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The Man (or Woman) that We “are” Looking For: ENTJ, “Life’s Natural Leaders”

Updated on March 16, 2016
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"Every artist dips his brush into his own soul and paints his own nature into his pictures." - Henry Ward Beecher, 1813-87, Writer/Reformer




I have thought for a long time, it may take forever, maybe even never, before I could see you face to face.”

I am not an MBTI-certified professional. All the rest of this article/hub is written from pure Inspiration.


“The Ideal Candidate. The ideal candidate should have an advanced level of control over emotions and mind, and skill at using energy.” Maybe subconsciously, that was the thought I had when I started looking for a lifetime partner. I was an INFJ looking for an ENTJ.

4-Question Questionnaire. Ideas from this section are derived from Isabel Briggs Myers’s interpretation of Carl G Jung’s theories in psychology. The four (4) questions are the basis for the *134 which consists of the more thorough testing for personality type indicator.

Favorite Things:

_____ E/I: Do you prefer to focus on the outer world or on your own inner world? If yes, that would be an Extraversion, whose opposite is Introversion.


_____ S/N: Do you prefer to focus on the basic information you take in or do you prefer to interpret and add meaning? If yes, that would be an Sensing, whose opposite is an iNtuiting.


_____ T/F: When making decisions, do you prefer to first look at logic and consistency or first look at the people and special circumstances? If yes, that would be a Thinking, whose opposite is a Feeling.


_____ J/P: In dealing with the outside world, do you prefer to get things decided or do you prefer to stay open to new information and options? If yes, that you be called Judging, whose opposite is a Perceiving.

‘Your Personality Type: When you decide on your preference in each category, you have your own personality type, which can be expressed as a code with four letters.’




My (Former) Type: ‘INFJ:



Quietly Caring – Creative

Linguistically Gifted – Psychic



My Former Type’s Choice of Lifetime Partner: ‘ENTJ:


Visionary – Gregarious - Argumentative

Systems Planners – Takes Charge

Low Tolerance for Incompetence



Jesus’ MBTI. Refer to Christ: INFJ or ENFJ?.



Organizer – Compulsive

Private – Trustworthy

Rules ‘n Regs – Practical





Amiable – Works Behind the Scenes

Ready to Sacrifice – Accountable

Prefers ‘Doing’





Theory Based – Skeptical – “My Way”

High Need for Competency

Sees World as a Chessboard





Very Observant – Cool and Aloof

Hands-on Practicality - Unpretentious

Ready for w[sic]hat Happens





Warm and Sensitive - Unassuming

Short Range Planner – Good Team Member

In Touch with Self and Nature





Strict Personal v[sic]alues

Seeks Inner Order/Peace

Creative – Non-directive - Reserved





Challenges Others to Think

Absent-minded Professor

Competency Needs – Socially Cautious





Unconventional Approach - Fun

Gregarious – Lives for Here and Now

Good at Problem Solving





Sociable - Spontaneous

Loves Surprises – Cuts Red Tape

Producer - Traditional

Quip master





People Oriented - Creative

Seeks Harmony – Life of Party

More Starts than Finishes





Argues Both Sides of a Point to Learn

Brinksmanship – Tests the Limits

Enthusiastic – New Ideas





Order and Structure - Sociable

Opinionated – Results Driven

Producer - Traditional





Gracious – Good Interpersonal Skills

Thoughtful - Appropriate

Eager to Please





Charismatic - Compassionate

Possibilities for People

Ignores the Unpleasant - Idealistic




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Christ Consciousness. What is Christ Consciousness? This is a separate hub topic, all to its own. But excerpts from the book “A Course in Miracles” are provided below, for self-reflection:


minding the Mind of God.

“1. Who are God’s Teachers?

… They come from all over the world. They come from all religions and from no religion. They are the ones who have answered. The Call is universal. It goes on all the time everywhere. …. “


2. Who are God’s Pupils?

‘ … Certain pupils have been assigned to each of God’s teachers, and they will begin to look for him as soon as he has answered the Call.’


Mind You. With Christ Consciousness as foremost in our mind, we can plan on some style of “mass action.” Since we are mostly separated from each other by distances in nautical miles, this mass action, aka mind mass action, does not require an actual physical attendance. As simple as it can get, we go back to the basics of prayer. For example, among Catholics there used to be, which is seldom practiced nowadays, what is called the “6 o’clock” habit of prayer.

We can all pray for what's best for all and send loving thoughts to everyone, including our own family and close friends.

Through the 24-hour time zones, there will always be people praying for the good for all, God’s will, hourly. Daily.

The Original INFJ

Based on the hypothesis that Jesus was an INFJ, we may ask why God had chosen the Master Teacher Jesus to be an INFJ.

Will God choose another INFJ for the ‘second coming’? Possibly, not. God’s ways are not man’s ways. He knows how man’s ways go. When an ego-self-based man, Herod, heard about the first born, he, Herod had ordered for the massacre of all first-born male. God would not want INFJs to be singled out for the massacre this time. Oh no.

As He is wont to do, he will play His usual divine hide-and-seek with man. “… Spirit is dropping clues all the time.” For those with eyes to see and ears to hear, ONLY. The meekest of the little ones will be in the know, but all these things will be hidden from the “egoist biggies:”

The second Jesus can morphose into any personality type needed, as the moment, GOD, dictates, moment by moment.

This is the idea behind the hub “Morphose: … ”. On any designated fraction of a second in time, living in Presence, we should all be ready to morphose, turning to Lucy/(ies), all with stars in the sky for our eyes, lighting up the heavens, the battle field, in the fight to support the Man with the Impossible Dream, Jesus.

Be ready with your tinted shades, Men … and Women of Good Will.

Be ready to fly beyond the speed of light.

Use your imagination.


Developing Other Future Team Members: Checking for Willingness and Ability

The man or woman or desired candidate (e.g. the student) should have the ability to refrain from “judging the book by its cover.”

… with discernment to understand that a perceived limitation or weakness can be converted to its corresponding advantage or strength, depending on perspective and openness of mind.

… with good analytic skills to understand the 16 different MBTI types and know that we are guilty as individuals of having both the ‘strength’ and ‘weakness’ that we see in each of our neighbors.

… understands that using the heart to navigate in the world, provides for more complete and intuitive solutions than by just using one’s intellect and five senses.

IN CONCLUSION. The man or woman that we are looking for is not really an ENTJ (i.e., but one in this world but not of this world) but someone possibly with an MBTI personality type similar to Jesus, which is purported to be an INFJ.

To those who may have difficulties determining their personality type, not to worry. Simply put, we are looking for someone with the DESIRE or WILL to exercise moment to moment choice in favor of love and compassion. Of all the things known to man, LOVE still remains to be the most important.

For MBTI types approaching the boundaries or the middle between the extremes, it would be naturally easy to morphose to the opposite end. But being stubborn with one’s usual ways, it may still be a daunting task.

For MBTI types falling far away from the middle, I would imagine it would be still easier to morphose, if it is for someone with the willingness to adopt an open mind as regards to his or her preference. For example, the judging type who is a tickler for planning and control, can choose to morphose to a perceiving type, to adopt to contingencies and switch to plan B, as the need arises.


Let the Adventure Begin

“I have thought for a long time, it may take forever, maybe even never, before I could see you face to face.”

I went out to the back porch one day, to get coffee going. It was break of day and with it came the usual beautiful bird songs. One particular song caught my attention---my favorite, which I could never ascribe to any particular bird species. Always only just a disembodied song of a bird, never seeing what the actual bird looked like.

Today, it felt like the bird calling, “Lo and behold. This is me.” So this is the answer that took forever to wait for. I have finally found out which bird species it is. In the vernacular, they call it the ‘Maria Capra’ or the five-fan tail.

Usually Spirit speaks to us in metaphors regarding the lessons we need to learn. Today, as I finish typing this hub, I learn. “This is me. I AM the lifetime partner I have been waiting for so long.” i, my me-body, have morphosed from an INFJ to an ENFJ.







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Reference to “3 Values to Intuition … ”


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