You are not Perfect.
Nobody is Perfect. Nobody is born Perfect. There's no being on this earth that wakes up 100% physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually fit. We are all a work in progress.
You need to know that whatever you are going through Right Now, is a preparation for what is to come tomorrow. Life never puts you through trivial circumstances without a purpose.
Every time you jump one hurdle, there will be a few more ahead to test you. You can't have a testimony without a test. You learn from every short-coming and grow internally and externally.
Realising you are not the only being with flaws, weaknesses and imperfections will definitely help alleviate your worries. Mistakes, losses, stress and 'failures' are all part of the journey and necessary ordeals to make us stronger physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
With this perception of life, fears of alienation and rejection are no longer persistent thoughts. You will have accustomed yourself to the belief that; living a life full of experience and memories is what we were placed on earth to do.
Remember this; ' a perfect human being, is one that has never tried anything new'. If you want to grow which is eventually going to enrich you, you will be forced to step out of your comfort zone. He that has never tried anything new hasn't lived a meaningful life. The fool who thinks they are perfect, is indeed a fool. The fool who knows they are flawed, is bound for a much enjoyable life.
Put yourself out there without second guessing what you are about to indulge in. Live life to its fullest, love with all your heart and give as much as you can. With these 3 life principles, you will never be in the darkness for too long.
Realisation of your imperfections means you are more accepting of yourself. You come to acknowledgement with past mistakes and hardships and see them as building blocks to help you accomplish whatever you wish for you, your family or friends.
A life well lived is a life with a storyline, included within this story is a peaceful beginning (your comfort zone), your journey through your Quest (Climax ; confrontations, ordeals, emotions, tensions, etc..) and a happy ending ( growth mindset acquired and a meaningful life, well lived).
Thank you for your reading and God bless thee ❤