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Why Your First Car Is So Memorable To You
Your First. Your Car.
My first car was a 1996 Plymouth Sundance. It was cherry red and I loved it! Thanks Peggy W for creating the discussion question, "What was your first car?" The question left me asking myself why exactly first cars are so memorable.
As a scrolled through the comments of several other HubPages readers who listed the exact years, makes, and models of their first cars, I realized I was not alone in the clearness of my own memories. I delved a little deeper into why your first car leaves such an impression in your mind.
Freedom and Independence
Your first car represents freedom. You get behind the wheel and drive to wherever you want. You leave home whenever you want. Well, almost. If you still live at home, you may still have to abide by parental rules. You get the point.
If you took driving lessons, they now end. You no longer have to meet regularly with an instructor or drive a car with a billboard on the side of it and two wheels on the dashboard. If a family member or friend taught you to drive, you are now able to drive without him or her. What freedom!
If you were relying on public transit or rides from friends who already have their drivers' licenses to get you from point A to point B, those days are over! You now rely on your own car, your own piece of property.
A Great Accomplishment
Your first car is also memorable to you because it is a large accomplishment in your life. Whether you took driving lessons or were taught by someone you personally know you worked hard to learn have to safely drive your local roads. You invested time and energy practising parking, 3-point turns, and remembering what way to turn your wheels on a hill. (Don't worry; there will not be a quiz on these points).
You have earned the right to have that car. You are likely very proud of your accomplishment. The car therefore stands out in your mind as a milestone and a goal successfully reached. That is a key reason why your first car is so memorable to you.
As well, you now have responsibility. You must maintain the car, which includes completing any repairs, washing it, and regularly heading to the gas station. As you are likely young when you buy your first car, you may not have had many responsibilities prior to this point in your life. Taking on more responsibilities makes you stronger and is part of the transition to adulthood. A major stepping stone has occurred here for you!
Your first car is likely also memorable for the adventures you had while you owned the vehicle. Some memories actually tie to the car. For example, I had a car crash in the snow while driving my Sundance. It was my first car crash (yes there have been others). It was a minor incident that slightly dented the front of my car yet whenever I think of car crashes I think of that first one. I remember the car. Significant memories relate to the first cars of many people.
As you were likely young when you got your first car, there may be other significant memories tied to your first car. As a late teen, you are transitioning to adulthood and learning a lot about your surroundings. Perhaps you remember driving around your friends to fun places or the first time you pulled up alone to a drive-in window at a fast food restaurant.
The car also provided you the opportunity to become really familiar with its features. You learned the way the car turned corners and how to park just right between the lines of the parking stall. You likely grew attached to your first car as you became so familiar with its "personality".
Your Driving History
Perhaps you keep your first car in a treasured place within your memory as I do. Perhaps you despised your first car as it always broke down and was an embarrassment compared to your friend's vehicles. Either way, your first car is very memorable.
Your first car often represents your first form of responsibility and provides a significant step to becoming more mature. There is freedom and independence as you now drive alone.
Remember those times, but keep in mind that we live in the present.
Whether the car-related memories are good or bad, they have helped shape us into who we are today. Enjoy your present day and seize your current opportunities, whether they are car-related or not!
Do You Remember Your First Car?
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