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The Law of Attraction and Your Relationship
The Secret by Rhonda Byrnes came out in 2007. It is all about using The Law of Attraction. What you put out into the universe you get back. If you think positive you will get positive results. If you think negative you will think negative results. The same goes for relationships and people who are in love.
A lot of people become inferior in relationships. Sometimes it is due to things that have happened to them in the past. If they have been cheated on they become negative and feel that all guys lie and cheat. They assume the worst in every situation and stress themselves out. Then as time goes on their relationship begins to go downhill and once again they are heart broken.
When you are more relaxed and confident you will have better luck in your relationships. Just because someone hurt you in the past does not mean you should not give someone new a chance. Each relationship is different and there are good guys out there. You will never know how good a relationship could be if you do not give a new guy a chance. Open your heart to love. You will be surprised at what you will find.
Do not go around thinking No one will want me because then no one will. The Law of Attraction also has to do with what energy you put out to the universe. Guys could pick up on the energy that you are sending them. If they sense that you are weak and insecure they could take advantage of you. Instead be full of love and be confident. Show that you radiate love and you will be surprised at how your love life will turn around.
Have you ever wondered why some girls who are not so pretty or nice get all the guys? It is because they have confidence. They think that they are good looking and could get anyone they want. They radiate that kind of love and attraction and guys are drawn to them. When you go around thinking that you are unattractive and unlovable guys will pick up on that and they will not even give you a second love. If you want someone to give you a chance you have to love yourself and see for yourself that you really are beautiful.
Have you ever wondered why girls who are not nice get guys who treat them like a queen? They think and they believe that they deserve that. The Law of Attraction states that what you believe you get. If you believe deep in your heart that you really are loveable and there is someone in the universe who will appreciate you then you will find him. If however you believe that all you meet are guys who treat you bad and there is no such thing as a nice guy then you will keep attracting guys who treat you wrong.
If you want your relationships to turn around you have to start loving yourself first. You have to believe that you are capable of finding someone who will love you. You have to believe that there is a good guy out there who will treat you right. If you keep on thinking negative about relationships then you are only going to keep on setting the scenes for negative outcomes in your relationships.