Causes of Emotional Numbness
How to Cope When You Have No Feelings
Why can't I cry? Why can't I feel joy or happiness? Not being able to feel emotions is symptom of many different mental health issues. Depression, anxiety, and post traumatic stress disorder are just a few of the disorders that can leave a person feeling numb and detached from their feelings.
Having diminished emotions can be devastating because you start to withdraw more and more from life and the people who care about you. You start to think you're some kind of freak. You can't feel love for your husband, wife, or family, and you can't find any joy for life.
Health professionals call this mental symptom of emotional detachment from feelings, blunted affect. Blunted emotions can be very distressing to someone who is experiencing it. You feel lonely and disconnected from life and the people around you. Being emotionally stunted can seem daunting, but it is possible to feel again and regain your emotional feelings.
The Price You Pay For Suppressing Your Emotions
When You Can't Cry and Are Emotionally Numb
Suppressing your emotions often comes with a high cost. We detach from our emotions in order to suppress the unwanted ones such as sadness and grief, however in doing that we also inhibit joy and pleasure. You can't suppress just the unpleasant emotions in isolation without affecting the pleasant emotions. When emotions aren't expressed you may find your feelings coming out in ways that you don't expect such as anger, irritability, and sarcasm. You also feel disconnected from others as our emotional feelings allow us to find human connection and comfort.
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Causes of Emotional Numbness - A Normal Reaction to Overwhelming Situations
There can be many causes of emotional numbness. In times of grief, extreme stress, or trauma shock we may numb our emotions in order not the feel the overwhelming sadness that emotional shock brings. We may feel that if we allow ourselves to feel the sadness we will be consumed by it. Sometimes emotions are frozen for a brief period of time and this emotional shock is quite normal, but in other cases it can stay with us for years, and that's when it becomes problematic.
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- Loss of a job
- Post traumatic stress
- Car accident
- Relationship breakup
- Life-threatening illness
- Loss of a loved one
- Humiliating experience
- Childhood sexual abuse
- Victim of violent crime
Feeling the Full Range of Emotions
Experiencing the Bad Along With the Good
It's normal to feel sad or blue some of the time, as well as experiencing joy and happiness. Often times people think they should feel happy all the time and that's not the case at all. There are times when we experience acute stress and feel unable to have loving feelings and are numb emotionally. Acceptance that sometimes there will be overwhelming sorrow clears the way for our understanding that these sad and sometimes overwhelming emotions are normal and should be brought into our consciousness and experienced rather than suppressed.
What Do Our Emotions or Lack of Emotions Tell Us - Find Self Understanding
Most of us run from difficult emotions and avoid letting ourselves feel. In The Language of Emotions author Karla McLaren teaches us that all of our emotions are equally important. Rather than overreacting or repressing our feelings, emotions are a gateway to healing and fulfillment.
How to Stop Feeling Emotionally Numb
Releasing Emotions for Emotional Healing
Set aside a specific time to feel your emotions. For example, tomorrow from 8:00 to 8:30 pm clear your agenda and just allow yourself to concentrate and identify feelings. Sometimes we use being busy as a way to avoid feeling distressing emotions. If we are preoccupied with other tasks then the emotions that are inside us can stay unfelt. Sometimes allowing yourself to feel takes a conscious effort to bring those emotions to the surface.