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The Things lost and Gained
The Things lost and Gained
I had lost and now will not gain what was in my life before. It is time to move on and be happy. I lost a part of myself and have gained a whole lot of love together with family and friends and filled that void.
Increased knowledge of true living showed me more of a life. I have gained happiness and freedom.
I cannot get back what I had once lost and sometimes feel unhappy about the change in my life and want to be happy and am happy.
On the days when I feel good, something occurs to upset me. I fall right back to the old thoughts. Nothing will be the same again and too much has changed, and my life just says it all.
My positive mind allows me to think more and do more of what I need to make my life a good one, but at times that do not matter to me.
Life is no bed of roses, and on certain days I want to run away from it. The lovely free life has given me more courage to stay and live and let be. My plan is enormous and so useful for me.
The negative people drain me of my good energy. I got to stay away from that negativity.
I did not grow up with a negative life, but now it is like I cannot escape from this negativity. I am better off on my own, and not with any disturbances. When around certain people I feel less energetic.
I grew to accept a different life and a new lifestyle that gave me the chance to explore and know myself much better.
Bad days affect everyone and if you think that life is perfect, then you are wrong.
No life is rosy and cheerful, all days are not good days.
Life has its cause, you must live with it, ignore it, put up with it, or walk away from your situation.
I have come to live in a foreign country and still have those days when I feel down, then who doesn’t?
Those days do not vanish, and I must live with what I know makes me feel the greatest. My new sunny days and lovely friends open my good thoughts.
I enjoy certain days while other days feel bleak writing about how I feel allows me to feel good about myself all over again.
Laughter makes me feel at my best.
That is my best medicine, and I do not hang on to what others think is good for me. As tough as it all has been, I must see myself for who I am and accept myself for who I am.
I live the way I like and have made the necessary changes in my life as a good one. The way I choose to live is my option and only I can make my life happy nobody could do that for me.
It is easy to look at how others live and how they pass their days my days are different and simple for me.
I avoid strenuous work to not have too many aches and pains which yet do not have and feel healthy in that way. I sometimes feel like I cannot do it like I hate everything around me.
I am, however, very grateful for my loved ones, and enjoy my new days with much laughter the true kind of laughter that comes from within.
What I had lost I will not have again, but I can still start new and look ahead to what has got me to this point in my life. The greater challenges and new experiences have opened my mind to a new culture and always a new moment.
Days come and days go without a focus on what was but only on what is my best way of thinking. I look and I see, I talk, and I am who I am.
Nothing can be taken away from the achievements and my hard work has paid off in some way. I may not have noticed how but feel that goodness.
I have been loving, happy, and in good health all that matters to me for now and forever.
To enjoy my life whenever possible and to be that woman who can share her thoughts with her readers and her strong words to her family.
The meaning of true living is how I choose to be not what others think I should be. My opinion matters more than the opinions of others.
The heart knows better, and my less stressful life shows that too. I have what makes me laugh, and I have what makes me cry. If I feel down, I cry to let out my frustrations, and disappointments.
That does make me feel better to shed some tears. Crying may not be for everyone and works fine with me and not all the time only when I feel all knotted up.
Ever felt that knotted-up feeling and you just wanted to let go with some tears?
As crying is good to let and let be, I do not always fall into tears. I manage my days with a good walk recently I have not been on my long walks it feels different and hectic.
I like to be on my own to work at what I want without being told how to unless I require the advice of another then only did, I ask for it. My powerful mind proves that to me.
I need to clear my thoughts and require a full mind of things.
I learned right from wrong and sometimes I feel that what I have learned in my new life has made me this way. What I knew and now know has changed me in many ways:
I prefer doing the following:
Prefer to be with family more than friends. Positively look at my life. Avoid negative people.
Look for what makes me happy. Life made my appearance new. Look for good moments and face the bad moments with great courage.
To be happier making my own decisions, I decide for myself. Look forward to each day with a new thought.
The less-stressed feeling and more freedom have shown me of my life. Enjoy working around the house. Do not forgive and know what I want from my life.
I have not always been this way, but since my life has changed so much, I choose to be sometimes harsh, and sometimes soft.
Telling lies is not what I enjoy doing it would hold me back from achieving my goals. I prefer telling the truth about the side of me that shows from different sides.
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This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
© 2014 Devika Primić