I reckon most women do. I lost my first baby on only 7 weeks and first thought I would be okay, but then about 2 weeks after it happened an unbelievable depression hit me out of the blue, my limps were so heavy, I wanted to cry all the time. It felt if I couldn't breath. I think it has got something to do with your hormones. Although psychologically I felt like a failure and obviously the loss. Maybe because I didn't deal with it from the start, I thought the best way to deal with it was just to try and forget the whole experience as quickly as possible, because there was some trauma with the private hospital not wanting to take me in before paying R3000. They said they were a business before they were a hospital. Our Goverment hospitals are atrocious. By the grace of God someone helped us in the end. My friend also had a bout of depression after her miscarriage.