To try to heal your wounds you first have to have the courage to face them.
Some wounds are deeper than the others.
Time is a good friend...You can help reduce your pain with time, however it's not always possible to heel it altogether.
Forgiveness can often set you free and enable you to move on in your life.
You should be able to learn something from every bad experience that comes your way, and become a stronger person.
Life is not a smooth sailing. There are obstacle and misfortunes on the way for all of us.
They are natural part of our self-growth and development.
I have, among my other self-help hubs an article titled 'How to find and be yourself' if you like to read it.