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Power of Forgiveness
It’s a wonderful thing to be able to forgive.
It takes a very big person that can move on after things have gone a rye.
It also means that the person is willing and wanting to move forward.
Now how they move forward is a different story.
But being able to get over it, is key to growing. No one can tell you when you could/can/should move on but it’s very important that you do, for your own growth and peace of mind.
When you hold on to those negative feelings about someone that person holds you hostage.Yes, hostage in your mind.You’re spending time unproductively thinking about that person and what they did,but trust they are not thinking about you. If they really cared for you,they never would have done the act that caused the negative feelings in the first place.But that’s neither here nor there,you need to forgive or forget or both.
After you have done this very important part to moving forward,the next step is crucial…………
Yes,forgive yourself first and foremost!
We beat ourselves up unnecessairly most of the time.
We have no control over others actions,people have their own outlook and ideas on life just as you have yours.
I was constantly apologizing to myself for allowing myself to be used by people,friends and famly included.Telling myself I will not allow myself to be used like that again,I'm not going to help anyone anymore,I'm just going to be taken advantage of anymore.
Well,the biggest apology to date is for that exact statement.
Why am I going to allow anyone to change me?
Why will allow anyone to stop me from being me?
Why will I allow the ill acts and lies stop me from helping others?
I forgave myself and realized that it's my nature to be kind,sweet,caring,helpful and always positive.
WIth all that being said,my business is growing and doing great things.
We live,we learn,we grow!