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Updated on December 27, 2014

What the heck?

When most people think boundaries they think of a limit of some form tangible or not that they cannot touch. Correct, since we are all human I think that in the birth or casting of my career I think we should establish some boundaries for all of us to discuss as a health concern. Honestly, I think people for the most part are awesome these days at minding other people's space. However, as a young lady this conversation needs to be had. who better to have it with than the world right? From my experience, I have come to realize that a lot of abusive relationships come from just that itself. A boundary issue, so a lot of people out there I know they love their new relationships. Keep in mind that when your significant lover is always at your side, you feel smothered, and you can get to a point where your actually scared to leave them. Ladies and gentlemen abuse is a huge psychological restraint on a human and half the time we know but we don't say anything cause we can't prove it. So with that question being said and since I working to empower, how do we stop this process? How do we pin point the abuser? How do we get help? In a world where resources are limited because helping hands are limited, it's time for the neighbors to read the signs.

Free your heart.

People, this is the women's health section and quite frankly we need to broaden how we define our conscious health. We always talk about being equally represented but if were no better than the system how do you expect to beat it? Being a woman isn't about having a vagina, its about respecting your feminine nature. We all have a feminine side, just like we all have a masculine side. A man is a man, a woman is a woman but I see a cross between typical cookie cutter picture perfect ideas of the genders. That's what makes everyone special, we have to understand that no matter who we think we are we just can't treat people how we want to. It's plain and simple, if we are all equal act like it. Respect is a huge deal, rather do it freely than forced in prison as a means for survival because you wouldn't respect people.

Charity.

The internet is a wonderful tool these days, spreading awareness is probably the best charity on topics that don't get too much attention, or hasn't made it to the general public yet. In my opinion at least, especially on the internet it gives people a quick way to read what your trying to convey to them then they can research and find more information if they are interested in the topic. I will put a couple links and phone numbers for domestic abuse to get some help. So people please, I am begging you if there is anything you can possibly do as a friend if you have friends is know what these warning signs of an abusive spouse. Seriously, take note of the actual symptoms not the character of the suspect but the actions being taken. You know what they say, it's always who you least expect. The fact of the matter is, is that it needs attention. It's at a point where I know so many people that claim abuse at some point in their life and my question is, when was this okay?

Resources

HelpGuide.Org 1-888-7HelpLine (Men)

TheHotline.Org 1-800-799-7233 (Both)



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      Sulabha Dhavalikar 3 years ago from Indore, India

      When my daughter was to get married, this was one fear I had. An abusive relationship can be terrible. And God was kind I guess, for we found a good son-in-law.

      Whatever, my advise to girls & boys will be that there is nothing like love at first sight. Further, a bad marriage can really break a person. So go ahead slowly. If a person has a habit of swearing & cursing, is highly egoistic, terribly physically inclined and secretive about his/ her movements while extracting all details from your end, there is much to think about.

      Yes, I agree by and large a society plays safe. But then parents & siblings are always there. And they should stand up at such times.

      At the same time, I wish to state that I have also seen cases where a person took to alcohol or violence due to excessive nagging - which is not correct either.

      And so you will understand that this is the main reason that society or people adopt a neutral attitude. Because, the picture at times is very different from what is projected.

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