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What Dogs Can Teach Us About Being Human

Updated on May 3, 2016
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With a Ph.D. in psychology and a passion for animals, FlourishAnyway knows animals can teach us more about living healthy, fulfilling lives.

Doggone Smart and Loyal, Too

Dogs descended from majestic grey wolves thousands of years ago.  Humans domesticated them and bred them for their friendliness, hunting skills, and physical characteristics.
Dogs descended from majestic grey wolves thousands of years ago. Humans domesticated them and bred them for their friendliness, hunting skills, and physical characteristics. | Source

Dogs and the Meaning Of Unconditional Love

Until you've been loved by a wet nosed, tail wagging, slobbery smooching dog, you really haven't known unconditional love.

Dogs don't simply greet you at the door after a long day at work. They celebrate your homecoming. Who else does that?

And no matter what others think of you, the dog in your life sees you as someone surrounded by an Aura of Awesomeness.

Dogs don't judge you by the amount of money in your bank account, your street cred, or the labels on your clothes. They don't critique your grammar, manners, or your housekeeping.

Like any true friend, they look past all that and simply see ... you.

Dogs can turn a car ride into a Zen moment as the wind slaps at their jowls. They gladly take the blame for passed gas and always share the remote. They understand your troubles better than any therapist and won't charge you a dime for the session (cue the head tilt and comforting nuzzle).

Dogs are our exercise partners, playmates, traveling partners, bed mates, and four-legged children.

But did you know they are also teachers? Yep, they have life lessons to share, if you are willing to listen.

A Toy In Every Field: Just Add Friends

Dogs can turn anything into a toy -- a stick, a shoe -- just add friends!
Dogs can turn anything into a toy -- a stick, a shoe -- just add friends! | Source

Lesson 1: Play Well With Others

Ah, the joy of simply being with friends! Having descended from pack-dwelling grey wolves at least 15,000 years ago, dogs embrace companionship.1

It is believed that inquisitive wolves once searched through human trash sites looking for food. Humans since adopted and tamed wolf pups, and a legendary friendship was born.

Are You Agreeable?

A person who is more agreeable is more likely to endorse the following personality statements:

  • I am interested in people.
  • I feel others' feelings.
  • I have a soft heart.
  • I make people feel at ease.
  • I sympathize with others’ feelings.
  • I take time out for others.
  • I am interested in other people’s problems.
  • I am really interested in others.
  • I feel concern for others.
  • I don't insult people.
  • I don't like being isolated.

If there's one characteristic that describes Man's Best Friend, it's agreeable. Dogs have the unique ability to get along with others so well.

As a personality trait, those who are agreeable are

  • cooperative
  • trusting
  • helpful
  • empathic and
  • appreciative of their interpersonal relationships.

Tuned In

Any dog owner can tell you that dogs seem to genuinely care how you are feeling. One study found that dogs are more likely to approach a person who is crying than one who is talking or humming. Dogs respond uniquely to tears in an attempt to comfort us.2

Research has also shown that dogs can read human intentions by carefully honing in on our eye movements.3 Dogs are so adept at this "doggie ESP" that their skills rival that of children aged six months to two years. Perhaps that is why so many people treat dogs as their offspring.

The Agreeable Friend

Agreeability is the personality trait of being  cooperative, trusting, helpful, and empathic.
Agreeability is the personality trait of being cooperative, trusting, helpful, and empathic. | Source

Great Dog Quotes

"There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face."

- Ben Williams, American novelist

"The dog is the only animal that has seen his god."

- Author Unknown

"One reason a dog can be such a comfort when you're feeling blue is that he doesn't try to find out why."

- Author Unknown

"Scratch a dog and you'll find a permanent job."

- Franklin P. Jones, American Humorist

"If you think dogs can't count, try putting three dog biscuits in your pocket and then giving Fido only two of them."

- Phil Pastoret, American cartoonist

"To his dog, every man is Napoleon; hence the constant popularity of dogs."

- Aldous Huxley, English writer

"They never talk about themselves but listen to you while you talk about yourself, and keep up an appearance of being interested in the conversation."

- Jerome K. Jerome, English humorist

"The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail instead of his tongue."

- Author Unknown

"If a dog will not come to you after having looked you in the face, you should go home and examine your conscience."

- Woodrow Wilson, 28th President of the United States

"Children are for people who can't have dogs."

- Author Unknown

Humans trust dogs' caring and perceptiveness enough to use them in various service capacities, including

  • assistance dogs for the visually and hearing impaired ... although interestingly, dogs are effectively red-green colorblind themselves, seeing the world in shades of yellows, blues, and grays;4
  • seizure alert dogs for sensing their owners' seizures 30 seconds to 45 minutes in advance;5 and
  • emotional support dogs for veterans and others experiencing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), autism, or other disabilities.

Humans and the Multiple Benefits of Playing Well With Others

Humans who play well with others may realize many benefits of being agreeable:

♦ Being agreeable affects how we respond to medication - One study found that agreeable people benefited more from the placebo effect in response to physical pain.6

A placebo is a substance that objectively does not produce pain relief or other results itself. Instead, the patient's expectations produce desired effects.

It is believed that the desire to feel better leads to the release of endorphins, thus creating genuine relief.

♦ Agreeable people are happier and more popular - Highly agreeable people are usually happier and have more pleasant everyday lives than those who are less agreeable.7 This includes being happier at work.

Not surprisingly, agreeable people are also more popular, as the personality factor involves valuing social harmony above both self-interest and being objective or "correct" in decision making.

Agreeable people are less likely to be obese - Multiple studies have found associations between low agreeableness and a risk for obesity across the adult life span.8

For the More Disagreeable Among Us ...

Vintage Style Sign Saying, "DOES NOT PLAY WELL WITH OTHERS" Decorative Fun Universal Household Signs from Egbert's Treasures
Vintage Style Sign Saying, "DOES NOT PLAY WELL WITH OTHERS" Decorative Fun Universal Household Signs from Egbert's Treasures

You know who you are. If you're not the type to play well with others, at least give others fair warning. Showcase this 8"x10" sign at work, at home, or anwhere others need to see it.

 

Specifically, agreeable people are less likely to suffer from metabolic syndrome, a potentially deadly combination of obesity plus any two of the following:9

  • high triglycerides
  • reduced HDL cholesterol ("good" cholesterol)
  • high blood pressure and
  • high fasting glucose.

More agreeable people make more supportive parents- Agreeableness is related to a more positive parenting style — warm, responsive, and nurturing — rather than a power assertive, negatively controlling parenting style.10

Also, agreeable teens are more likely to elicit these reactions from their parents rather than over-reactive parental responses of anger, frustration, meanness, and irritation. (The savvy teen would put this knowledge nugget to work for himself/herself!)

What Would Rover Do?

Sometimes being agreeable is a choice.
Sometimes being agreeable is a choice. | Source

Downside of Agreeableness

Before you get your tail wagging in constant agreement with the rest of the pack, you should know that being a nice guy does have its limitations, however. Rover would want me to me honest with you.

A primary downside of agreeableness is that agreeable men earn less at work. (There is no significant effect, however, for women.)

Across a variety of occupations, agreeable men earn substantially less, compared with their disagreeable coworkers who are self-serving and criticize others' ideas. The less agreeable among us are more likely to challenge existing practices at work and persuade others to the value of their ideas and contributions.

This translates into a significant income advantage. On average, less agreeable men earn more than $10,000 more per year than their more agreeable male peers.11

Consider: "What Would Rover Do?"

The old adage that "Nice guys finish last" is thus really only partially true. Given all the evidence on agreeableness and its impact on health, wealth, and happiness, you thus have a choice regarding how to approach your life.

Next time you're faced with a situation, think about what is most important to you, and then ask yourself, "What Would Rover Do?"

Ruff Day?

Oh, the things dogs do for love!  We dress them up for Halloween, cold weather, and often "just because."  Is it for them or for ourselves?
Oh, the things dogs do for love! We dress them up for Halloween, cold weather, and often "just because." Is it for them or for ourselves? | Source

Doggone Embarrassing!

Pup-A-Razzi Rock N Roll King Dog Costume, X-Small, Multicolor
Pup-A-Razzi Rock N Roll King Dog Costume, X-Small, Multicolor

Anyone got a peanut butter and banana dog biscuit? Thank ya very much!

 

Lesson 2: Don't Pretend To Be Something You're Not

Over 56.7 million American households are lucky enough to have a family dog, and we spend an average of $1,710 annually on their grooming, boarding, food, toys, and food.12 And then there's the canine costuming!

Some breeds such as Greyhounds and Whippets are naturally bony and require the warmth of an extra layer. Other dogs that are old, very small, bald, or ill require waterproofing or insulation to protect them from the elements.

But then there's Halloween, the second biggest commercial holiday in the United States, and poor Fido finds himself dressed as a ballerina, superhero, or Elvis. Neighbors chuckle, strangers point, and "pawsitively" adorable photos are shared all over Facebook.

Oh, the humiliations our four-legged friends endure for a few extra treats!

For all the fun and games, however, dogs would tell you that it's hard to communicate with other dogs when they're wearing clothing. And try doing your "business" in a cape or tutu, or eating with a wig on — especially when your hands are paws.

Uicc ICC Nano Sim Card, Samsung Galaxy S6, S6 Edge
Uicc ICC Nano Sim Card, Samsung Galaxy S6, S6 Edge

You already know your dog is a superhero.

 

Santa Paws

This poor fella is absolutely humiliated in front of his doggy friends, but he looks "fetching."
This poor fella is absolutely humiliated in front of his doggy friends, but he looks "fetching." | Source

Unapologetically Unpretentious

Dogs live by the motto of "don't pretend to be something you're not." They are unapologetically unpretentious. In case you haven't noticed, they sniff each others' anuses, roll in dead things, and hump legs.

Not that humans should take these things up as hobbies, mind you, but we could learn a few things about authenticity.

We humans are a pretentious bunch with our name brand goods proclaiming our self worth. Maybe we should just "Leave It," and concentrate instead on building our relationships, living our values, and enjoying the simple beauty of life — just like dogs do!

There are some things only Man's Best Friend can tell you without you getting all "hot under the collar" about it. Now go do it!

"Please Pawdon Me" If I Offended You

No matter what they do, it's hard to be mad at a dog for long.  Practice forgiveness.
No matter what they do, it's hard to be mad at a dog for long. Practice forgiveness. | Source

Lesson 3: Practice Forgiveness

If you're the type to hang on to a grudge like a dog guards his favorite toy, consider letting go for your own sake. That's right ... Stop! Drop it! Good boy (or girl)! You won't find dogs holding grudges.

While it's possible some things cannot or should not be forgiven, consider this: the offending act hurt you once, but ruminating about it hurts you over and over again.

Sh*t Happens -- Pick It Up and Move On

Forgive transgressions and you may see benefits to your heart rate, blood pressure, immune system, and cortisol levels.
Forgive transgressions and you may see benefits to your heart rate, blood pressure, immune system, and cortisol levels. | Source

Health Effects of Unforgiveness

Unforgiveness refers to dwelling on a transgression, and that rumination is associated with anger and hostility.

Simply thinking about the offense triggers a chronic stress response. It raises your blood pressure and heart rate, cause you to sweat more and increase your levels of cortisol (the stress hormone).13 It can also make you feel angry, sad, anxious, and less in control.

Over time, persistent resentment can contribute to cardiovascular disease, chronic low-grade inflammation, and poor mental health. For example, an inability to forgive yourself for your own transgressions can lead to depressive symptoms in later life.

Pawsitively Adorable

Dogs are not the only animals who have life lessons to teach.  Check out lessons from squirrels, bats, turkeys, ducks/swans/geese, cats, and more!
Dogs are not the only animals who have life lessons to teach. Check out lessons from squirrels, bats, turkeys, ducks/swans/geese, cats, and more! | Source

Such unforgiveness can also put you at greater risk for alcohol and substance abuse, plus other unhealthy coping behaviors. Forgiveness typically increases with age, with older adults forgiving more easily than middle age and younger adults.

In addition to benefits to your physical health, research shows that forgiveness can

  • increase self-esteem
  • improve mood and
  • enhance relationship satisfaction.

So why not try forgiveness for your own sake?

She Who Sleeps With Dogs

Nightshirt Says She Who Sleeps with Dogs - White with Blue (One Size)
Nightshirt Says She Who Sleeps with Dogs - White with Blue (One Size)

Proclaim your love of dogs and your preference of sleeping partners with this comfy 100% cotton night shirt.

 

Forgiveness: It Can Give You A New Leash On Life

Learn the art of a gracious, heartfelt apology so you can get a little forgiveness in your life.
Learn the art of a gracious, heartfelt apology so you can get a little forgiveness in your life. | Source

The Path Forward Starts With One Step

Anyone who has struggled with a major interpersonal conflict in their lives knows this: an offense can occur in an instant, but forgiveness is a journey. Ultimately, forgiveness involves wishing the other well.

Life Can Be Ruff

Change the messages you tell yourself.  You're not a victim.  You're a survivor!
Change the messages you tell yourself. You're not a victim. You're a survivor! | Source

To help yourself along this path, both dogs and the experts would recommend the following:

  • Keep an open mind and heart, recalling incidents when you hurt others and were granted forgiveness. Recall the impact and how that felt.
  • Try to broaden your perspective by considering the situation from the other person's point of view.
  • Change your inner dialog from one of victimization and wrongdoing to one of survivorship and moving forward. The story you tell yourself makes all the difference.
  • If you are the one needing forgiveness, provide a heartfelt apology. Both genuine expressions of remorse and restitution have been shown to promote forgiveness, whereas shallow apologies can actually make matters worse.

Good luck and happy "heeling"!

Yo Dog, Sorry ...

To make an adequate and heartfelt apology, you have to clearly and completely acknowledge the offense.  A poorly delivered apology actually makes resentment worse!
To make an adequate and heartfelt apology, you have to clearly and completely acknowledge the offense. A poorly delivered apology actually makes resentment worse! | Source

If You're the One Who Needs To Apologize: Characteristics Of Good vs. Bad Apologies

Good Apologies
Bad Apologies
make clear who the offender is and who is offended
address the wrong party or apologize for the wrong offense
clearly and completely acknowledge the offense
vague and incomplete ("for whatever I did"); use passive language ("mistakes were made"); make the apology conditional ("if I did something to offend you"); question whether the victim was damaged or minimize the offense ("to the extent that hurt you")
provide an explanation (if there is one) showing the offense was neither intentional nor personal and is unlikely to recur
involve a shallow or fraudulent explanation ("I just snapped" or "I wasn't thinking")
show contrition; recognize the suffering of the party you have hurt
paint yourself as the real victim ("I feel misunderstood")
suggest reparations, tangible and/or symbolic
involve no reparations to restore the relationship or make the party whole
Source: Greater Good: The Science of A Meaningful Life

The Nose Knows

A dog's sense of smell is 10,000 to 100,000 times as acute as a human.
A dog's sense of smell is 10,000 to 100,000 times as acute as a human. | Source

Lesson 4: Sniff It Out

When it comes to their noses, dogs are super sniffers. The part of a dog's brain that specializes in detecting scent is 40 times larger than ours, proportionately speaking.14

And with as many as 300 million olfactory receptors compared to humans' 5 million, dogs' sense of smell is 10,000 to 100,000 times as acute. As a result, dogs can detect some odors in parts per trillion, which is like catching the scent of one rotten apple in two million barrels!

Humans don't have that kind of ability, so we have to rely more heavily on our critical thinking skills. But how?

Dogs Are Super Sniffers

Species
Number of Scent Receptors
How They Are Historically Valued By Humans
Humans
5 million
-
Dachshund
125 million
scent, chase, and flush out badgers and other small burrow-dwelling animals
Fox Terrier
147 million
flush foxes out of their hiding places during hunts
Beagle
225 million
tracking small game, detecting prohibited agriculture and food
German Shepherd
225 million
search and rescue, cadaver and narcotic searches, military roles, acting
Bloodhound
300 million
used by law enforcement to track human beings over large distances (even several days after the person goes missing)
Source: Wikipedia

God Made A Dog ... Heartfelt Video

How To Stop Jumping To Conclusions

Dogs are extraordinary investigators, super sleuths -- even snoops. While we don't have their super sniffers, we can hone our critical thinking skills.

Rather than jumping to conclusions and "using your gut," take the time to make more reasoned inferences. Ask yourself questions such as these:

  • What are my assumptions? Are they correct? How do I know? Why am I making them?
  • Am I reaching the "right" conclusion? What evidence is there of this? Why is this is the "right" thing to do? Is this conclusion based on all the facts?
  • Are other options available? What have been others' experiences with this situation?
  • Why do other people believe what they do? What reasons support their differing points of view? How did they "get there"?

By developing better critical thinking skills, we can foster better relationships, promote multiple solutions and spinoff ideas, and make better quality decisions overall. Dogs would approve!

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Ahhh! Belly Rubs Are Very Important

Nothing feels better than a good belly rub.  Don't skip the good stuff.
Nothing feels better than a good belly rub. Don't skip the good stuff. | Source

Get A Slobbery Smooch From Your Pooch

Who can resist a puppy's kiss?
Who can resist a puppy's kiss? | Source

Lesson 5: Make Time For the Important Stuff

The average lifespan in dogs is 10-12 years, depending on the breed. Compare that with the average lifespan of 67.2 years for people worldwide (78.2 years for those in the United States).15

While it may seem like you have all the time in the world, some day you'll look back and realize it just wasn't enough.

Make the most out of the time you have by enjoying the simple pleasures, as dogs do — a good belly rub, a game of Frisbee, long walks with a friend, good conversation even if you don't say a word.

Dogs really do have it figured out. They are doggone smart, Man's Best Friend, and the best teachers indeed.

Doggone Tired

Make time for what matters.  There's nothing like a good nap!
Make time for what matters. There's nothing like a good nap! | Source

Notes

1McGrath, Jane. "The Beginning of a Beautiful Friendship: Canine Domestication." HowStuffWorks. Accessed October 10, 2013. http://science.howstuffworks.com/zoology/all-about-animals/animal-domestication3.htm.

2Pappas, Stephanie. "Canine Comfort: Do Dogs Know When You're Sad?" LiveScience.com. Last modified June 7, 2012. http://www.livescience.com/20823-canine-comfort-dogs-understand-emotion.html.

3Viegas, Jennifer. "Can Dogs Read Minds? Not Exactly." Discovery News. Last modified January 5, 2012. http://news.discovery.com/animals/zoo-animals/how-dogs-predict-intent-120105.htm.

4Hoyt, Alia. "HowStuffWorks "Can a dog really predict an epileptic seizure?"." HowStuffWorks. Accessed October 10, 2013. http://science.howstuffworks.com/zoology/mammals/dog-predict-seizure.htm.

It's all fun and games until someone ends up in a cone.
It's all fun and games until someone ends up in a cone. | Source

5Davis, Jennifer. "Vision in Dogs & People." University of Wisconsin - Stevens Point. Last modified 1998. http://www4.uwsp.edu/psych/dog/la/davis2.htm.

6Gowin, Joshua. "Agreeable? You’re More Likely to Benefit From Placebo." Psychology Today. Last modified January 26, 2013. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/you-illuminated/201302/agreeable-you-re-more-likely-benefit-placebo.

7Gullotta, Thomas P., and Martin Bloom. "The Encyclopedia of Primary Prevention and Health Promotion." Google Books. Last modified 2003. http://books.google.com/books?id=Elx37xzO0bsC&pg=PA697&lpg=PA697&dq=highly+agreeable+people+are+usually+happier+than+less+agreeable&source=bl&ots=Sn4528RX7o&sig=o_WaLPGs7ikO7FzmqttUc3P-xf0&hl=en&sa=X&ei=F1xXUvLhOu234AOVloDADA&ved=0CCkQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=highly%20agreeable%20people%20are%20usually%20happier%20than%20less%20agreeable&f=false.

8Beck, Judith S. "How Personality Can Influence Your Weight." The Huffington Post. Last modified December 21, 2011. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/judith-s-beck-phd/overweight_b_1158559.html.

9Sutin, A R., P. T. Costa , M. Uda, L. Ferrucci, D. Schlessinger, and A. Terracciano. "Personality and metabolic syndrome." Age 32, no. 4 (2010): 513-9. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20567927.

10The Berkeley Science Review. "The importance of being agreeable." Last modified June 6, 2012. http://sciencereview.berkeley.edu/the-importance-of-being-agreeable/.

11Markman, Art. "The Upside and Downside of Being Nice at Work." The Huffington Post. Last modified January 29, 2012. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/art-markman-phd/nice-people_b_1223492.html.

12American Pet Products Association (APPA). "Pet Industry Market Size & Ownership Statistics." Last modified 2013. http://www.americanpetproducts.org/press_industrytrends.asp.

13Worthington Jr., Everett L. "The New Science of Forgiveness." Greater Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life. Last modified 2004. http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_new_science_of_forgiveness.

14Tyson, Peter. "Dogs' Dazzling Sense of Smell." PBS: Public Broadcasting Service. Last modified October 4, 2012. http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/nature/dogs-sense-of-smell.html.

15Wikipedia. "List of countries by life expectancy." Last modified October 15, 2013. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_life_expectancy.

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      Julie K Henderson 2 years ago

      You are welcome. I also hope you have a great week.

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      FlourishAnyway 2 years ago from USA

      Julie - Now that is something to bark about. Thank you! Have a great week!

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      Julie K Henderson 2 years ago

      Bravo. This hub made my day. Dogs have so much to teach us. Voted up.

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      FlourishAnyway 2 years ago from USA

      ezzly - Thanks for tweeting and for taking the time to comment. Have a great day!

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      ezzly 2 years ago

      Santa paws ! I love it ! Tweeting this article :)

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      FlourishAnyway 2 years ago from USA

      Joyfulcrown - Dogs are such a pleasure to know, and I'm so glad you have one in your life. Thanks for reading and commenting. You and your pup have a great weekend!

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      Joyfulcrown 2 years ago

      Hi Flourish, I really enjoyed your hub. I have a Maltese who has brought me such great joy into my life. I learn so much from his unconditional love.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      vandynegl - And with the number of homeless dogs out there needing adoption, who can have just one? Thanks for reading and commenting.

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      vandynegl 3 years ago from Ohio Valley

      Absolutely beautiful! These lessons are so true! Just being with my dogs makes me happy! I honestly would not be able to have just one dog either. After I got Dog #2, there is no going back! Sure, they have their negative qualities, but to me, the positives far outweigh them!

      Thank you for writing this!

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Savvydating - Doggone it, thank you so much! I appreciate the kind compliments. Have a great weekend!

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      Torrs13 - Thanks for stopping by. Dogs are terrific friends and role models in that way.

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      firstday - Thank you for the accolades! Have a great weekend!

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      misterhollywood - Thank you for the kind kudos. Dogs are great teachers and friends. Have a great weekend.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      ologsinquito - Thanks so much for commenting. Your interest has encouraged a small flurry of activity which I appreciate! I have long wished that we could have a dog; perhaps when the cats go over that rainbow.

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      Yves 3 years ago

      All I have to say is that this hub is doggone good. (No surprise there since all your hubs are amazing) Who knew we could learn so many lessons from dogs? I like how you specified that these "dog traits" are helpful to humans---medically speaking. Also, your pictures are AWESOME and so very high on the cuteness scale!

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      Tori Canonge 3 years ago from California

      What an amazing hub! My boyfriend has a dog so I'm around him a lot. I notice that he enjoys comforting us whenever we may be sad and he likes to be close. I think one of the greatest things about dogs is their resilience and ability to forgive. I think we could all take some lessons from dogs!

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      R Beggs 3 years ago from Lincoln, Nebraska

      Thumbs up all the way. Wonderful!

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      John Hollywood 3 years ago from Hollywood, CA

      Hello, Flourish. This was an amazing hub and so much of what you shared here is very true! We can learn a lot from our pets! Voted up!

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      ologsinquito 3 years ago from USA

      I love these pictures. Our dog likes belly rubs a lot. He does not play well with others though. That sign fits him perfectly.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Rajan - So you're a dog person -- awesome! Jack Russells are energetic little companions, I hear! Thanks for reading, commenting, and sharing!

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      Rajan Singh Jolly 3 years ago from From Mumbai, presently in Jalandhar,INDIA.

      I can relate to many of the traits in dogs as I have a Jack Russel. Other information that I wasn't aware of I got by reading this truly informative and excellently presented hub.

      Really we need to learn a lot from these pets but I guess the most important is unconditional love, the love which when spread, can alleviate so much of unhappiness in this world.

      Sharing this hub.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Victoria -It would be impossible not to love any being that holds us in such high regard like dogs do. Thanks for reading and commenting!

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      Victoria Van Ness 3 years ago from Prescott Valley

      Oh, I couldn't agree more! I would never have understood this article before, as all I've ever owned are cats. However, about 2 years ago, we went and picked out my first puppy, a chocolate lab who turns 2 years old in another week and a half. Since then we went and got another, a yellow lab this time.

      I feel like I have learned more, and loved more, in this last two years than I ever have in my entire life. Dogs definitely make you a better person, whether you like it or not. :) Great article!

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Ellie - You're right. Four-legged friends are some of the best kinds! Thanks for reading and commenting.

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      Ellie Shay 3 years ago

      I really enjoyed this hub and the pictures are just too cute! I am a dog lover and have a 9 month old Dachshund at home. They are so in tune with you, like you stated in your hub. She knows when I don't feel good or when I am sad. They are truly the best friends!

      Thank you for this!

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Suzanne - Thanks for reading. You can always count on me for something a bit off-color. Glad you enjoyed this.

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      Suzanne Day 3 years ago from Melbourne, Victoria, Australia

      Well described! I was especially interested in the fact that dogs would rather run to someone who is crying, didn't know that, but it does give a good insight into the kindly doggy soul. Filled in your poll and thought the last choice was a little naughty!!! Voted up and funny.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Deborah - Thanks for reading and commenting. Isn't it wonderful to have someone who always think you're awesome -- even if they have four legs and sometimes eat things they shouldn't? Have a great day!

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      Deborah Neyens 3 years ago from Iowa

      Great hub! And I love the idea that my dog sees my "aura of awesomeness." At least somebody does. : )

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Better Yourself - I'm so happy that you found this helpful. Dogs are special animals, and I'm glad you rescued all of yours. (They rescue us back.) Have a wonderful New Year.

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      Better Yourself 3 years ago from North Carolina

      Love! What a wonderful read and something I related to all the way to the end. I have four precious pups, all rescued from various situations, and they have taught me a lot about love, life, patience, acceptance, trust, taking the time to have fun and sooo much more. I am so thankful for each of them and the better person I am with them! I enjoyed your pics, quotes, facts and video - Well done :)

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Crafty - That is so cute. Exhaling is a good way to relieve stress. We should all try it once in a while. Thanks for stopping by.

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      CraftytotheCore 3 years ago

      Back for a second comment which I forget to leave in my first. There is one thing dogs do to relieve stress. The exhale when stressed. It's so funny to watch. The dogs will be feeling pressured or act anxious about something such as a stranger coming over. But as soon as they realize everything is ok, they relax their bodies and exhale. They forget about it. I wish it was that easy for me! LOL

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Peg - I'm so happy this spoke to you. That video at the end is awesome, isn't it? I can certainly identify with your sentiments about them giving you a good reason to stay on this earth. I feel like that about my cats. It's good to need an animal (true friends) and to be needed by them.

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      Peg Cole 3 years ago from Dallas, Texas

      This was absolutely precious. Every picture made me want to say "Awwww". Each attribute was so entirely beautiful it brought tears to my eyes. I loved the video at the end.

      There've been times in my life when the only thing that kept me on this earth was my faithful companion, a dog. I loved this hub. So deep, so true.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      AliciaC - I appreciate your kindness and support. Dogs are excellent buddies, making life much more enriching and teaching us, too, along the way!

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Suhail and my dog - That is one of the nicest compliments I've received. A very genuine thank you for reading and for the feedback. Have a wonderful day.

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      Suhail Zubaid aka Clark Kent 3 years ago from Mississauga, ON

      One of the best dog related articles I have read ever, and with most beautiful accompanying pictures!

      There is so much information that I will need to read this interesting article over and over again to find my treats here.

      Thanks for sharing.

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      Linda Crampton 3 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      This is an excellent hub, FlourishAnyway. It's filled with great information and advice, and the dogs in the photos are adorable! Thank you for including all the useful facts and for the interesting format. I'll share this hub.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Jaye - Sadly, you're right. From one human to another, I hope the world is treating you well these days.

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      Jaye Denman 3 years ago from Deep South, USA

      I came back to make another comment. I realized that dogs have much better qualities than some of the worst examples of human nature I've encountered. They aren't mean, negative, abusive, unfair, unkind, inconsiderate, slanderous, criminal nor do they have any of the other obnoxious traits exhibited by some humans. Dogs are always beautiful, no matter their breed (or mix), and their love and loyalty are unbounded. Humans can definitely learn from dogs!

      Jaye

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Jeannieinabottle - Thanks for reading and commenting. I often wish I had a dog, too, but with all my cats I have to settle for visits with the next door neighbor's dog.

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      Jeannie InABottle 3 years ago from Baltimore, MD

      This hub is so adorable! There really is a lot to be learned from dogs. Sometimes I wish I was a dog because it seems like they are living the good life. :-)

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      ologsinquito - Thanks for reading, commenting and sharing. Dogs are definitely good for a good belly rub.

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      ologsinquito 3 years ago from USA

      This is very cute. Our dog likes belly rubs too. I'm pinning this to my Dogs and Puppies board.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Frank - Thank you so much for your kind praise and encouragement. The editors haven't gotten around to this one yet, but in due time I hope they will. Thanks for reading and commenting. You are very talented yourself, sir!

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      Frank Atanacio 3 years ago from Shelton

      this was an amazing, craftily and clever hub for so many reasons.. I hope this was one of the hubs chosen as an Editor's best.. if not the Editors may need some lessons ..:) Great share

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Carolyn - Thanks for reading and sharing. The compliment means a lot, particularly coming from you! Have a great evening!

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      Carolyn Emerick 3 years ago

      I love all of your "lessons learned from" different animals articles! They aren't simple fluff you might expect from something like this, they are actually deep, thoughtful, positive and uplifting, while also educational. Upvoted and sharing :-)

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      JayeWisdom - How very nice of you! Thank you again!

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      Jaye Denman 3 years ago from Deep South, USA

      I saw this hub on my feed again today and had to visit it again to read all the quotes and enjoy the wonderful photos. Truly awesome!

      Jaye

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Heidi - Thanks for reading and commenting. I'm glad you have such wonderful four-legged friends (and teachers) in your life.

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      Heidi Thorne 3 years ago from Chicago Area

      What amazing photos you've chosen to accompany a useful hub! (Okay, I've got 2 goldens so I'm biased.) So, so true. Thank you for sharing this with us!

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      DDE - Thanks for sharing, commenting and reading. Dogs are certainly awesome teachers and so enjoyable to know. Have a doggone great day!

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway, Lessons Learned From Dogs: How To Live Your Best Life, is a great hub with such lovely photos, and their skills are worth learning from, it is easy to pick up these skills. Dogs are my best pets and I enjoy reading hubs about dogs. You have created a useful hub, voted up! Facebook LIKED and shared, tweeted.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Crafty - Your son sounds like he really found his four-legged soul-mate. They are soothing and soulful companions. The pig sounds fun too, and I'm sure they all appreciate the rescue! Thanks for reading and commenting, as always.

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      CraftytotheCore 3 years ago

      This is awesome! I loved these two words that you wrote above, unapologetically unpretentious. I just love that. I have 3 dogs of my own, and I can say that my son with Autism benefits from them greatly. Before his diagnosis, he was having a hard time relating to animals. We had gone to the pound and adopted a pot-belly pig. He loved the pig. They could run around together with the pig harnessed and it was so much fun watching the two together. But having a dog by his side really helped him calm down and focus on his homework. It was an amazing transition.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Thelma - Thanks for reading and commenting. I bet Angus was a good dog and taught you much (tail wag).

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      Thelma Alberts 3 years ago from Germany

      Very well done! Beautiful photos as well. I enjoyed reading this and I miss my dog Angus right now. We surely learned a lot from our dogs. Thanks for sharing. Have a lovely week!

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Deeds - You are super agreeable! Old dog, new tricks? Glad to be pinned and shared!

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      Deeda 3 years ago

      Super Hub Flourish! All the good things already said. I second those comments.

      +++ Well organized, referenced, and presented.

      Pinned and shared.

      Deeda

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      LKMore01 - So glad you enjoyed this. Dogs are indeed terrific. Isn't that video amazing? Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to comment!

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      LKMore01 3 years ago

      Beautiful, beautiful tribute to our Zen Masters, Flourish. You have covered every aspect of why we value and love our relationships with dogs and so much more. This was truly a pleasure to read. As I reflected on my time with my "teacher" I felt a deep connection with human beings and how we relate to each other through a dogs eyes. (and why some of us would rather spend more time with dogs over humans )Admittedly, I held it together until I watched the video and shed a few happy tears. Indeed dogs lives are too short and they are a constant reminder for us to live in this moment and recognize what truly matters. Brilliant.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Jaye - Thanks for reading and sharing. Dogs certainly are wonderful teachers. Have a great Sunday.

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      Shauna L Bowling 3 years ago from Central Florida

      Flourish, I must apologize for addressing my comment to Liz. My bad! However, you give me food for thought about Zorba. He was way cool!

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      Jaye Denman 3 years ago from Deep South, USA

      Flourish - This is a wonderful hub, start to finish, and I enjoyed every word and picture in it. Although there are multiple messages contained herein, the whole provides both wisdome and a "feel-good" effect to this reader.

      Yes, we can learn a lot from dogs!

      Voted Up++++ and shared

      Jaye

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Liz - Coming from the Dog Lady Extraordinare that is quite a compliment. I am glad I did right by you and your favorite four-legged buddies. Thanks for reading, voting and sharing!

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      btrbell - Thanks for your kind words and for stopping by. Although I'm also a cat lady by ownership, I do value dogs and have volunteered with them with spay/neuter outreach. They are such different animals, both wonderful in their own ways.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      What a beautiful story of Zorba! You can tell how much you loved him and what a fully integrated member of the family he was from the vivid memories that you have of him. They are so engaging that you should consider writing a hub about them.

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      Shauna L Bowling 3 years ago from Central Florida

      Liz, I just love this post. You know I'm a cat person, but I lived with dogs when I lived at home. To this day, I pay attention to how my cats react to strangers (to them) that come into my home. If they don't react well, I know I should take another look at how far the relationship with this person would or should go.

      When I was in high school we had a black Great Dane. He was awesome and very protective of me and my brother and sister. But oh so loving!

      Zorba was of champion bloodline and huge. He was 36" from the shoulder down and stood over 6' tall when on his hind legs. He deemed himself my dog. He slept in my room but wasn't allowed on my bed with its white eyelet bedspread. Whenever the family would go on an outing he would help himself to my bed for his afternoon nap. Of course, as soon as he'd hear the car pull up, he'd skedaddle off the bed and act ever so innocent! Little black hairs on my bedspread always gave him up. I didn't care, but Mom did!

      Not many kids grow up with a gargantuan dog. Many of our friends who didn't know Zorba were intimidated and, quite frankly, afraid of him. So, at Halloween we'd dress him up in one of my dad's undershirts and a pair of silk boxers. Zorba always answered the door with us whenever the doorbell rang. The trick or treaters were amused once they realized a dog whose face stood above their own was greeting them. He was great fun. I have such fond memories of Zorba.

      Sadly, he died a week after I left home. My mom swears he died of a broken heart. He was 7, which is average for Danes. I'll never forget him and I'll love him until the day I join him again.

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      Elizabeth Parker 3 years ago from Las Vegas, NV

      There were so many wonderful things about this hub that I don't know where to begin. From the writing, to the information to the pictures. All awesome. I love the part about being tuned in. My dogs react if I do anything out of the ordinary and can tell when I can use a little comforting. They are awesome. Thanks for posting. Voting up and sharing!

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      Randi Benlulu 3 years ago from Mesa, AZ

      Sweet, sweet, sweet! Oh, how I miss having dog when I read this! What a great, comprehensive hub full of fun tidbits and pictures! Thank you for sharing!

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Faith Reaper - Thank you so much. Although I have cats myself, I admire dogs' friendliness and have always been the friend to neighbors' dogs. I love all the dog quotes. Couldn't choose just one! Thank you as always for reading and being your usual supportive self.

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      Faith Reaper 3 years ago from southern USA

      Oh, Flourish, this is the best doggone hub ever on Man's Best Friend! We can certainly learn so much from our best friends indeed. My dogs over the years have taught me of that unconditional love, acceptance, listening without talking and how to be a better friend. I love all of the quotes included here, especially: "The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail instead of his tongue."

      This is such a delightful read full of insight that we, all humans, should take to heart. I love your photos and humor throughout.

      Brilliant!

      Voted up and across and sharing.

      Hugs, Faith Reaper

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      Bill - Glad you and your shih tzu enjoyed this. It's an honor to be admired by a dog, isn't it? I'm glad you have an awesome one in your life to teach you the important things that only they really can. Thanks for reading, commenting and sharing!

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      Bill De Giulio 3 years ago from Massachusetts

      Hi Flourish. Well you made my day with this one. As I type this our 11 year old shih tzu is lying right up against me. I must say that we have learned more from her over the past 11 years than I can recount. She goes pretty much everywhere with us except overseas. Every day when I get home from work is a celebration as she greets me like I've been gone for months. Unless someone has had a dog in their life I'm not sure that they can fully realize how special a relationship it can be.

      The photos you selected for this hub are so appropriate and are priceless. Thank you for sharing this. Voted up, shared, pinned, etc....