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Should I feel bad for not visiting a relative in the hospital?


A family member is in the hospital, unfortunately passing away. She apparently is a different personal mentally and physically now. I want to remember them how they were, not how they are now. I saw my mother before she passed away, and the image haunts me. Should I visit this relative? Am I a bad person for wanting to remember them how I last saw them - healthy and happy?

 

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