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How To Lose The Baby Weight

Updated on January 29, 2010

Take It Off, Take It All Off

You CAN get rid of excess pounds gained during pregnancy! Not only that, but you can bring back that muscle tone you thought you traded in for motherhood.

The human body is a fascinating machine, and (barring certain medical circumstances) was created to regenerate and renew. Your body, when properly taken care of, will right itself and return to a state of health and balance.

By following a few key guidelines, you will be a happy, healthy (and hot) mama!

Do You Really Want It?

Of course, getting the body back takes work. Ages ago, we humans toiled and labored all the day through -and since there was no such thing as Twinkies or McDonalds, there weren't really any fat-inducing foods available. Now, we sit on our hineys many hours of the day and eat all kinds of ungodly things. This has, of course, led to the big 'obesity epidemic' we hear so much about. It has also led to (and forgive me for this one) a lot of excuse making on our part. I do it, too. "But, it's soooo hard!" or - and this is my favorite- "I don't have time!" Well, I ask you this: do you really want it? If you smoke, you'll probably walk a considerable length to light up if the situation calls for it. If you are really in to someone romantically, you may pull all-nighters wooing them, all the while logging in extra time at work to finance said escapades.

The point is that if you really want something, you will make the time for it and you will push yourself to obtain it. Period.

So, do you REALLY want to get back in shape after baby? Sweet! Time to get up and off of the ol' rump - as soon as you're done reading this, of course!

Breast Is Best

La Vierge à L'Enfant by Jean Fouquet (1450, France)
La Vierge à L'Enfant by Jean Fouquet (1450, France)

I can't stress enough the importance of breastfeeding, if you are able. Not only does baby receive the very best nutrition available, but nursing is known to help mommies shed extra poundage much more quickly than not doing so.

Another added benefit is that breastfeeding burns calories - so you don't have to start dieting right after pregnancy. Lactating women should eat an additonal 500 calories a day. If the majority of those come from healthy foods, your metabolism will be whirring along like a triathlete's.

Let us not forget to praise the boobs in the aesthetic sense. If you were already blessed with ample bosoms, you may not appreciate this aspect of new motherhood. However, the milk-swollen breasts certainly bring your body into nice proportions while your belly and hips are still livin' large. Oh, and they DO eventually stop feeling like they are going to explode. Be patient. It's worth it.

Breastfeeding also helps foster the bond between you and your baby. This bonding releases endorphins and all kinds of other great chemicals into your body, alleviating stress and staving off the dreaded post-partum depression. Time and again it has been proven that a happy mom is a thinner mom!

Water, Baby!

Drink water, tea, and more water - especially if breastfeeding.

Water flushes out toxins and will help your body to shed the extra layers.

Drink water throughout the day. It's good to have a mug or cup that you really like drinking out of. This is important. Test out different containers - bottles, mugs with straws, travel cups, etc. You may well find that you drink more throughout the day when using a certain type of vessel.

Exercise is Everywhere

Now that you've got a new baby, you have also become the recipient of your own home gym - congratulations! Not being able to get to the gym is no excuse for you!

  • Walk It Off- Put Baby in the stroller and hit the streets! Take a tour of your neighborhood, or walk a local mall. It doesn't matter where you walk, just go do it! Hills? Even better. Walk with your little one every day, and walk a little further each day. If you push yourself just a little more each time, and continue your walks faithfully you will see results. Also, most wee babes really enjoy going on a walk & it gives you a chance to point out and name different objects to jump-start that little vocabulary.
  • Tummy Time- When baby is having his or her playtime, lie down nearby and do as many ab crunches as you can. If you don't feel a slight burning pain in your stomach muscles, you can probably do some more. (You may want to place a rolled towel or small pillow under the small of your back for comfort and less back-strain.) Remind your body that you know those muscles are still under there and that you intend to uncover them! Also, baby will enjoy having you so close and will likely be fascinated by your strange, contorted expressions.
  • Crib Notes- Hold on to the side if the crib for balance and lift one leg in the air behind you as high as you can, holding and squeezing the buttocks for several seconds. Slowly lower the leg and repeat with the other leg as many times as you can. Do this at least once during the day.
  • Dance, Dance - Baby will love it when you put on some tunes and dance like an idiot. You'll burn calories while entertaining the little one. The best moves for toning are ballet related, so grab a chair (or use the crib!) for balance and recreate all those fancy looking ballet moves you've seen. Even if you don't know a thing about ballet, as long as you are stretching, extending, lifting, holding, and squatting -no matter how awkwardly- your body is going to respond by sloughing off that extra layer of fat!

Eat Up

Give your body the good stuff it needs to be its best. Food is to be enjoyed, not feared or hated! Stock up on nutritious foods to feed the machine. By making some healthy trade-off's, you can optimize your body's bounce-back potential.

Trade In: Candy (well, you can have some - but only in moderation) For: Blueberries (there are so many fabulous health benefits from blubes, and they are just so yummy)

Trade In: Vegetable or Canola Oil For: Olive Oil (Not only is it delicious, but Olive Oil is swimming with vitalizing properties)

Trade In: Ice Cream (have some - we are only human!- but, again, in moderation) For: Frozen Yogurt or Sorbet

Trade In: Wimpy wannabe salads with iceberg lettuce For: serious greenery - choose greens like kale, spinach, watercress, romaine, and endive for your salads and don't forget the sprouts!

Once you start making healthier choices, your body will begin to crave more healthy foods and it will be easier for you to pick the body-better eats.


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Keep your eye on the prize. Put up pictures of your prebaby self or of women whose physiques you admire (go for someone natural and unenhanced as we don't want to give ourselves false ideals here) to remind you of why you are making these extra efforts.

Set up a reward for yourself, such as a vacation or a new swimsuit (depending on what your budget allows, of course) as your prize once you have completed a set goal. The goal could be losing x amount of pounds, or just sticking to your exercises for x amount of days.

Now, get up and get going. Really, if you have a laptop, you could have been on the floor doing backward leg lifts as you read more slacking, chop chop!

Hats off to you, healthy Mama!


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      RooBee 7 years ago from Here

      Hey Ben,

      Sorry for the slow response. Has your little bundle arrived yet? Congratulations!! As a hubby, you can do a lot to help your wife get back into shape. I've found that positive encouragement is the best. Postpartum girls can be emotionally sensitive, so let her know you think she's attractive no matter what. Also, make sure she has the time to get in some workouts. Offer to hang out with the baby so she can get to the gym or out for a walk. If she doesn't feel overwhelmed with duties, she is a lot more likely to spend some time getting back into shape.

      Enjoy your new addition and thanks so much for commenting!

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      Ben Zoltak 7 years ago from Lake Mills, Jefferson County, Wisconsin USA

      Cool hub RooBee, wish I could show my now pregnant wife, but I fear she would get mad at me. Anyway, great information and I liked your down to earth tone!



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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

      The Phil- first, thanks for reading & welcome! Sounds like a good idea, I'll put it in the queue. :)

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      The Phil 8 years ago from New York

      Now how about a guide to help keep the lbs off BEFORE pregnancy??

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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

      I've given this hub an extreme makeover and think its muuuuch better now....

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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

      Froggy-d dear and Miss Cindy, thank you too much for de sweet compliments.

      LAmatadora, I was waiting for a comment like this - though yours is very nicely put & I thank you for that! This, being my first hub, was really an experiment and I thought 'hmmm, what can I put out there that I have original pictures of and have experience with?' and this was the first thing that popped up. There wasn't a huge amount of thought going into this one - I just wanted to get something out there and see how it flew.

      Upon reading it again, I must say that I really don't like it much. In fact, I find myself rather annoying in tone. Well, you live and learn. :) I'm sure I will come through and edit this one, making it more realistic and more pleasurable to read.

      I can't tell ya how much I appreciate all of you reading my first hubbaby. It seems like I made it a year ago rather than a couple weeks and hope you'll not give up on me as I work to create more helpful and/or entertaining hubs!!

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      LAmatadora 8 years ago

      You look terrific and obviously skinny genes run in your family but for most women its alot harder tolose the counting calories to less than 1000 a day. Maybe after baby number one these steps work ( because thats basically what I did after my first) ... but in the land of my REALITY after more than one kid its not that easy, or at least it wasn't for me! Good advice though... =)

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      Cindy Vine 8 years ago from Cape Town

      I am jealous! i don't look like that!

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      Andria 8 years ago

      Roobee - you look fabulous dahhhhhhling!

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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

      James- Thank you kindly! Down with infant formula, up with boobies! :)

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      James A Watkins 8 years ago from Chicago

      Your exercize program certainly worked for you—you are awesome looking! And breastfeeding is very important for the physical health of our children and the bonding experience between mother and child. I enjoy readin your writing.

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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

      Ah, nowwww I get it! :D

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      Misha 8 years ago from DC Area

      Hey, my pleasure RooBee :) Lactation IS a very exciting topic, why do you think most of American guys are crazy about tits? They did not have enough of them as babies :)

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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

      Aw, thx Misha! I really appreciate you checking out my first hub- especially since it's about lactation and poochy bellies and other such exciting topics. :)

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      Misha 8 years ago from DC Area

      LOL You are VERY cute mom :)

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      RooBee 8 years ago from Here

      Thanks! I hope to post some more new mom help hubs - there are just so many little things you don't know till you get there. I appreciate ur reading & commenting immensely!

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      Julianna 8 years ago from SomeWhere Out There

      Great instructive advice for new mommy's :)