him I wanted him to move out of my house he told me he is dying, he has cance and because I have chosen to move on he is refusing treatment, my friends and family all say he is lying about his dying. How do I know who is right?
It's emotional blackmail as you have experienced the evidence & finally realised it’s time to full fill your shadow. You said it’s “your house” & you “want him out”. Obviously you have proven yourself worthy & independence ...something he really fears & wants to override to take in control of your life. He is nothing without you…he’ll make you feel you are nothing with him. ... it’s his own fate what he didn’t appreciated before.
It’s not your fault he dies failing to take his medication. At least you wouldn’t be convicted. Think of all the other domestic violence victims who are serving time because the acted on taking the life of their abusers. They would envy you for leaving him so he could rot in his own fate. Don’t be flattered for his ill tempered love for you. See this as an escape & never go back.
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