to have an abortion is to say your Higher Power has made an error and you know better than He. I did have an abortion, when I was younger, against my wishes. I wanted to keep my husband... it was so treacherous, the guilt, nightmares, etc. we ended up losing our marriage anyway.
It's been 25 years ago, last February, since my abortion. My son (yes, it was a boy) would have received his driver's license, gone to the prom, probably have gotten married and given me a grandchild by now.
After I die, I will need to face him and tell him what I did and the selfish reason why. What would you tell your baby a reason more important than his/her life was?