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Suicide of the unloved

Updated on January 30, 2011

Suicide of the unloved

Suicide of the unloved

There are more Suicide deaths than terrorist, murder and war combined. Please, give a little love where there is self hate. I have friends who work on the Suicide lines and about 9 times out of ten they are just looking for anyone to love them. When babies are not loved, they can die. To certain degrees it is not brave or honorable way to act, yet not in all cases it considered negative. Most cases it’s a lack of love, for Love is the most important behavior in the world and can conquer all.

Most people at some point in their lives have briefly thought about it. Suicide affects the rich, the poor and the middle class equally. More than 90 percent of completed suicides carry a diagnosis of alcoholism, depression, schizophrenia, or some combination of these three: We all have Ups and downs that come in everyone life but suicide is not a way. Most people decide to live, they eventually realize the crisis is temporary and death is permanent. But, some severe crisis sometimes is inescapable and feels a loss of hope in the future and can't stop the horrible pain. Youth in Asia is one form sensible case of death as we have more mercy for our pets. Or sacrifice your life for another in a rescue tempts, there again to save a love one.

If you do come across a love one or friend who is considering suicide. Be direct. Talk openly and be willing to listen. Allow expressions of feelings. Accept the feelings. Be non-judgmental, don't debate whether suicide is right or wrong, or their feelings are good or bad. Don't lecture on the value of life, they may not believe you anyway – Let them know life is worth it, reassure depression will be short term and they will enjoy life again.

Become available, show interest and support. Don't be sworn to secrecy you may need to involve others, you may have to commit them as patients. If possible get family and friends involved, remove means, such as guns or stockpiled pills. Most gun deaths are suicides, plus, it’s dangerous for everyone to be so negative around them, they could take someones else's life too

You only get one shot in life, balance your finance, relationship, spirit, and you physical well being. I am lucky with my job I love for 36 years, that takes care of most waking hours of life. Art has given me two full lives with wild adventurist many would not understand. Most of all have purpose in life, drink lots of water since we are made of mostly water. Surround yourself with love ones and have lots of physical exercise and sex if you desire.I threw that in, because Art and Sex are my two best pleasures in life.

Remember if you can’t find anyone who loves you, give me a call I will love you as I love everyone.

Thank you for caring.

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    • Castlepaloma profile imageAUTHOR

      Castlepaloma 

      7 years ago from Saskatchewan, Canada

      HattieMattieMae

      Thank you

    • HattieMattieMae profile image

      HattieMattieMae 

      7 years ago from Limburg, Netherlands

      awesome article and so right!

    • Castlepaloma profile imageAUTHOR

      Castlepaloma 

      7 years ago from Saskatchewan, Canada

      You know what to do, give them love and you will receive love.

      All we have in life, is what we give away

    • Joy56 profile image

      Joy56 

      7 years ago

      oh my i crave to be accepted. Is it accepted or left alone, or is it loved. I presume my sister had the same problem when took her life, and left her darling four year old daughter behind.... it is just very hard to recover from it all. My parents never recovered, and they both got very sick, and now after looking after them both over the last few years, I have lost them also. It hurts man. It is nice to know people care, and try to help. I enjoyed this hub.

    • Castlepaloma profile imageAUTHOR

      Castlepaloma 

      7 years ago from Saskatchewan, Canada

      GPAGE

      I don't know what family have not had a suicide with in their family tree or close friends connections. Rarely you hear about murders from people you know, which makes the front page highlines in the media all the time.

    • GPAGE profile image

      GPAGE 

      7 years ago from California

      Beautiful ending of article....LOVE is "key"....I had someone very close to me take their own life when I was a child. This is a very informative hub. Thank you. GPAGE

    • Castlepaloma profile imageAUTHOR

      Castlepaloma 

      7 years ago from Saskatchewan, Canada

      We could create a Church of Love, link hub page. Have member get free love for when they hungry for it, there many spiritual church here in Vancouver tax free and collect donation too

    • pennyofheaven profile image

      pennyofheaven 

      7 years ago from New Zealand

      Well we got a few subscribers to the religion of love. Perhaps the church can be our bodies. Physical masterpieces each unique in their own wonderful way!

    • Castlepaloma profile imageAUTHOR

      Castlepaloma 

      7 years ago from Saskatchewan, Canada

      It's going to take a lot of work to build the church of Love, yet we'll get there. I offered the job to Cagsil to build a church of love,but he would not say if he wanted it or not.

    • pennyofheaven profile image

      pennyofheaven 

      7 years ago from New Zealand

      Absolutely agree!

    • Castlepaloma profile imageAUTHOR

      Castlepaloma 

      7 years ago from Saskatchewan, Canada

      penny

      Everyone needs to fell some kind of importants.

      Church of love is in order

    • pennyofheaven profile image

      pennyofheaven 

      7 years ago from New Zealand

      Awww too too beautiful. I do agree, everyone needs love. It is a shame not too many of us are open enough to ask for it. It is what arises naturally in every human being. It is what gives us the most joy. If we can love everyone as you do, what a beautiful world this would be. Less suicides because people have love feel they have worth. Thank you for a beautiful hub once again!

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