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7 Steps to Retirement Success

Updated on January 11, 2018
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Mary has already retired from her job and also helps organizations with steps on how to reward their employees including retirees.

Retirement Success

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Plan for Adventure

Retirement is a new life. More true today when life is healthier and longer. The retirement years can no longer be taken for granted. You can plan for at least another forty or so years.

Remember, Life does not stop at retirement. In fact, it just gets better. Now, you have your chance to do the things you have always wanted to do. Yes, face the challenge of a new life.

Create a new life. Skip the experience of being a nobody without the status that a job gives. Fret not for the absence of a regular place to go to and dress up for, the companionship of colleagues and the challenge of work that is no longer there.

Stop staring at Grumpy, the equally beleaguered spouse. That is NOT a good plan. Going for coffee everyday is no substitute. Your children and grandchildren get tired of your constant poking about and you lose your patience, too. The flaming carcass of the family relationship spacecraft is moments away from ground zero.

Plan to Get Engaged

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Plan for engagement

Or you will live your retirement years grumping at your grandkids. Before we retired, I remembered the hours my husband (Grumpy) and I agonized over what we'll do in the future.

We knew that we couldn't just move into long term parking until we were towed away! As we listened to friends blathering on about doing nothing or putzing about at golf or food banks, fear struck us like a knife.

One thing we had learned from Grumpy's parents was that unless you plan for your life, you will live many of your retirement years in regret. So, about 5 years before the "Big Leap", we started working on a life plan designed for us.

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Steps to Planning for Life at Retirement

Retirement is not an end to engagement. It is just the beginning of a new adventure. Here are the steps to plan for it more effectively:

1. Determine your needs at retirement

Are you thinking of working at retirement? Some retirees need to work to augment their income given that most of them live longer now.

Some, just want to be engaged as those years can be boring and they just can't wait for 4:00 o'clock to go to the club and the coffee shops can get really depressing.

Determine for yourself what will make you happy at retirement. Have a plan. Review this after a year of retirement and adjust it. Your needs become clearer after some experience. However, have one now to give your retirement some direction.

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2. Define what you really want to do in life

First, we defined what we really wanted to do. Retirement is your chance to do that something you so desire but never had the time when you were busy at work.

We had glimpses of this in the beginning. We knew what made us happy and what gave us energy. We knew that tourist travel of 4 countries in a week was about as empty an experience as just sitting at home.

We did not arrive at a plan fast. No. I still remember the many walks we had at the beach in Siesta Key agonizing at how we want to live our retirement. Florida pushes this issue right in your face.

So questions were asked. One we spent time on was: How could we travel....stay a bit longer and learn more about other peoples' lives and culture and desires and hopes? We had always been in education and in development and maybe in this combination we could find a package of interest driven activities that would be a workable plan B.

Work at Retirement

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3. Leverage your current job for some opportunities

So we began to leverage our current jobs. We poked through our skills and the contacts given by employment to see what could be done. We checked with bosses what we still can do for the organization. Because of our skills and reputation it was easy to find some fits.

What was clear was that people have a sense of what they enjoy most in the job they do now or at other times in their career. My husband and I knew that what we really enjoyed in our jobs was travelling, getting into new places, meeting new people, new challenges, new areas we haven't tried before so we could stretch our minds and learn new skills. Foremost as well is helping other people, not charity or aid but empowering them to be the best in what they do.

4. Track down what you really value

When you track down this particular thing that is important to you, take note. How can you get this in your retirement? What possibilities are there to keep chasing the things you consider of value to your life?

Will your current job provide you opportunities to still enjoy this after retirement? Explore this. Will your current employer allow you to do even more of those activities you enjoy most, part time, of course?

Learn how to plan for retirement - For a meaningful life in retirement

Learn from what others do. You have one life to live and when you plan it early on, you reap the benefits of a blessed life.

5. Transition your way to retirement

Manage the transition to better your life. What we did was sign a transitional consulting contract for two years with the company my husband was working with. We continued working on some of the programs that we were handling when we were still working.

Why a contract? Remember this. When you're retired, they no longer have a responsibility towards you so unless this is a business deal, do not depend on this. The new boss can just easily get out of this. Even if they are bound legally, you will be in misery.

We had a pension, so we could take a serious cut as we learned the new role as independent consultants. This arrangement assured us of work for at least two years when we were just establishing ourselves as consultants and gave us a framework on how to do this. It was a good transition strategy. After two years, we were ready.

So, give yourself the luxury of time to find out what you really want to do at retirement. You now have a pension to support you to do this.

Transition to Retirement

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6. Create the job or hobby that gives you life

We created our jobs. While still at work, you can create the jobs that you can do part time so you can enjoy some free time to explore other things. We knew we wanted to go into consulting. We did not plan this to be full time.

But when we started, we just kept getting work and had to be really careful to protect the months we had designated to be home with our families. All our contracts respected this. In cases when we had offers that intruded, we just said NO.

You have to make your priorities clear otherwise you will feel that you are deprived once again of your freedom which you had been looking forward to for so long.

7. Be a newbie again

And then we studied anything we could find on our target geography, any new directions in our skill sets. It was like being a newbie again on the first job. It was amazing fun.

Remember this. What you want is to have fun at retirement, not just work for the sake of engagement. Do something that is fun. The work we're doing is fun for us.

Have Fun at Retirement

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Without a plan before you retire

You may end up in a well funded dead end

Our finances are there always in our view. I concentrate on this while my husband concentrates on the contracts and contacts. We had practiced these roles while still in our jobs so this was not a difficult transition. OK, that's our story.

The key is not us and our activities, it is the basic reality that without a life plan before you retire, you may end up in a well funded dead end not feeling wanted or needed. A deep boring rut and the only difference between a rut and a grave is the depth!

Today is the best day to do something for your retirement.

© 2010 Mary Norton

What are you doing now for your retirement? - Or what you did to have a life at retirement

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      Mary Norton 2 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      I have to ask my friend for the Vietnamese translation. We worked there but am not really good at the language. We sometimes go to Great Ayton in North Yorkshire to visit our daughter. She happens to work in the Royal Mail. Both my husband and I are history majors and though retired, we still work as consultants on education projects. Your interest is so much part of ours.

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      Alan R Lancaster 2 years ago from Forest Gate, London E7, U K (ex-pat Yorkshire)

      Hello Mary (aesta1), here's me tripping the light fantastic in your world.

      I took early retirement from a tiresome job at Royal Mail in August, 2008. Things were a bit tight for a while but I've had money back on PPI claims (protected payment insurance, it's like the Mafia lottery) and the odd part-time job including a few seasons as Museum Steward at Lord's Cricket Ground (in London NW8).

      My main interest is the writing. English and British, Celtic and post-Roman history, travel in the North East and Yorkshire, Vikings, Railway Modelling... And my books. Five self-published so far in a saga series that goes back to September, 1066 in and near York. These Hub-pages add interest to life and a little extra income.

      What's the Vietnamese for 'Keep on Truckin'?

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      Susie Lehto 2 years ago from Minnesota

      Mary, thank you for your vote of confidence. I felt that!

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      Mary Norton 2 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      Susie, you are very resourceful so you will manage very well.

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      Susie Lehto 2 years ago from Minnesota

      Mary, I wish I had a good retirement plan in place. Because I do not, I will have to live by faith and not look at my bank account as my source, God is.

      This is a very useful article, and if only I could do some things over.

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      Anne Morrison 3 years ago

      Very important to have still have goals before entering retirement. Thank you for the book recommendations!

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      othellos 4 years ago

      Excellent lens. We save money for retirement but with all these global economic changes that happen every day we are in great doubt if we will be able to reach our goal. Interesting suggestions and valuable tips. Thanks for sharing:=)

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      Mary Norton 5 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      @Maurice123: Thank you. That is exactly the right thing to do. Plan to have a great life when you retire.

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      Maurice123 5 years ago

      Hi dear you so right as the majority of us save money and plan for rainy days which is so far from any logic.

      Yes we should work on a plan to improve and better ourselves. Therefore we plan for better days and for life and not for rainy days retirement. Thank you your article was worth reading.

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      Gloria Freeman 5 years ago from Alabama USA

      Hi great info and tips on retirement. I enjoyed reading this lens.

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      kimbesa 5 years ago from USA

      In the middle, one foot on the boat, the other on the dock. Getting the pieces in place.

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      Interdev 5 years ago

      With no demands on you, I think you accelerate personal collapse. Plan to keep engaged any way you can.

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      RetroMom 6 years ago

      This is a great lens. It is really important that we plan ahead.

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      Tony Payne 6 years ago from Southampton, UK

      You have some excellent ideas and information here. I expect to retire in 10 years, which is when I finish paying child support, and since that takes a sizeable chunk out of my income every month, we are unable to save anything for our retirement, which means that all the good ideas in the world are no good unless you have spare income that you can save. We only have two hopes for retirement, the first is to win the lottery, and the second is to build a decent online income through writing etc, which will help to supplement our earnings/pensions. Wishing you success in your retirement, and the health to enjoy a long one. Blessed.

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      poutine 6 years ago

      Love this article.

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      Lorelei Cohen 6 years ago from Canada

      Hi I am back again to remind myself how wonderful this article on retirement really is. Have a wonderful holiday season.

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      anonymous 6 years ago

      I guess moving on in life from birth till the end should be one smooth flow and retirement can never be a dead-end! If you love whatever you do in life, one never retires IMO. Very valuable tips on offer here! :)

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      Lorelei Cohen 6 years ago from Canada

      Just letting you know that there is a topic titled healthy living-aging-retirement. I am the angel in the aging category and blessed this one because it is on an aging topic. Best wishes

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      greenkat lm 7 years ago

      Great advice - really makes you think. Thanks!

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      anonymous 7 years ago

      Great advice on retirement!

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      moonlitta 7 years ago

      You are perfectly right and retirement is another part of our lives which shouldn't be treated worse than the rest of it.

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      RinchenChodron 7 years ago

      Very wise advise. Great lens.

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      nort43 7 years ago

      We all have stories to tell. You do it better than most. Great lessons in this for 40 year olds. Keep writing.