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Never wish to be someone else. Be Happy with who you are.

Updated on October 23, 2012

You should never wish to be in someone else's shoes.


All you need is to be yourself, to be content and happy with your life.

I learned in my own life, sometimes people can be envious with the way I live my life.

The reason why?

Because I "got out" to find a way in.

I would never trade my life with someone else or want to be in someone's else's shoes.

I get up everyday and work just like everyone else, but the big difference;

being able to work on my dreams.

It isn't all about luck, it is being blessed, because of hard work.

But, I'm blessed, because of my beliefs and I am on the good side of the "Force".

Ok, so I just referenced something from the film "Star Wars" but you should get what

I mean.

What I also believe is, if you really work hard, you can achieve anything.

I know a lot of my friends, that work on films, get film roles all the time,

and not just extra work.

I don't wish to be them, because some of the roles they do, I wouldn't

want to do.

So I look for the ones that suit me.

Now I know a lot of people think it is so easy just to work on a film set.

Actually films and such, it is all about the magic and final product,

that makes an audience believe in a story, but never really knows,

that you work sometimes 12 to 14 hours a day or longer.

It isn't easy working in films, and it is quite tedious and you

have to have a lot of patient, to keep doing he same thing,

over and over and over again.

I think what a possible solution to being happy and content,

just do what you love.

If you think about it, when most people have to work in jobs,

they hate, they must be miserable.

You can't seriously tell me your happy if you work day in

and day out doing something you hate.

One of the solutions;

work in a job, until your dream job is your only job.

That is exactly what I'm doing.

I'm also slowly learning about how to edit videos, on my own,

and others things, so I will become more of an asset.

I think it would nice to add on an actor's resume,

other things, besides, acting and stunts, things,

that are behind the camera and get to know the

industry more.

I think it might be fun to direct and actually,

in the process of getting my own film together,

to make my own film and dedicate it to my

idol and the one man I want to work with,

Jackie Chan.

Nothing is impossible, and once again,

repeating myself, to remind people,

all you have to do is to work, plain and simple.

Of course you know that some people will never be happy.

They will envy you, especially when your happy, but

don't worry, cause if you think about it, they don't exist in

your personal life, so they are only cutting their own nose to

spite their face, because of your own personal happiness.

When you are happy, for no reason at all, it is the best feeling.

This is how I feel, practically every single day, so now you

know why, I don't want to trade places with anyone.

I live with the freedom, to breathe.

What I am talking about, is the fact, that some people,

will be stuck in a box and suffocate, which they will

have to struggle with their whole lives.

I don't have to worry about that, cause I don't

have to live in a box.

I think the first thing, one must find, within themselves,

is happiness, and that can happen.

All you have to is to ask the universe for it and

anything, and it will happen.


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  • Shelly Nun-Chucks profile imageAUTHOR

    Shelly NunChucks Ninja 

    5 years ago from worldwide

    thank you very much, glad I could share :)

  • Eiddwen profile image


    5 years ago from Wales

    A wonderful hub and oh yes so very true. Thanks for sharing this gem and I look forward to so many more to come.



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