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Many children from large families become quite materialistic as adults as a result of NOT having anything as children. It is an overcompensation of sorts.One person I knew from a large family always talked about her new upper middle class lifestyle..
I understand and see one of my siblings, of course one of the oldest who always had so much responsibility and was overwhelmed with the idea that he has to make a lot of money for our safety!
Diana, to paraphrase F. Scott Fitzgerald, those in large &very large families are way different from normal society. Attended school w/those children, they were unpolished & NO ONE liked them, even the teachers.They are really from a DIFFEREN
You have proven what I have said & what others know.Kids from large & very large families have little or no parental training.They raise themselves & each other.They're the wild children so to speak,rough around the edges.Written hubs on
Large families are bad overall, yes I said it. Little or no parental attention for the most part. Children raise themselves mostly. Some will endure hell while others endure bliss(youngest, mostly). Studied the large family- totally aberrant indeed.
It DOES NOT have benefits. In such families,children aren't valued as much.You're not individuals, but A GROUP.You aren't seen as special by your parents.Again, GROUP!Children in such families are A MASS,nothing more.They have issues, deep issues!
It is normal for children of large and very large families to live on top of each other & in crowded environments. The concept of privacy & space is nonexistent in large families. They live in the open so to speak. How sad, very, very sad!
Harshness and judging comes from these folk. But that is a choice. Not a result of family.
Not judging, it's the facts. Children in large & very large families grow up in such crowded environments, they do not understand normal human conditions.They've a consciousness that it so different from that of normal society.They're BASIC .