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How to Find Sound Mental Health When Your Parents Are Mentally Ill

Updated on December 30, 2014

The Discoveries of Two Researchers

In case your parents are mentally ill, this fact will surely affect your mental health. You must prevent becoming mentally ill like them.

You have inherited their absurdity, and also the absurdity that belongs to your own primitive personality.

On the other hand, you imitate their behavior. Therefore, you learn their absurd reactions. You need treatment.

If your parents are mentally ill (both of them or one of them) you will surely have psychological problems in the future. You have to be prudent and prevent all mental illnesses through dream therapy.

Carl Jung was a genius not properly recognized by the world because only a few people can understand his complicated method of dream interpretation. I simplified his method for you, and I discovered a lot more about the meaning of dreams and their healing power.

Today you can easily learn the meaning of your own dreams thanks to my simplifications, and help yourself by following the unconscious guidance.

The unconscious mind that produces your dreams is your natural doctor. By following the unconscious psychotherapy, you will surely find sound mental health that lasts for life.

Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation is the only one that really helps you understand the wise messages of the unconscious mind. The scientific translations are not empty words, and they fit with your life biography.

I didn't continue Jung's dangerous research into the unknown region of the human psyche because I was curious, but because I needed a solution for my own psychological problems. Otherwise, I would become schizophrenic like my father.

You are very lucky because I simplified the dream language after discovering the roots of human absurdity. Today you can protect your mental health with safety.

Dream therapy guarantees your mental stability in all occasions.

When one of your parents (or both) is mentally ill, his absurd reactions have a very negative influence in your behavior. You cannot be different, even if you'll try to.

You will tend to behave like your absurd father or mother, even if today you don't observe the same behavior in yourself. In the future you will surely imitate this behavior for a certain reason.

Unfortunately, you have already inherited too much absurdity in your brain. If your parents are mentally ill, this means that you have inherited strong absurd tendencies. You won't be able to stop following your strong absurd tendencies without the right treatment.

You have to transform your personality through psychotherapy. Only if you'll be very serious and cautious, will you escape from this sad destiny. Mental disorders are invincible illnesses that you must prevent while you still can.

After finding sound mental health I started curing many people from several mental disorders through dream translation (since 1990). I saw many times into practice then whenever someone's parents are mentally ill, they unavoidably become mentally ill.

This is a tragic destiny that today you can avoid by following dream therapy with my dynamic method of instant dream translation, derived from the method of dream interpretation discovered by Carl Jung.

You are lucky because today you can reap the benefits of Carl Jung's discoveries, and the benefits of my discoveries, after continuing his research.

The wise unconscious mind that produces your dreams is a very serious doctor who can cure or prevent all mental illnesses.

Christina Sponias


Differentiating Yourself

You want to be different, and this is why you exaggerate.

For example, let's analyze the dreams of a woman who suffers from depression. She got married to a man who is selfish and possessive.

She has no courage to face a divorce because she loves him, even though she dislikes his behavior.

They don't have children besides being married for one year. He has a fertility problem but he doesn't want to have any treatment.

She dreamt that a black dog was following her in the street all the time. At a certain point she stopped walking and she tried to approach the dog. However, the dog became a black panther.

The dog in dreams represents infidelity and immorality.

The street is a dangerous place where the dreamer is exposed to various threats.

The black color represents the acceptance of what is bad. This means that the dreamer accepts the bad side of her immoral tendencies.

Therefore, the fact that the black dog was following the dreamer in the street means that her immoral tendencies are following her while she is facing dangerous situations.

When a dreamer is walking in dreams, this means that she is making a research. Therefore, her immoral tendencies were following her during her dangerous research (she was in the street).

The fact that the dog became a black panther means that her immoral tendencies are stronger than what she may imagine.

The panther represents a selfish and possessive person.

In other words, the unconscious mind is showing to this dreamer that she is being threatened by her immoral tendencies in her life, and that these tendencies are too powerful.

The dreamer will get involved with a possessive person because of her immoral tendencies, and betray her husband.

This means that her real problem is not the terrible behavior of her husband. Her problem is the fact that she has a tendency to feel attracted by men who behave like her husband.

The fact that she is not happy with him will make her accept infidelity and get involved with another man. However, this man will be as possessive as her husband because she has the absurd tendency to feel attracted by men who are possessive and rude like her husband.

The unconscious mind is showing to this dreamer that she cannot ignore the fact that her husband doesn't love her, and she is not happy with him. Her strong immoral tendencies won't let her respect her husband.

At the same time, this dream is showing to the dreamer that she will tend to get involved with a possessive man that won't be different from her husband. Her immoral tendencies became a possessive black panther. Again, she accepts what is bad because of the black color.

Thus, this dreamer's problem is quite complicated. She not only got married to the wrong person; she has the tendency to feel attracted by possessive and selfish men. In other words, she doesn't know how to find her perfect match. She is attracted by men who cannot be good partners for any woman.

The fact that her husband doesn't want to have children (since he is indifferent to his infertility) indicates that he might cheat on her, or that he has no intention to be married forever.

This dreamer got married to the wrong person because the attraction she feels for this man is absurd. It is not a healthy attraction for a man who is her perfect match.

Dream Analysis

Understanding Psychological Problems

Now, let's analyze another dream of the same dreamer in order to really understand her psychological problems.

It is night and she is getting dressed to go to a party. She is quite younger and unmarried in the dream. Her cousin is going to the party with her. However, when they get out, someone steals her cousin's purse. Instead of going to the party, they go to the police station.

We have to know how the dreamer characterizes her cousin, which represents a part of her own personality in the dream. The dreamer says that her cousin has many friends, and she has an intense social life. Therefore, her cousin represents an extroverted part of the dreamer's personality.

The fact that it is night indicates that the dreamer ignores many things.

A party in dreams represents an important event. It could be something like meeting her perfect match.

A woman's purse in a dream represents her feminine identity. The fact that her cousin's purse was stolen indicates that her cousin will lose her feminine identity because she will be forced to have a love relationship with a man. She won't be able to escape from his domination. In other words, she will be a victim of a possessive man.

Instead of going to a happy important event (the party) she will end up going to the police station, which represents self-defense.

Her cousin represents a part of the dreamer's personality that is extroverted. Therefore, the unconscious mind is showing to this dreamer that when she acts like her cousin, she is easily controlled by the desire to have love relationships with possessive men.

However, the dreamer is young and unmarried in the dream. This means that the unconscious mind is giving her an explanation about her past. The dreamer has the tendency to feel attracted by selfish and possessive men because she is controlled by the extroverted part of her personality (her cousin) since she was younger. In other words, she has this negative tendency for a long time; this behavior is not new.

This example shows you the real reason why this dreamer suffers from depression.

The dreamer should not blame her selfish husband for feeling depressed.

She must blame the extroverted part of her personality for feeling attracted by selfish and possessive men.

Since her extroverted side is absurd, this means that the dreamer doesn't belong to an extroverted psychological type, even though she is constantly influenced by this part of her personality. The dreamer belongs to an introverted psychological type, but she is easily influenced by her absurd extroverted side.

Those who belong to an extroverted psychological type have an intense social life and always agree with the general opinion about everything. Those who belong to an introverted psychological type are anti-social and always follow their personal opinion about their reality.

Her extroverted reactions belong to the wild side of her conscience, her anti-conscience. In other words, this part of her personality is in a primitive condition. When it controls her personality, she shows an immature and inconsequential behavior.

Instead of finding happiness (the party), she goes to the police. Therefore, the unconscious mind is showing to this dreamer that she has the tendency to feel attracted by possessive men and live in a self-defensive condition (police station). This dreamer is masochist. She has an absurd tendency to feel attracted by rude men that will hurt her, instead of loving her and making her happy.

The dreamer will get rid of her depression by transforming her extroverted side into a positive component of her conscience.

She will stop being controlled by the extroverted side of her personality without understanding what is happening to her.

Through dream therapy she will learn how to transform the wild part of her personality into a balanced component of her conscience.

She will therefore learn how to evaluate a man's personality and find a partner who is introverted like her, instead of following the absurdity of her wild extroverted tendencies.

Her extroverted side is in a primitive condition. It belongs to her anti-conscience.

She must acquire consciousness of this content, so that it may belong to her conscious mind. This way, she will be able to control her behavior and know what she is doing all the time. She won't act while being controlled by her absurd anti-conscience like she does now, whenever her extroverted side comes to the surface and controls her behavior.


The Dreamer's Childhood

The Negative Effect of Her Parents' Behavior

Now, we have to analyze the childhood of this dreamer in order to understand why she was controlled by the absurd tendency to feel attracted by men who are selfish and possessive like her husband when she was younger (as shown in her second dream).

Her parents were not happy. Her father was too indifferent and weak. He worked in his brother's company and he depended on his brother for everything. Her mother was always busy sewing. She didn't show affection to her children. The dreamer has an older sister, and a younger brother. She never felt that she had a family. Nobody ever gave her any attention.

Therefore, the dreamer had a sad childhood. This is a very negative factor for the formation of her personality. She acquired her absurd masochist tendency because she wanted to be different. She didn't want to get married to a weak man like her indifferent mother did.

She wanted to get married to a man who would be totally different from her father. She was looking for an idol; the strong man.

This intention made her accept the absurdity of her anti-conscience and look for the wrong psychological type. She had to look for an introverted psychological type similar to her psychological type in order to find her perfect match and have a perfect relationship. However, she looked for an extroverted psychological type because she was afraid of introverted psychological types. She didn't want to repeat her mother's mistake.

We observe this phenomenon happening many times. Most people don't want to imitate the bed example of their parents. Their desire to be different makes them exaggerate because they are basically looking for protection.

They don't know how to behave. Their anti-conscience takes advantage of their ignorance in order to make them behave in an absurd manner.

This dreamer's father doesn't seem to be mentally ill, but the fact that he had a weak personality indicates a mental disorder. Many mental illnesses are not diagnosed by our hypocritical and ignorant world.

Her mother was an indifferent woman who had a love relationship with a weak man, who had no personality. She was always busy working, and simply doing what she had to. She was not happy.

Even thought most people don't believe that a person who accepts living without looking for happiness is absurd, their indifference to their happiness proves their absurdity. They simply get adapted to their life conditions. Their apathy reflects a mental disorder.

With this example I'm showing you how the negative behavior of a parent negatively influences the behavior of his/her children, even when he doesn't suffer from a severe mental illnesses.

Now, you can understand what happens when someone's parents are schizophrenic or psychotic.

Since even parents who are not diagnosed as suffering from a mental illness negatively affect the mental health of their children, you can imagine how much those who have parents who suffer from severe mental illnesses are influenced by their parents' behavior.

If the dreamer's father (or mother) was schizophrenic or psychotic, she would show abnormal behavior characterized by extreme absurdity.

However, she doesn't show violent behavior. Her case is not one of the worst ones. She can find balance in a short period of time.

This dreamer is easily controlled by her absurd anti-conscience when she tries to be extroverted (her cousin), instead of being introverted like her psychological type. She tries to be extroverted because she is afraid of repeating her mother's mistake and get married to a weak man.

However, even though the dreamer wanted to avoid making her mother's mistake, she made exactly the same mistake because she didn't know how to find her perfect match, the same way that her mother didn't know how to find her soul mate. Their stories are different, but their basic mistake is the same. Both of them couldn't find the right husband and this is why they were unhappy.

The dreamer should be as introverted as extroverted in order to be a balanced person. However, she goes from one side to another without finding balance.

The unconscious psychotherapy will help her build a self-confident personality and understand who her perfect match really is, without being eluded by her anti-conscience. She will stop living with a man who is killing her personality.

She made a serious mistake for getting married to this man.

She doesn't really love him.

She is induced to believe that she is in love by her absurd anti-conscience, while this is not true.

The unconscious mind will help this dreamer begin a new life, free from the domination of her wild side.

This is how her depression will completely disappear, and she will find sound mental health and authentic happiness in life.

With this example you could see that even if your parents are not clearly mentally ill, you can have serious psychological problems and make many mistakes in life for being influenced by their negative behavior, especially if you'll try to avoid making their mistakes without knowing what to do.

The guidance of the wise unconscious mind will save your life and guarantee your happiness. You won't make costly mistakes and suffer like your parents did.

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Can You Prevent A Mental Illness? Do You Need This Precaution?

Young people should be the first ones to learn how to prevent a mental illness, since they don’t have the psychological problems that torture most adults in our world. All teenagers should follow the unconscious guidance in their dreams from the beginning of their adolescence.

However, only those who are tortured by strange fears and are afraid of their reactions care about following psychotherapy. We are not used with the idea to prevent a mental illness.

First of all, we don’t believe we could become mentally ill. Most people totally disregard even the most serious reasons to be afraid of a mental illness.

For example, everyone should understand that if their parents are mentally ill, they obviously have the tendency to become mentally ill like their parents, even if they would take into consideration only the fact that all children imitate their parents’ behavior.

Building a Strong and Self-Confident Personality

The wise unconscious mind will help you build a strong and self-confident personality. You will really become totally different from your parents.

The truth is that most people are predetermined to become mentally ill, even when they parents don't suffer from a severe mental illness, only because everyone inherits too much absurdity into the wild side of their conscience (anti-conscience).

Therefore, don't think that you are an exception. Most people in our world become mentally ill without understanding that they are neurotic.

You have to discover the ancient unconscious wisdom by learning the dream language. The wise unconscious mind sends you precious messages in your dreams because only when you are sleeping you stop following your absurd ideas. You also stop being influenced by the absurd world.

The fact that you will concentrate your attention in the dream images and try to understand the philosophical and poetic dream language will already help you find the solution you need. You will manage to be different, and find happiness in life.

Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung's research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to accurately translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.

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The Advantages of Dream Therapy

When you find inner peace, you become a savior. You are balanced in all circumstances, even when others lose their minds. You find wisdom.

This is a great advantage given to you thanks to dream translation.

You have numerous advantages when you know how to translate the meaning of your dreams.

You have a direct contact with your natural doctor through dream messages. The unconscious mind answers all your questions. You understand how others feel and think, besides understanding your own psychological system.

You make predictions in dreams, and you are able to change the future development of your reality, preparing the positive future you desire.

You acquire sound mental health that lasts forever because the unconscious mind eliminates the roots of absurdity from your mind. You also protect your family, helping your children find sound mental health like you.

Christina Sponias


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      sponias lm 6 years ago

      @anonymous: You will surely find sound mental health if youâll follow dream therapy now. The unconscious mind can cure all mental illnesses.

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      anonymous 6 years ago

      My parents were mental ill and now I am mentally ill. I wish I had the knowledge from your lens when I was younger. You have great information here. Thank you for educating us.