking of it. If you really want this thing, that should be no problem. Look at the picture on your clipboard. Read what you wrote. Think about the happy times you're going to have with that "thing" you are creating, when it finally materializes. (This point is VERY important.)
That's what I did when I wished for a house. Every time I sat at the computer, I looked at the picture, I read my own notes and I thought about what I was going to plant in my garden, and "saw" myself doing it; what fun it was going to be for my little grandson to have his own yard to run in; how much happier the dog was going to be, unleashed in his very own backyard!
These were all happy thoughts and visualizations of what would occur. I'd smile to myself, when I thought about it. I never gave a single thought to it NOT happening. (That's one of the rules and actually the MOST important one. Just accept it. Be HAPPY, when you think about using it, just as if you already had it.) Think about it as if it’s already in existence and you are mentally enjoying it, because it’s really there.
The Science Behind It All
Now, here's the science behind it, as I understand it. Your mind, and everything else around you, is electrical energy. Each thought is electrical, as well. When you think of something, the creation process begins. You have created a "baby" thought, so to speak. It's a very tiny embryo when you first think of it. But as you keep thinking about the same thing, just like with a human baby, it begins to grow.
It gets bigger and heavier until finally, it releases itself from you (like a baby does when its nine months are up) and it becomes a large, living thing, outside of your body. That's when it begins to materialize. Once it's that big, it definitely WILL materialize. Of course, you can't tell when it's that big, so you just have to keep thinking happy thoughts about it. But I promise you, it will come. It has to. It's part of the law of Physics. That's the way the Universe works. (This may not seem realistic to some, but when it happens to YOU, you’ll change your mind.)
And by the way, in order to get my house, I did this, day after day. It wasn't a chore. It was fun because I really wanted that house. It materialized in about two weeks! Situations fell into place that I never planned. I met people that just seemed to appear in my life, which I never expected.
I picked up a real estate magazine (something that I never read), seemingly for no reason; in that magazine, I found the realtor who found me the house, and a mortgage broker who got me a mortgage.
By rights, I shouldn't have been able to get either. It was an unusual looking house that I picked, and my credit, as I've already mentioned, was awful. But the realtor found the house, the mortgage broker got the loan, and the former owners put up most of the down payment, because I didn't have it. It was all just amazing, and fell perfectly into place…which brings us to the next step.
Step 4: Remember to follow the clues. After you start doing this, you’ll find that different situations will present themselves to you. You might be drawn to pick up a certain newspaper, the way I was drawn to the real estate guide when I was hoping for that house. You might feel like you should follow a certain direction, or talk to certain people. It may not make sense at the moment, but just go with it and see where it takes you. Trust that the powers of the Universe are guiding you towards the thing that you want, and don’t question so much. As long as it’s not anything dangerous, just follow the clues.
Step 5: Say "Thank you." I do believe in God, so I said this to Him. You should always be grateful for what you get, no matter who gives it to you. Each time you do this (picturing your wish, imagining using it, etc.) thank the powers that be for giving it to you. What you’re doing is affirming that you already have it, and you’re thankful for it. That's all there is to this.
Law of Attraction Explained
This is a video that appeared on YouTube recently. It explains the Law of Attraction and also gives some advanced concepts.
It took me seemingly forever to figure it out, but now that I look back, it seems rather simple. Maybe it is the simplest things that are the hardest to understand.
Or maybe we have been so conditioned to only believe what we see, that we can't believe otherwise. Remember: Seeing is not believing; BELIEVING is seeing. If you believe, you will see it…because you will be making it yourself.
A Few Final Points
Remember your part in the wish. You’re supposed to do the following:
Decide exactly what you want.
Visualize yourself using it and imagine yourself happy, while you’re enjoying it. Actually BE happy.
Thank “the Universe” or whatever higher being you believe in, for giving you what you wanted.
Follow the clues as the days go by; they’re meant to lead you to your goal.
Do the visualization exercise at least three times each day for about 15 minutes each time. When you do it, really get into it; but when you’re finished, just let it go.
You are NOT supposed to be the one to figure out how to make it happen. That’s not your job. That’s the job of the Universe. So don’t try to figure out ways to fulfill the wish. Just do your part (refer to paragraph above), and allow the power that’s already in place, to do what it does. If you try to manipulate each action, it won’t work.
If you never do anything else for yourself in this life, just learn how to do this one, basic thing. You'll never regret the effort you put into it.