If a friend pointed out a bad habit you have, would you be able to be self reflective and open, or defensive?
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Hi Katrina, you're smart not to advertise online what you wish to keep to yourself. I agree-I usually am amused when someone tries to project their junk onto me. Life is a work in progress; just be patient & let things unfold.
I LOVE your response to your kids! lol I recently had a family confrontation about my wt & was hurt, so I conferred with another sibling who had the same concerns. I told them I would 'look' at this openly & w/o defense. Hard to do at time
I agree, but if you want to really know yourself you have to know the good and the bad. You can't deny anything.
No you cant deny and fixing your flaws should of course be a goal. A major one at that. But if you're just going threw looking for flaws... Just seems like a set up for failure.
Thanks for your input. I see your point. I listen to others at times, & follow my own heart. Self reflection or self inquiry is important to get to the truth, I feel.