Just leave if you don't want him to drink and he knows it. In other words, if he knows you do not want him to drink, find somewhere to go. Say nothing. He is doing nothing wrong drinking alcohol, though. And that might be his beef with you, you know.
Yes, I drink alcohol. But, I would gladly most assuredly give it up for the one I love. And I have gotten telephone calls, from my very good sweetheart, at night. And I would just hope that she would not call after one of my evenings. That's a little confused there isn't it? That is what alcohol does, it will capture your mind. Your mind is numb to it. You need help. Not imprisonment.
But, they say that Kudzu is good for alcoholism. I haven't tried it; got a thing against Kudzu, and there's vitamin B-1 and that I tried. But, like any addict, I put it away because it was not right away.
And that is the thing with alcohol. It is immediate. No waiting. But, that is a sign that something is not fulfilled. Something in the present has not been fulfilled. Drinking makes you forget about things, but it does not make things disappear. So you have to keep drinking to keep forgetting. What is it?
I know my problems! But, it has gotten to the point that the help I need is not there. But I need to give some more advice. People that drink alcohol have a better ability when they are not drinking to pinpoint their enemies. And when you fake a charge of something against your spouse, you become the enemy #1.
Hey, I luv ya and hope everything goes well.