- Quality of Life & Wellness
Why do we care so much? Filter photos, endless selfies taken at just the right angle, gazing into mirrors, walking by shop windows and glancing at how you look instead of the items on display etc etc… There are way too many instances in which we spend, what I think, is far too much attention on something that is purely subjective!
A person can be thought of as average looking in one country and in another country she could be seen as amazingly beautiful.
I noticed something recently. Consider three people ‘A’ is the best friend of ‘B’ and ‘C’ is ‘B’s crush. ‘A’ compliments ‘B’ on her beauty. ‘B’ feels he is lying. ‘C’ compliments ‘B’ on her beauty and she believes ‘C’. If our close girlfriends, or BBF’s compliment us why don’t we believe them? If someone of prestige, our crush, or someone we respect and hold ideal, if they compliment us why do we graciously accept the compliment?
Another situation, a person a group of girls considered to be ugly or average looking his whole life decides to gym, gets a six pack – how do you think those girls feel about him now?
And old saying we all know is “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. If someone compliments you on your beauty appreciate them no matter who they are because they have seen something which others were blind to. Beauty can be thought of like a divine decoration which cannot be seen by everyone.
But every single being or thing is remarkably beautiful! It just takes the right eye for it.