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Waiting on My Disability Court Date

Updated on March 31, 2019
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I'm Diana, happily married, and blessed by God on a daily basis. I live with chronic illnesses, but I don't let that get me down!

The Beginning

About six years ago, I was diagnosed with neurocardiogenic syncope, also known as vasovagal syncope. A year later, I was diagnosed with POTS, or Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome. Both were managed fairly well with medication. But even with medication, it seemed like every six months or so I was hospitalized for a week. As you can guess, it didn't help my employer any to have someone that ill on his staff, but he didn't let me go, and I continued to work my hardest for him.

In January 2017, I became so ill I was unable to continue working, much to my great disappointment. I had begun becoming so dizzy and disoriented that I was having to call my husband and have him drive me home on his lunch hour. I liked what I was doing, I just wasn't able to physically stay at the office all day and my position required me to be on site so I couldn't work from home. I liked working outside the home because it gave me purpose, I enjoyed meeting new people, and it helps to pay the bills when you're employed! In short, I loved it!

In June of that year, I finally bit the bullet and applied for Social Security Disability. I had been hopeful I would be able to improve enough to return to work, but instead my condition continued to deteriorate.

Statistically, only 30% of those who apply are approved for their disability claim without being denied, according to www.disability-benefits-help.org, and I fell into the 70% who were denied initially. I was a little upset, but not overly surprised as I had been advised to expect a denial.

Enjoying a day out at Hot Springs National Park last summer
Enjoying a day out at Hot Springs National Park last summer | Source

The Middle

What did I do next? I filed an appeal in hopes of being approved. My Disability Claims Specialist (a non-attorney who aids those applying for disability benefits) helped me with the appeal. I was hopeful since those who were acquainted with me knew me as being an honest person and a hard worker so surely I'd be approved this time! A little naive, I know, but that's what I thought at the time.

After a few months, I got a letter in the mail from the Social Security Administration denying my claim for the second time. I was tearful as my husband and I were desperate for my approval. The loss of my income had severely disrupted our income flow and we were then in danger of having to file for bankruptcy on top of everything else. The Disability Claims Specialist advised me to continue writing in my journal to document my medical issues so I did.

In the meantime, I continued to go to different specialists in my state in an effort to get a definitive diagnosis. I had seen 13 different specialists in as many months, but not one of them was able to help me learn what was wrong with me. It was so disheartening! My physical condition was still getting worse, and as you can imagine, even with insurance, my medical bills were quickly accumulating. With only my husband's income, they seemed to be growing mountainous with no way to pay them off. We make monthly payments, but as the old saying goes, "You can't get blood from a turnip"!

The Beginning of the End

In May of 2018, I finally got an appointment with a neurologist at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. In August, my husband and I drove the from Arkansas to Rochester to see some of the best in the world, confident we would finally get that elusive diagnosis! Within the first two hours of our first appointment, I was diagnosed with PPPD or Persistent Postural-Perceptual Dizziness, orthostatic intolerance, and a gait disorder. What a blessing to finally have a name for what was affecting so much in my life! We were, and still are, hopeful these diagnoses will help at the disability hearing.

Finally, the envelope from Social Security we had been waiting on came providing me with my court date for my disability claim. It suddenly felt overwhelming. It was finally really going to happen. I will appear before a judge with the Claims Specialist and the judge will decide whether I am approved or denied.

After waiting so long for this step in the process, I was terrified! I made a post in a chronic illness Facebook group asking those ladies to pray for me and the hearing. I knew they would pray; I also knew they would be supportive of me as many of them have been through the same process. One of their comments has stayed with me. She wrote that I shouldn't be worried or afraid because "God already knows the decision and is waiting for you on the other side of it". Such wise words!! My husband and I have been prayerful throughout our relationship, so that comment was an eye-opener for me. Of course God knows! And he will be with me before, during, and after the hearing. I didn't have to be afraid any longer!

Just the other day, I was thinking about how often I pray heartfelt prayers about this hearing. I know God hears me, and I know he's with me. I smiled to myself, glad to have thought that maybe I can have knees like James. James, the author of the Bible's New Testament book of James, was known to have camel knees because he was so often kneeling in prayer. What a compliment that is! James was known to be a prayerful man and encouraged the readers of his book to have a strong prayer life. So maybe I will one day have camel knees too!



Even in a wheelchair, living life to the fullest with my husband
Even in a wheelchair, living life to the fullest with my husband | Source

The End

How will all this play out? Will the judge approve me or will I have another denial? Initially, one leads to elation; the other to desolation. I'm not afraid, though, because I have a long-term plan.

Proverbs 3:5-6 reads,

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (NIV)

In light of that, I know what I must do. Trust fully in my LORD and give him praise and adoration regardless of what comes. He will make my path straight, even if it appears as a mountain trail switchback to me! The prophet Isaiah wrote in Isaiah 55:8-9:

"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the LORD. "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts."

If I am denied, then so be it. I won't give up because I know my situation better than anyone. I know that if I were able to work, whether outside the home or working from home, I would. Currently, I'm actively promoting and selling wholesale jewelry online. I am able to work an hour here or there and on my bad days, I can rest as my body demands. But I will still continue to pursue the Social Security Disability. It would help my family so much!

If I am approved, I will give praise to God and God alone and will continue to pursue my "camel knees" in thankfulness and gratitude. I am reminded of Psalm 121: 1-8.

The first verse reminds me to seek the Lord. Verse two gives me assurance. The third and fourth verses of that chapter give me peace, and verses 5-8 of that same chapter tells how the LORD will be with me always. The Psalmist wrote such powerful words in just a few short verses!

So whether I receive a denial or an approval for the Social Security Disability, I know I am still God's child and I will put my hope and my trust in him.

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:28-30)

Every time I read this verse, I find some new gem in it. Today, the take-away is, if you'll allow me to paraphrase, "Come to me and you will receive rest." Rest is what I want and what I need. All I have to do is draw near to God and he will draw near to us (James 4:8). We will find peace and rest there.




"My Help Comes from the Lord" by Free Indeed and Jerome Williams

Please Leave a Comment!

If you are struggling with a disability, please comment below. I'd love to visit with you about it. I understand how it feels.

If you don't have a disability, I'm so glad!! I don't want you to, but I'd still love it if you left a comment about your thoughts on this article.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and does not substitute for diagnosis, prognosis, treatment, prescription, and/or dietary advice from a licensed health professional. Drugs, supplements, and natural remedies may have dangerous side effects. If pregnant or nursing, consult with a qualified provider on an individual basis. Seek immediate help if you are experiencing a medical emergency.

© 2019 Diana Majors

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    • Diana Majors profile imageAUTHOR

      Diana Majors 

      2 months ago from Arkansas

      @Tracy, thanks so much! I hope it will remind others that God is with us always! I appreciate your prayers!

      @Roxie Thank you!! I'm grateful to the encouragement that Culley, you, and Mike have given me in the last few months! Love you!!

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      Roxie 

      2 months ago

      Wow! I loved this! U have such good stuff to share with so many. You are a light in this world never lose sight of that!

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      Tracy Griffith 

      2 months ago

      What a beautiful commentary my friend on your life and faith in God! Praying for God's will in this matter and yes He goes before us and knows the outcome already. God Bless!

    • Diana Majors profile imageAUTHOR

      Diana Majors 

      2 months ago from Arkansas

      Thank you, Georgia!! I appreciate it!!

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      Georgia Estes 

      2 months ago

      Super article, Diana, and very heartfelt! I am praying for a decision on your behalf. I love you.

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