Its a combination of things that make me relaxed about life. However, sometimes I have to refocus and get back in perspective.
That means, I can not control other people or the outcome of events that occur. I can control how I respond to them.
Then I have to ask myself after the adventure has passed, what was the lesson learned from it all? How can I grow from this experience? That is choosing not to be the victim.
And most important, I have a Provider who is bigger and stronger than me. He is better than a big brother or a big sister.