When I realize that I am stressed the first thing I do is to take control. I control my breathing. Deep slow belly breathing makes me feel more relaxed. I also control my thoughts. Thinking of the beach makes me feel more relaxed. So does exercising because I am thinking about the exercise. Mostly I just stop thinking about whatever it is that is stressing me out and stop breathing like a stressed out person.
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