TEENAGERS UNDER RISK OF DEPRESSION!!!!
TEENAGERS AND STRESS!
TEENS MORE THAN EVER ARE UNDER RISK OF DEPRESSION! They need our help and it is our duty to help them; they are our future.Technology is really important, but we are pushing it too much! Teens have a lot to do and they are under the pressure of school, parents, social media and, of course, technology.
Modern times bring stress to all ages, that is why we need meditation and yoga, because our life is too far from being natural. More and more the pressure of modern societies is increasing and the world teens have to lie is way different than modern adults had!
We, as adults, have to understand the environment where our kids and teenager living in. They really need understanding, comprehension and love!
TEENS UNDER PRESSURE
This so modern life full of technology is creating addiction to technology; but it is worst: Teenagers are under a big risk of depression because of the social media influence!
The matter is: Teenagers are having more friends on the net than in regular life. They spend a lot of time trying to connect to their friends. They get upset when they cannot do that! Why? Because of the addiction to social media; it is getting stronger and stronger.
That is not teenager's fault; but the way of life we are living. Teenagers, more than ever, are under a big influence from friends and the media. This can push them into wrong habits or bad influences! Moreover, into depression because of the dependence of their 'friends' opinion (Public opinion)
If you think it is easy to be a teenager then you are totally wrong! The 21st century has a lot of problems for people of all ages!
Teenager need to practice sport, meditation, relaxation, yoga and obviously camping to have fun and take their stress off!
Teens, more than ever, need nice parents, our understanding, comprehension and love. They need to be treated with respect and they need a guide to take them to the right path. Life is too complex and schools are not doing enough to help them. We need a system where learning and having fun is combined in a balance and harmony.
WHY DEPRESSION IS GETTING INTO TEENS' LIVES?
The solution is not taking policemen into the schools; but taking care o f them since childhood. We need to offer them a better life and better values. A real reason for life and not this routine world full of pressure everywhere you go.
There is too much money going into wars and other things that could go to education and to improve human values. We need a system able to give our teachers support and help. Our teachers are so important because they are giving their lives to educate our children and teenagers.
Teachers and students must be treated with respect and dignity. Teachers are instructing our teens and the latter are learning from teachers. So, the education of kids and teenager is a team work and parents need to get involved seriously on this matter; not to blame our teens, but to understand them and stand alone with them.
The more support teens have the better for them and for our society! They need our attention and they deserve that. They need the best form our society and from education.
Why depression is getting into teens?
Simple, they need someone to hear them. They are looking for help, for a real friend, for parents who show understanding and love. What if they do not find that? Then they get into problems of all sorts then after that they are blamed. The question is: What did our society do for them? Did our education system do enough? Did their parents do enough?
Who is responsible for teens’ depression? What is the solution to this problem? Well, responsible for that is the whole society, the system, the type of life we are offering and the lack of love and understanding! What is the solution? We need to check all things related to teenagers from TV programs to teachers and parents.
The bottom line is: We need to offer them a better quality of life: Real values, love, understanding, care, listening, etc.
The best thing an adult can do for a teen is: Be nice, put their shoes, do not take things for granted and remember one day you were a teen!
MEDITATION AND YOGA
MEDITATION AND YOGA plus exercising, camping and having fun can help a lot. Meditation and Yoga had to be part of all schools nationwide. Teachers should encourage teens to participate in meditation and yoga to develop calmness, concentration, relaxation and health. Nevertheless, one is the most important factor to be given to our teens: LOVE!
It is important to teach teens that money and things are important, but not the most important things in life. We need to teach them to appreciate what they have; but adults need to learn that too.
Teens need to define what they are and they need a good example for it. Who can that be? Parents most give a good example more than anybody else. So, parents have to give more love than anybody else. Parents need to be relaxed and relaxed too. It is important for parents to control themselves to gain respect and authority.
When teens do not define what they are then they get really confused and they will lack self-importance. The outcome will be insecurity and fear! Love can cure those scars and meditation can help a lot. Both, parents and teens, need meditation to have more relaxed and better life.
There are several techniques to learn to meditate. One of them is MINDFULNESS MEDITATION. It consist on birthing slowly, taking air with the stomach first and then with the chest. A guide or person to guide the meditation helps a lot; but you can do it alone.
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DEPRESION AND ABORTION!
Yes, abortion is a big reason for depression. Teens, we all know, get sexual active too soon and they forget the risks for doing it. They fall in love and lose their head. Abortion is so common that in some states they go to 50% or even 60% of abortion in teenagers. That should be a concern of modern parents. It seems that we see it to normal and we do not pay enough atention to this problem.
Why teens get into this problem? Well, there are some reasons: One is the lack of love they feel, other one is the lack of self-importance, one more is the pression of other friends and some other reasons.
Everything starts in home. Parents must show love, respect, comprehension and care! Bur guess waht? They are so busy in their lives, too many problems to solve, too tired to do something, and so on. Are you playing with your teen's future? You need to tell them about all the risks about having sex. They have two choises: do it or not! So. The message is up to you as a parent. Do not rely on education only. You must be part of your teen education. Family values are important and you teach with your example.
This is more than a matter of laws, this is a matter of a traumatic experience that must be avoided before it ocurs! why do we have to look for a solution after the rpoblem and not before? TALK TO YOUR TEENS, PLEASE.
IT IS TIME FOR PARENTS TO DO MORE FOR THEIR KIDS AND TEENS! THEY ARE OUR FUTURE!
KIDS AND SEX!
Why is so hard for parents to talk about this subject? Aren't they the most responsible on this matter? Yes, they are. They should take care of this matter before it appears… How? It involves many things: Teach the kids how to behave and be a good kid; show them your love and comprehension, build a strong relationship, give time more than money, teach your kids good values (Respect, tolerance, common sense, self-control, love, etc.)
Is it hard to do that? Well, ask yourself: DOES MY KID DESERVE THE BEST? Then you will find out the answer. It might not be easy, it might take patience and tolerance and time form you, but it pays for the rest of your life and for the best of his/her life. Take actions now and do not wait for the time to cry or the time to ask yourself: what did I do wrong?
Why do we have to let a teacher (an estranger) to explain them what love is and what sex is. Maybe they do not have the same ideas or principles that you have.
Why do we have to explain kids how to use condoms or contraceptives? Well, because they are some kids doing it. Should your kid pay for other parent's mistakes? Why do we need to put in their mind something that is not part of them yet? How do you expect a 10 year old boy to understand what sex is and what it is for? Does it make sense? ... Not to me and not too many parents.
Schools should be more concern about teaching kids how to grow into a good man and be success in life. The idea is not bad, the matter is: kids are not able to understand that yet!
Talking about sex to kids is good when the time comes and it depends on the circumstances; but it is not a good idea just to talk to them any regular day. The problem: CURIOSITY! They might want to give it a try. Why? The teacher told them. That is it. Plus, any teen might push them to try.
The whole society is losing values and we want our kids to pay for it! Isn't time to say something and stop the way the whole world is doing things? Don't we deserve a better way of life? What is the best solution for our modern society? Are we losing control of everything?
WHAT CAN WE DO?
Well, we need to take action about this matter. Kids need sex education, but it does not mean putting sex in their mind; but teaching them good values and show them real love. Why are they having sex? One reason among others: THEY FEEL ALONE! They change sex for "love", actually they need company. They want to be appreciated. The truth is they get trapped into dependency and when the other kid or teen leaves them they feel worst than before!
They have expressions like "I will love you forever" or "I cannot live without you" or other similar ideas; but the fact is: They will be together for a short time and then the reality will show. One will get someone else!
Parents must understand the reality of this problem and they need to face it. No birth-control or condom will ever fix a hurt soul! It is ok to protect the body, but… what about the inner world of the teen?
The fact is: More teens are having sex and we have more teen abortions. We really need a sex education, but base in good values, respect and self-control.
Teens must understand the problem beyond the physical experience; because once the soul is hurt it is not hill easily. Teens really need the care of their parents because they need to feel secure. An insecure teen is an easy victim of sex.
Sex involves more than a physical contact; it involves a soul contact beyond the comprehension of teens and adults!
TV is playing a big roll on this matter. It is proven that it is influencing on teen sex. Internet is part of the game too. Kids and teens are being shot with many sex ideas every single day. So, it is not easy for them to say no. here is when parents love becomes so important.
Parent must get involved in their kids and teens life more and more. It does not mean to control them; but to understand them and show them their love and appreciation. Parents must not take for granted what love is. Love is action and it pushes to action. Passiveness is just irresponsibility!
WHOEVER WANTS A BETTER LIFE, WHOEVER WANTS A BETTER WORLD CANNOT JUST WATCH AND STAY AWAY FROM THE PROBLEM; THAT PERSON UNDERSTAND THE BIG RESPONSIBILITY ON HIS/HER SHOULDERS! WHOEVER WANTS SOMETHING BETTER FOR FUTURE GENERATIONS MUST ACT AND RISE HIS/HER VOICE. WE NEED TO FIGHT FOR OUR KIDS AND TEENS!
Life is great, but mistakes make it bitter. It is painful to see a teen crying because his boyfriend got another person in his life. Especially if she is pregnant! Things like that can push into depression a lovely teen! Boys and girls must wait for the right person and for the right age.
PLEASE READ THESE ARTICLES - Get sexual aware!
- USA TODAY: Study is first to link TV sex to teen parenthood:
Teens who watch sex on TV are more atracted to sex activity.
- USA TODAY: Teen pregnancy, abortion rates rise:
Abortion rates are rising!
- USA TODAY: Study links viewing adult-themed TV to earlier sex in teens:
The effect of sex on TV!
- Pregnant Teen Help => Abortion Statistics
We need to prevent teen abortion!
- TEEN ABORTION STATISTICS:
Abortion statistics in USA.
TEENS DESERVE OPPORTUNITIES AND LOVE!
Teens are the futures of our nation!
Today's society is asking too much from teens. You are teen once in life and therefore we need to give more opportunities to them. They really feel alone and some bullies are the outcome of loneliness too.
We all need appreciation and when you are a teen you really need appreciation and understanding. Parents usually forget that they wee teens once. Now days life is different and teens have a real different life from the 70s and 80s. parents need to be updated to understand teens lives. Teachers should take a course to understand teens and kids. They do not need more rules or restrictions, they really need new opportunities and love.
What would you do if you were feeling alone? Yes, you would look for appreciation and if nobody gives you that.... what would you do? Look for it, right? Yes! The feeling of being part of a group is a natural and normal feeling. That is why teens love groups and being part of them. They are looking for a kind of family and they get into gangs or they get into drugs or so on.
SOCIETY REALLY NEED A NEW APPROACH TO SOLVE MANY PROBLEMS AND TO UNDERSTAND TEENS. TEENS WILL BECOME A NEW GENERATION TO HELP OUR COUNTRY, BUT WITHOUT THE PROPER UNDERSTANDING THEY WILL FAIL. WHO TO BLAME? SOCIETY? NO! WE ARE TO BE BLAMED!
We need to take responsibility for our future. We need to encourage teens to a better world and we need to lead them to the right track! LOVE AND COMPASSION IS THE KEY TO HELP EVERY SINGLE HUMAN BEING AND IT INCLUDES TEENS!
LET'S SUPPORT OUR TEENS TO HAVE A BETTER WORLD!