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4 Ways to Develop Your Self-Confidence

Updated on April 26, 2018

Self-confidence is a feeling of trust in one's qualities, judgment, and abilities.

If you don't have self-confidence of yourself yet, don't you worry because spelled out below are 4 ways on how you can develop your self-confidence.

1. Develop A Series Of Successful Experiences

The best remedy for fear is not to avoid it. But rather, it is to do what you fear most. Each successful undertaking becomes an additional stepping stone drawing you closer to greater confidence. Like a hunter showing off his prize catch, you can also look at your achievements and gain confidence from them.

If you are afraid to talk to people because you fear that you don't have or don't know what to say, then prepare yourself and start meeting people. Read newspapers, books, watch the late news on TV and improve your knowledge about human interest and current events. When you are ready, go out and share what you know. If you fear speaking in public, volunteer to make a report. Prepare a good report, practice your delivery in private or with a coach of your choice, and when you are ready, make your presentation and enjoy it.

2. Do Your Homework And Be Well Prepared

Venturing into unknown territory is usually accompanied by anxiety and fear. This is true with a new job, a new responsibility, a new position, or any change in status. Adequate preparation diminishes the uncertainties of the unknown. Information gathering is the first stage of preparation. You must know the terrain. You should know what you are up against so you can anticipate your problems. Plan simple and clear strategies that will handle anticipated challenges. When you know what to do, threats are reduce and anxiety is replaced with self-assurance. To overcome fear, remember to prepare yourself well, then face it.

3. Do Not Be Afraid To Commit Mistakes - Learn From Them

Great inventions and discoveries were born out of the courage of great men and women who willingly faced failures and mistakes. Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham Bell, Henry Ford and other great minds, looked at mistakes with a more positive view. To them, mistakes are opportunities for learning. Through our errors, we gain facts, we overcome our ignorance, we become stronger. Our strength grows from our weaknesses. Do not be afraid to commit mistakes and you must learn from them.

4. Know Your Strengths

Be aware of the things you do best and the tasks where you get the best results. Be aware of the qualities that your friends and relatives like in you. Know your traits that people find appealing and which draw them closer to you. Be aware of your past achievements. Make a list of these qualities and strengths. Nurture your positive qualities through constant use. Knowing your strengths is the first step to gaining self-confidence.

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    • Glecerio Tatoy profile image


      3 years ago

      I'm not afraid to commit mistakes. I learned from my mistakes. I'm sure, you do as well.

      Thanks for sharing this info, Macky Soledad!


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