I'm not quite sure, perhaps? If it comes to weight, I am a overweight man but I do not honestly take this much into consideration anymore. I'd rather be myself and I'm happy being so.
Women, Sadly, are always subject to the weight attack by other women and todays constant standards. If you feel your gaining weight, and that makes you unhappy, look at why it does - not if the food does. Usually your problem isn't what's going in your mouth, its who is telling you not to eat.