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The Goodness Of Unplanned Pregnancy

Updated on May 4, 2019
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Studies psychology, advocates on mental & physical wellness, teaches & writes.


10 Good Values You Can Get From Having A Baby

Opening Statement

Unplanned pregnancy due to certain situations such as teenage love affair that resulted into sudden pregnancy, a tragic rape accident, or the lack of family planning knowledge could result into anxiety, depression, frustration, and even suicide. This matter is a global phenomenon that affects the lives of many individuals from everywhere in the world.

However desperate the situation might sound, there is always a bright side to everything. And it is the main objective of this article to uplift the spirits of teenage mothers, single parents, and every parent out there. I want you all to know the goodness you can get from having a child.

1. Being More Responsible.


Imagine yourself taking care of an angel, of course you do not want her to suffer from starvation and rejection. Therefore, you would do everything you can to provide the needs of your baby which is a good stepping stone towards a better future for you and your child.

2. Extends Your Patience.

Even at odd hours of the night, your baby would want your attention, your comfort, and your warmth. It is indeed, a tough challenge to become a responsible parent especially when it’s your first time. It requires more of your patience so you would be able to take care of her even in your most exhausting days.

3. Makes You Happy.


Despite the struggles, having a baby alters your sad mood into a happy one. The kind of happiness that cannot be found anywhere nor in anyone or anything because that happiness lasts for a lifetime, soothes deep into your soul, warms your heart, and sheds a light into your life.

4. Adds To Your Motivation.

Because you are happy, your level of inspiration increases along with the happy feeling inside of you. The love you have and get from your baby will serve as your power to continue in whatever difficulty you might encounter.


5. Stronger Version Of Yourself.

Someone so helpless needs you now more than ever, so, you steady your grip no matter how wary your arms become. This is no longer your fight, but yours and hers.

6. You Become Optimistic.

Due to your happiness, you are encouraged to think and behave positively. And, opting your perspective that way will lead both of your lives to a brighter future.

7. Lights Your Heart.


Being a mother opens all of your kindness in so many ways. Your heart will open automatically to anyone who needs your help.

8. Turns You Into A Wise Person.

Your wit and strategy will eventually get higher because your motivation also increased. You will become streetwise and more knowledgeable in life for you are open for opportunities and possibilities.

9. You Become More Disciplined.


In order to take care of your baby and raise her into a healthy living individual, you need to challenge yourself. The once impulsive and lazy version of yourself will change into an irrational and diligent person. Discipline will be your best weapon to earn a penny for a day.

10. Sums Up Your Dedication.

Your dedication towards your achieving your goals will be pushed through because of your desire to win for your baby. Therefore, your possibility to succeed is about eighty percent.

You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance.

— Franklin P. Jones

Closing Statement

Do not be afraid of judgements and criticisms, it is completely normal to feel frightened especially when you don't know what to do or where to start, however, only when you calm yourself down will you find the true answers. Clear your head first before you make a bad choice.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2019 Shing Araya


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    • Shing Araya profile imageAUTHOR

      Shing Araya 

      8 months ago from Cebu, Philippines

      Thanks a lot for agreeing. Yes, I fo hope too because it would be disgrace if one woman is not supported well nor being adviced.

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      Patricia Scott 

      8 months ago from North Central Florida

      All of what you say is true. Hopefully those who become pregnant will have a support system to help them through especially if they are very young Angels are headed your way this evening ps

    • Shing Araya profile imageAUTHOR

      Shing Araya 

      10 months ago from Cebu, Philippines

      Yes, Ms. Dora..I do hope so as well..or else they might lose hope..

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      Dora Weithers 

      10 months ago from The Caribbean

      Wishing that this "goodness" becomes true for all the women who became mothers before they were ready. Very thoughtful!


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