Nine advices for your life
What is life?
When faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you,but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air,you suddenly know what you are hoping for.
There is always a little truth behind every "JUST KIDDING", a little knowledge behind every "I DON'T KNOW", a little emotion behind every "I DON'T CARE", and a little pain behind every "IT'S OK".
There is always a little truth behind every "JUST KIDDING", a little knowledge behind every "I DON'T KNOW", a little emotion behind every "I DON'T CARE", and a little pain behind every "IT'S OK".
Life is always unpredictable, but the truth is unchanged, the ethical principle is unchanged. There are 9 advices for your life as following:
1. To people who are unkind to you, don't sweat it. Through your lifetime, no one is obligated to be nice to you, besides your mom and me. As for those who are nice to you, you ought to pay more attention in addition to treasure and gratitude. Because, everything people do that has a reason behind. Do not regard as real friends before you take time to understand them.
2. No one is irreplaceable, and there is nothing you absolutely must have. With that in mind, even when you lose the people or things that you love and treasure the most in the future, you would understand that it's not that big of a deal. Life goes on. Treasure what you have and don't miss too much of what you once had.
3. Life is short. Time cannot be reclaimed once gone. Try to enjoy the every second of life and don't waste this in small things. The earlier you start treasure your life, the earlier you can enjoy it. Instead of hoping for longevity, start enjoying life early.
4. Love is nothing but a feeling, which will definitely alter and decrease over time and moods. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the beloved who is won't make you cry. Don't over expect the beauty of Love, nor over exaggerate the pain when you lose it.
5. Although a lot of achievers received high education, you might not be successful if you don't study hard. The knowledge which you learn is a indispensible weapon for you. A person can be starting from scratch but should not be unarmed.
6. The duty of parents to you have already finished since you are old enough to shift for myself. By bus or BENZ, having shark fin soup or Silk noodles, it's depends on yourself, you should be responsibility for yourself.
7. You can require yourself to be accountable to others, but don't expect accountability from others to you. You can require yourself to be nice to other, but don't expect the same from others to you. Do as you would be done by. You would face a lot of unnecessary troubles if you fail to recognize it.
8. There is no such thing as a free lunch. You should be cautious of accepting others' gifts or treats, brutal facts tell us that the world will not fall out of thin air a pie, all the world will have to rely on their own to fight, to struggle.
9. Nothing is more vital than your relatives.
By Cong Zhou 25-09-2010