Wow. Everyone needs a bit of an esteem boost!
You're all cool because you're giving your own advice to others, getting feedback from people, sharing experiences (good and bad), relating to others, and are able to articulate things that people are actually interested in! I -for one- find that COOL!!!
Besides, our children aren't going to think we're cool now - until they're much older. lol
And, CheapDaisy, that's an adorable picture of your kids!