I agree with the three of you as well.
I also dont like when I just finished doing the dishes and cleaning the kitchen and here come the kids (teenagers) and my husband wanting snacks, they eat drink and -BAM- dishes are left in sink, you see crumbs and the counter feels sticky, just a mess. No one knows who did what. Its always, "It wasn't me!".
When hubby has a can of soda and when he is done he leaves it on the counter instead of just throwing the can in the recycle bin.
This just makes me feel like I have 4 children instead of three.