I haven't had an abortion but I did have an interesting experience that was related. My boyfriend (now husband) and I had decided that if we had an unplanned pregnancy we would terminate it (don't hate, I'm just answering the question). This was when we were 15 and 16. At 19 we did have an unplanned pregnancy and immediately I knew there was no way I could terminate. I'm still 100% pro-choice but I just couldnt do it. I couldn't even think about it. Unfortunately that pregnancy ended in miscarriage but I learned a lot about myself.