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Please Pay Attention to Your Mental Health—an Important Reminder.

Updated on June 28, 2020
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Self-improvement is an ongoing process throughout the journey of life. Chitrangada shares her beliefs and experiences to help others.

Mental Health Matters—Take care of yourself.
Mental Health Matters—Take care of yourself. | Source

Mental Health Matters—Just a Reminder.

Just when the entire World is finding ways and means to save precious lives—how would you feel, when you hear the news of some promising young boy or girl, ending their life, by committing suicide?
Yes, it’s shocking and frustrating to hear such unfortunate news.

Why, why at all?
What could have happened?
Why was there no sign, that she or he is going to take that extreme step?
Was she or he lonely?
Was she or he under mental stress or depression?
It’s hard to believe, that she or he was suffering from any of these situations.

We keep on hearing the multitalented, young boys or girls, students committing suicide. They look happy otherwise, successful, and what not?

So many questions do the rounds, and everyone tries to guess the answers.

But, a precious life is lost by then, forever, never to return.

How important it is, to seek an expert help, or a counsellor, before it’s too late?
How important it is, to talk to someone, and share, or confide with someone, so that the precious life is not lost?

Mental Stress can be fatal. Take care of yourself.
Mental Stress can be fatal. Take care of yourself. | Source

If you know someone, who is suffering due to mental stress, encourage them to do the following activities.

  1. Talk to a counsellor or a therapist.
  2. Exercise or Physical activity or Yoga.
  3. Meditation.
  4. Go Outdoors, meet people, socialise.
  5. Sleep well.
  6. Avoid addictions.
  7. Avoid self medication.
  8. Keep yourself busy in creative activities.
  9. Talk to your family, or friends.
  10. Be positive, take life easy.
  11. Acceptance of yourself, and your circumstances.
  12. Eat well, have a healthy lifestyle.
  13. Play some sport.
  14. Don’t dwell in the past. Everyday brings new hope, new opportunities.
  15. Have ambitions, but be realistic.
  16. Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst.

Mental Health-Talk to the counsellor
Mental Health-Talk to the counsellor | Source

It’s Important to Share Your Worries With Someone Close.

  • I am not a counsellor or a psychotherapist. But, I am a parent, and have been a teacher. Therefore, I understand that the mental health has to be given importance, from the very beginning.
  • Make your children close to you. A combination of love, care, concern, discipline and strictness is important.
  • We must inculcate the habit of sharing in our children, whether it’s their worries and anxieties, or their joys and achievements.
  • It’s unfortunate to see, that the emotional connection is not found these days. I wouldn’t say, in all the relationships, but in many of them.
  • We must give patient hearing to the children, teenagers and the young generations.
  • It doesn’t matter, if solutions of the problems are not found. But, sharing the concerns with someone can ease the mental stress and the anxiety level.
  • It’s essential to make the young people understand, that one doesn’t live only for himself/ herself. So many people, who love them, who care for them, will be affected, if something happens to them.
  • From the very beginning, the children must be trained to handle pressures.
  • Life comes with it’s package of success and failures. One should be able to remain composed in both the situations.
  • Testing times do not last forever. The children should be trained to take lessons from the failures and move on.
  • Problems, worries, failures are part of life. If good times do not last forever, even the adverse or difficult times do not last forever.
  • It’s important to teach the young people, the importance of, ‘LIFE.’
  • Life is the most precious gift, and problems are a part of life.
  • If something adverse happens, that doesn’t mean—‘End the life.’



Hear and Help. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
Hear and Help. Take care of yourself and your loved ones. | Source

To Conclude:

Mental illness, anxiety, depression is fatal. It can happen, and it does happen in this fast paced society. It can take a person to such a dark corner, that he or she feels alone and lonely.
And, ultimately they take the extreme step of ending their life.
We, as a society can help. Hear them, Help them, comfort them. So that, no more precious lives are lost.
Life is a gift, so beautiful and precious.

I am not concerned, whether this article is read by five people or five hundred people. But, even if it makes a positive difference to five people, it will satisfy me.

Make sure, that your loved ones are content and peaceful, and not suffering in any way. Physical illness can be seen, but mental illness can’t be seen.
But, it can be heard.
Make phone calls, video calls, somehow stay connected.
Keep track of your family, friends, neighbours, acquaintances—are they feeling well?

Knock on the door and talk to your neighbours, if you sense something is wrong.

Make sure, they are not suffering from some kind of mental illness, anxiety or depression.
You might save a life, by doing so.

Insights and depression, By Sadhguru. Source: YouTube

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2020 Chitrangada Sharan

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    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      4 days ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you BRENDA, for sharing your thoughts on this important topic.

      The present times are of course difficult times, but even otherwise there is a lot of pressure on the young generation, in personal and professional life. Some of them succumb to that, which is so sad. I wish they could talk to someone and get over it.

      Thank you so much for reading and commenting. Take care.

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      BRENDA ARLEDGE 

      4 days ago from Washington Court House

      Chitrangada,

      It saddens my heart when I hear of a teenage suicide or anyone for that matter.

      It happens alot around my little community.

      Your article is well needed.

      You point out alot of good things to keep in mind.

      I wish we could reach them before it is too late.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      8 days ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Nithya, for sharing your thoughts on this sensitive topic. It really hurts so much, when young people are not able to handle the pressure, and end their life. The parents are devastated for the rest of their lives.

      It’s important to keep on talking to the children, even if they don’t like it. I see lot of people disconnected with their children. That’s sad.

      Thank you so much for reading and commenting.

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      Nithya Venkat 

      8 days ago from Dubai

      Life is a precious gift; we should make sure that our near and dear ones are okay. It is sad to read about suicides, if only someone could have reached out to them they could have been saved. Thank you for sharing this article, it reminds us to look out for people who need help.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      11 days ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Marlene, for your thoughtful and insightful comments.

      Yes, being successful is no guarantee of happiness. I believe, it must be few moments of desperation, which results in such unfortunate and sad happenings. Who knows, once the life is lost, we can just speculate.

      Thank you for reading and commenting on this article.

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      Marlene Bertrand 

      11 days ago from USA

      It is always sad to me when someone ends their life, especially when they are perceived as "successful" people. I think, sometimes, depression has nothing to do with what is happening in someone's life. I think it can (not always) have something to do with hormonal imbalance. I believe that when the serotonin levels are low, sadness and depression can sink in. However, in any event, all of the measures you have outlined in your article are important to remember and apply.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 

      13 days ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Devika, for your positive thoughts. Yes, I endorse your views.

      Appreciate your kind words of appreciation and support. Many thanks for reading and commenting.

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      Devika Primić 

      13 days ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      I am positive about my life and make sure to spend more time outdoors. I feel good when outdoors and socializing. It is important to be this way as one can easily fall into a stressful life. Thank you for a well written hub on an important topic.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you MsDora, for reading and commenting on this article. Yes, sadly there are many cases of frustration and depression, especially among the young generation. I just feel, they should get timely help, to come out of this situation.

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Much appreciated.

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      Dora Weithers 

      2 weeks ago from The Caribbean

      Chitrangada, there are so many reasons that people suffer from despair. Sorry to hear about the suicide of this artist. You give very wise counsel, which we should all heed.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you The Sampsons, for reading and sharing your thoughts on this subject.

      It’s difficult to comment on, what was going on in the mind of the person, who took this extreme step. But, I do believe that we should try to make the children mentally strong, from the very beginning. They should be taught to share their anxieties, with someone, and not suffer alone, in isolation. Things might be easier to handle in this way, and tragedies like this could be avoided.

      Thank you so much for commenting. Much appreciated.

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      The Sampsons 

      2 weeks ago from The Ozarks, Missouri

      Such a tragic loss. A permanent solution to a temporary problem, whatever he experienced as his problems.

      The song "Starry, Starry Night" (Vincent) has a line - "This world was never meant for one as beautiful you".

      The world with all the pressure s, expectations, and competition is too harsh for some people to cope. There has to be a way(s) to overcome this. But, I don't know what it is.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you M G Singh ji, for reading the article and commenting.

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      MG Singh 

      2 weeks ago from Singapore

      Very topical subject and well presented. Reaching out to a person in this state of mind is the most important thing.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank You FlourishAnyway, for reading and sharing your concern on this subject.

      You are right that many youngsters are doing it. It’s tragic that they don’t talk, don’t share their frustrations with their family or friends and take the extreme step.

      Thank you so much for sharing your comments.

    • FlourishAnyway profile image

      FlourishAnyway 

      2 weeks ago from USA

      I have known several people who have died by suicide and others who have attempted. “Why” is the most haunting question.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Peggy, for reading the article and commenting.

      I agree with you that it’s an all time problem, and not necessarily during the pandemic situation.

      There is so much mental pressure, the pressure to be successful, then to retain that. There is a lack of communication, or emotional connect, in many families. I just wish, that people care for each other more, talk often, give a patient hearing to the affected ones, so that such tragic things don’t happen.

      Thank you so much Peggy, for sharing your insightful comments. Take care.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you beta @Aditya, for reading and sharing your thoughts. I agree with you. Love you.

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      Peggy Woods 

      2 weeks ago from Houston, Texas

      Your article about a young man that took his life by suicide is sad. The topic of suicide prevention appears more in the news these days because of the pandemic. However, it happens all too often. Thanks for raising awareness about this mental health condition.

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      Aditya 

      2 weeks ago

      Very valid points. One should talk to people one feels are closest. People also should be kind and listen to other people. Very nicely written Maa !

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Alicia, for reading the article and sharing your comments.

      Yes, pandemic or no pandemic, there are so many who are suffering from mental anxiety or depression. The reasons can be so many. It’s important to keep track of the loved ones, the family and the friends. It’s important to communicate, to stay connected.

      Thank you so much for reading. Much appreciated.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Prantika, for reading the article and sharing your valuable thoughts.

      You have brought out the dilemma of the persons, who are suffering from mental depression, very well. Yes, it’s difficult to imagine, what kind of thoughts must be going in their minds. If they were heard, by the right people, the situation may have been different. But all this is so sad, so tragic, and so devastating for the family.

      Thank you so much for your insightful comments. Take care.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank You Ericdierker, for reading and commenting. Much appreciated.

      Thanks and have a good day.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Manatita, for reading the article and sharing your thoughts.

      Yes, it’s a matter of great concern in today’s world, pandemic or otherwise. The young people have to handle a lot of mental pressure. There is cut throat competition, and no time to communicate. Everyone wants to reach the top, and if they are unable to get there, they go into depression. If they talk and share their concerns with their close ones, counsellors or self help groups, such tragedies can be avoided.

      Appreciate your kind and thoughtful words. Thank you so much.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you so much Lorna, for reading and sharing your valuable thoughts.

      I agree with you that human contact and human touch is so important. This pandemic has snatched this away from everyone. Maintaining social distancing and all that. Some people are stuck up alone in isolation. It’s not easy for anyone. Ending the precious life is no solution.

      My children are working from home, but they miss going to their office, especially their colleagues. It’s good that you have restarted going to your clinic.

      Thank you and take care.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you so much Bill, for reading the article and your encouraging words.

      Good to know that you found this useful. Many thanks for commenting.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Pamela, for your encouraging words.

      You are right about this, that this Pandemic has left many people depressed, and anxious. When will this end, is difficult to predict, at this point of time. It’s a test of everyone’s patience and perseverance. That’s why, it’s important to keep ourselves busy and engaged in some or the other activities. It’s so important to remain connected with the loved ones, family and friends, and keep track of their well-being.

      How tragic it is to end a precious life like that, and how the family members may be feeling?

      Thank you for reading and commenting. Much appreciated.

    • ChitrangadaSharan profile imageAUTHOR

      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Rosina, for your thoughtful comments.

      Yes, we as a society can help. In certain circumstances, it’s easy to fall apart. How I wish, that these people, who take this extreme step, could talk to someone, be heard by someone. No one in the right frame of mind, could decide to end the precious life. There is a lack of communication, even in close relationships, and that’s so sad.

      You are right about helping yourself, and then helping others. Being mentally strong is important.

      Thank you for sharing your valuable thoughts.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 weeks ago from New Delhi, India

      Thank you Liz Westwood, for reading the article and sharing your thoughts. It’s a matter of great concern, when precious lives are lost like this.

      Appreciate your valuable comments. Thank you.

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      Linda Crampton 

      3 weeks ago from British Columbia, Canada

      You've shared some important advice, Chitrangada. This is a difficult time for many people, but even when there is no pandemic, we need to be aware of people who need help. Thank you for raising awareness of the situation.

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      Prantika Samanta 

      3 weeks ago from Kolkata, India

      It is a shocking news and coming to terms with such a huge loss is difficult. He was one of the country's finest and talented actors.

      Depression is painful and dealing with it is not easy. Smiling faces are sometimes deceptive as they hide their pains. Opening up to someone is also not that easy maybe fearing that the person will not be understood and will be judged. Lending ears with the intention to listen to them without judging them may help them feel relieved. Professional help if required must be taken.

      Thank you for spreading awareness and for your suggestions.

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      Eric Dierker 

      3 weeks ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Thanks much. This is really cogent and carries a very important message. I will think on this today.

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      manatita44 

      3 weeks ago from london

      This is a very big problem around the world and probably worst in western countries. Certainly we have many groups looking into it here and very active.

      Your ideas and advice are necessary for all as we are all affected somehow. Sorry to hear about this young man. So sad! You conclude with much Love. Om Shanti!

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      Lorna Lamon 

      3 weeks ago

      I have noticed an increase in mental health issues due in part to being in lockdown. Isolation can be extremely debilitating to those who suffer mental illness. Keeping in touch with friends, family or people you know who are on their own is so important.

      Even though I was working from home, it is that human contact that is so crucial and thankfully I am back in the clinic. Your article highlights the tragedy of suicide and the suffering. It also raises awareness of mental health in general with your valuable advice.

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      Bill Holland 

      3 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      A very important article. Thank you for raising awareness about this public health concern, and blessings to you always.

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      Pamela Oglesby 

      3 weeks ago from Sunny Florida

      Considering how hard life is at this point around the worls, I think we may be seeing more suicides. That is very sad.

      Your well-written, beautiful article gives people many ways to treat their depression, anxiety or mental illness. It is important to talk to someone when feeling that way as you said. Suicide is a waste of a life and it hurts family and all the people that care for that person. Thank you for a very good article, Chitrangada.

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      Rosina S Khan 

      3 weeks ago

      Thank you, Chitrangada, for your useful and informative article. It definitely struck a chord with me. I can help so many people that I am not aware that they are suffering from mental illness or depression. I can also help myself. Ending life is the easy way out but seeking help or talking about your problems with friends or family is a rational and sensible way.

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      Liz Westwood 

      3 weeks ago from UK

      This is a very thoughtful, well-presented and timely article. It seems that the pandemic and lockdown have combined to accentuate and accelerate mental health problems. You make some great suggestions of ways to combat this. Any life lost in this way is extremely sad and such a waste.

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