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Motto for Life: How to Choose and Use a Motto
Change Your Life With a Motto
What Is a Motto?
Everyone should have a motto. A motto is like a friend, a good pal, a mentor—someone who is always at your side and who is always on your side. When you hit the wall, when you crash and burn, when you suffer a loss of confidence, your motto gets you going again.
- A motto encapsulates a philosophy of life; it tells you how to live. It is a guiding principle. When you have a motto, you truly have words to live by.
- A motto is a phrase or short sentence, usually punchy and catchy, that sums up the kind of person you are. Or, the kind of person you want to be.
- A motto tells you what to do. A motto is a command reduced to its very essence. There is an action verb in it, either explicit or implicit.
This Motto Tells Me To Find A Way.
What Is the Reason to Have an Overall Motto?
To get you thinking about mottos and the role they can play in your life, let me tell you about my motto.
It breaks the rule about being short and pithy, but perhaps it is the “exception that proves the rule” because this motto has helped me so much throughout my life.
My Overall Motto
If you can’t go under it, go over it.
If you can’t go over it, go round it.
If you can’t go round it, go through it.
When I am feeling disappointed and discouraged, my motto reminds me that I am the type of person who does not give up. I’m persistent, or as some people might say, stubborn. My motto reminds me to keep trying until I succeed.
We have all heard the adage, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try, try again.” However, if I simply keep trying, there’s another adage that could describe the outcome: “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome."
My motto takes it one step further. It says to keep trying, but it also says to keep trying different things. It reminds me that there is more than one way to reach my goal. Go under it, go over it, go around it, and if all else fails, just punch right through it. “Punching through it” means taking a risk, doing something bold, doing something unconventional.
When I’m at an impasse and don’t know what to do, when I think there is no way out, no way to do some impossible task, this motto is like a pep talk. It encourages me, but it also demands something of me. It demands they I don’t give up until I find a way to get done what I need or want to get done. And then, as Nike advies, I just do it.
Sometimes Life Is Like a Bucking Bronco
Why Is an Annual Motto Important?
Who says you can only have one motto?
Every year, sometime during December, I adopt a motto for the coming year. The motto reminds me about my goals for the year. It’s like a New Year’s resolution, but better, in that it is not forgotten before January is even over. The motto becomes my compass for the year.
I have had dozens of annual mottos. A few years back, my annual motto was:
Ride ‘em Cowboy!
I chose that one because I looking at a horrible year. I had to deal with a serious health issue, the recession was crashing my business, and I had to sell a house and then buy a new one and move. The motto was to remind me that when life is like a bucking bronco, all you can do is hold on and ride it out.
Some of my other recent mottos are more self-explanatory.
Live! Laugh! Love!
Reimagine! Reinvent! Reengage!
Seek Truth. Live Boldly. Create Beauty.
Dare to Dream. Act for Impact.
Steady as She Goes.
Yes We Can
What Are Some Famous Mottos?
Once you start to think about mottos, you will see them everywhere. Many famous people have mottos, businesses have mottos, organizations have mottos.
Barack Obama during the presidential campaign of 2008 said:
Yes We Can
I like to think this was his motto. When he lost a primary or had some other setback, I imagine him saying “Yes, We Can” to himself. When he repeated those words, it gave him the strength to keep going.
Once Obama became president, I imagined him sitting in the Oval Office saying it every day. He needed all the help he could get to deal with bringing two wars to a successful conclusion, to focus on making quality health care available to every American, to lead the country out of the worst recession since The Great Depression, and to do everything else a president has to deal with.
Other leaders have also gotten through tough times with a motto. Winston Churchill, the British prime minister during WW II, said:
Never Never Never Never Give Up.
Four “nevers.” With London being bombed every night and the war looking really bad for Great Britain, perhaps those words kept him going. He needed all four of those “nevers” to keep his determination to win.
Keep Your Eyes on the Prize.
How did Martin Luther King keep going during his struggle for civil rights? He said: Keep Your Eyes on the Prize.
When they called out the dogs, when they turned on the fire hoses, when he was beaten, when he was sitting in jail, I like to think he told himself “Keep Your Eyes on the Prize,” and that is how he kept going.
Keep Hope Alive!
After the death of Martin Luther King, when Jesse Jackson continued the fight for civil rights, he also had a motto to help him keep going. His motto was: Keep Hope Alive!
“Keep Hope Alive!” is a great motto when engaged in a long ongoing struggle to achieve a goal.
To Thine Own Self Be True.
Literature gives some examples of mottos. Shakespeare in his play, Hamlet, said: To thine own self be true.
A great motto! Be yourself! Accept yourself! Don’t try to be who you think others want you to be. Don’t be a phony or a hypocrite. Don’t live a lie. Be true to yourself.
All For One and One For All.
In the novel, The Three Musketeers by Alexandre Dumas, the characters in the novel said: All for one and one for all.
I like that one because it reminds me of the importance of team work and reciprocity. By working together, by helping others, I also help myself. I help others and they help me, and together we achieve our individual and group goals.
E Pluribus Unum
Consider the motto that the founding fathers chose for the United States of America: E Pluribus Unum
It is Latin for “From Many, One.” I know that this motto guided them as they birthed this new country and helped her to survive. It probably meant: We are thirteen separate states, but we must strive to become one country. I think E Pluribus Unum”also meant we are many different cultures—English, French, Dutch, Spanish, to name a few—but we must become one people.
In 1956, congress voted to change the motto of the United States. The current motto is: In God We Trust
In my opinion, the new motto of the United States is not as strong as the original one. It is more passive. It tells us to trust in something outside of our selves instead of urging us to take action.
United States motto
Which motto do you prefer for the United States?
How Is a Motto Different From a Goal or Slogan?
Do not confuse a motto with a slogan, an adage, an affirmation. Each of these may help to define, inspire, and motivate you, but they lack a call to action.
When Barack Obama said “Yes, We Can,” he had a powerful motto. When he said “Change We Can Believe In,” he had a slogan. There is no call to action in “Change We Can Believe In.”
When the U.S. Army said in an ad, “Be all that you can be,” they had a really strong motto. They were urging soldiers to aim high and succeed. A few years later they changed the phrase to “An Army of One.” It’s not a motto; there is no command in it. And it is not even appropriate--an army relies on teamwork, not individualism.
How Can You Find Your Motto?
It is my belief that you do not choose a motto; the motto chooses you. Each year, around the beginning of December, I tell myself that it is time to find a motto for the next year. Within a few days, or at most a few weeks, a motto floats into my consciousness, and I immediately recognize that it is the right motto for me. These are the magic words that will first define my goals, and then focus me on achieving those goals.
My most recent motto is "Become Who I Am". A friend showed me a poem he wrote. This phrase was in the poem. It leaped off the page, and I knew I had found my motto.
You may already have a motto without knowing it--the words that come to mind when you need motivation--but you just don’t call them a motto. Take those words, write them down, put them where you will see them every day. When you recognize those words as your motto, they will have so much more power to motivate you.
If you don’t have a motto, just think about mottos, and wait for one to choose you. It won’t be too long before you have a new and powerful ally in your life—your motto.
A Swedish Proverb Provides Ideas
A Motto Or New Year's Resolutions?
New Year's Resolutions are like a long To-Do List. They are boring. They nag you.. No wonder they are forgotten before the end of January.
Choose a motto instead of a New Year's Resolution. A motto inspires you. Choose a broad motto that encompasses all of your goals. Suppose your resolutions are: Lose weight, get a better job, and don't lose my temper so much. Your motto could be: Be a Better Me. The first is just a list to remind you of your faults; the second is up-lifting and inspirational.
Please take this poll about mottos.
Do you have a personal motto?
© 2014 Catherine Giordano