I have a problem. That is not the real question. I don't want to split my husband's ashes. His mother who didn't want him cremated wants part of his remains. She is angry with me because I am making all of the decisions even tho they were based on his wishes and his style. She says that she is his mother and I just came into his life less than 5 years ago. I don't want to hurt his mother. He never got to talk about splitting ashes. Only that he wanted to be cremated. He will be spread in the ocean by his favorite beach, which she is against as well.
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