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Celebrate Your Birthday...Celebrate YOU!

Updated on July 12, 2016

What is it about birthdays that gets people all riled up? Celebrating what should be a special day in each person's life should be something to look forward to, not try to run away from. In American Society the emphasis on birthdays seems to be that birthdays are about aging. It seems for the most part Americans look on aging with a negative view. But in reality, birthdays are actually a very special day for each person to celebrate their entrance into this world, their accomplishments and their unique individuality. If we looked at birthdays like that, age would have nothing to do with it!

Happy Birthday wishes from others are always nice to receive!
Happy Birthday wishes from others are always nice to receive! | Source

My Special Birthdays

I have always felt that my birthday was a special day. I don't really think of myself as conceited but just worthy of celebrating. When I was a teenager and had to work to save money for college, I ended up working on my birthday most years. Because my birthday is in July, it's usually a beautiful, sunny day here in Connecticut. Having to serve burgers and fries at my McDonald's job, or help teenagers do investigative reporting in the city of New Haven were not exactly ways I had wanted to spend my birthday in my teen and young adult years. But at those times, I was not in a position to ask for or take my birthday off from work. Way back then, I promised myself that when I got a professional job that allowed me to take real days off, I would always take my birthday off. And I have been able to do that. In my young adult years, I spent my birthday at a Six Flags amusement park with friends each year. After I got married, I took special day trips off by myself to hike, or explore a new town, often stopping in small, quaint stores along the way. Once I spent my day in Newport, R.I. and brought along my journal to write my hopes and dreams for the future. That worked out so well that each year after that I always brought my journal along to share my thoughts about the past year and my hopes and dreams for the upcoming year. If there was someone special I wanted to have dinner with on my birthday, I always made sure those plans were for evening so I could still have a day to myself on my special day.

A birthday dinner with a glass of wine and a special someone is a great way to celebrate a birthday.
A birthday dinner with a glass of wine and a special someone is a great way to celebrate a birthday. | Source

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New Ways to Look at Your Birthday

What do you do special for your birthday? Do you treat yourself like a king or queen for the day? Or is it something you would just like to forget about? If you don't actually like your birthday because it reminds you that another year of your life has passed, why not change the focus? Forget about how old you are, but just celebrate something else...

* You have had the privilege of being on this Earth with your loved ones for another year

* You are a unique individual

* Use it to celebrate your friends

* Use it to show gratitude for another year on Earth and help others

* Plan a special day for your friends and family as a thank you for their love and support

Plan a day trip somewhere for your birthday that family members will also enjoy!
Plan a day trip somewhere for your birthday that family members will also enjoy! | Source
Volunteering your time to help others on your birthday will help spread joy.
Volunteering your time to help others on your birthday will help spread joy. | Source

New Ways to Celebrate Your Birthday

There are many ways one can celebrate their birthday if they don't like birthday celebrations of the past. You can...

Throw Your Own Birthday Party

Why not give your friends and family a special treat and throw a party that is worthy of their time? You can make reservations at a popular restaurant and take everyone out to eat as a special treat. Make sure they know it's your treat so all they have to do is show up and you will pay. You can even send out invitations and write that gifts will not be accepted and that the dinner is your gift to them for their love and support.

Invite Someone For a Special Outing

Do you have a friend who is going through a rough time? Maybe a divorce or a loved one they are close to recently died? Make your day special for them and share your time and attention with them. Invite them to a movie. Take a day trip to somewhere interesting that you both have wanted to see. Giving of yourself to someone in need on your birthday will make the day special for both of you. They don't even need to know it's your birthday...unless you choose to tell them.

Volunteer

There are many non-profit organizations that need help every day of the year. Chances are that on your birthday, you will be able to find one that can use help. Check in your local paper phone book for social service agencies and start calling around to see if any need help. Ask your friends to come with you, and if they know it's your birthday, tell them you want to share the day with them volunteering and their gift of service will be their gift to you.

Make Your Own Birthday Meal

If you enjoy cooking but don't have anyone to cook for, invite a friend to come to your house for dinner, and spend the day cooking all of your favorite foods. Share it with them that night. If you don't want to do a lot of work, make a picnic lunch or dinner and ask a friend to come along to a scenic place to share it. Could be the beach, a beautiful park, somewhere with a mountain view...anywhere that makes you happy.

Make Your Own Birthday Meal

A delicious breakfast that you could make for yourself to start your birthday off on the right foot!
A delicious breakfast that you could make for yourself to start your birthday off on the right foot! | Source

Do You Have the "Nobody Loves Me" Attitude?

Make sure you don't get caught up in the "nobody loves me" attitude. If you are one of those people that never says anything about their birthday to family members or friends in advance, and then gets disappointed that no one remembered, you have no one to blame but yourself! Sorry, that may seem a bit harsh but in today's world, everyone is so busy that details like birthdays and anniversaries sometimes get lost in the shuffle of everyday life and family activities. A simple red circle around a date, with the birthday person's name written in it on the calendar for all family member's birthdays is a good idea. And it won't call attention to one specific person. Or if you have a certain someone that you would like to spend your birthday with, such as a significant other, friend or a child, asking in advance if they could free that day up to spend with you on your birthday will most likely seem like a privilege rather than a chore.

An Extremely Inspirational Birthday Celebration Video

While I was looking around on Youtube to find a birthday video to help get across the point of this article, I found a most amazing woman's video of how she spent the week of her 50th birthday. I was quite inspired and I hope you will be too!

This article has given you plenty of food for thought on how you can celebrate your next birthday in a way that is meaningful to you and has nothing to do with age. I hope you find some beautiful ways to celebrate your future birthdays. My suggestion to you is to make the most of each one. From year to year, we never know how many birthdays we have left. Here's to us all making each one count...go on, celebrate YOU with the rest of the world!


This year I celebrated my birthday in Watch Hill,R.I. with my husband and my dog. What beautiful and peaceful scenery!
This year I celebrated my birthday in Watch Hill,R.I. with my husband and my dog. What beautiful and peaceful scenery! | Source
Here's the scene from the restaurant where we ate dinner. I had a wonderful birthday!
Here's the scene from the restaurant where we ate dinner. I had a wonderful birthday! | Source

My Birthday, July 27th, 2014

Today is my birthday:July 27th, 2014. My husband and I are in Massachusetts because we came to Tanglewood to go to 2 concerts the past 2 nights and I asked if we could stay one more night to celebrate my birthday. So far, it's 10 a.m. and my day did not start out well. My daughter called me at 7:15 a.m. from Connecticut because she was having an anxiety attack and needed me to talk her through it. I had wanted to sleep in till 8:30 but that went out the window. My husband gave me a new tablet for my birthday while we were eating rbeakfast. Unfortunately it is dead and we can't even get it to turn on. AND it is raining and thundering and lightning. I am talking about pouring buckets out.


But no matter what the weather, today is my birthday and I am glad to be alive and to have made it one more year. I hope the day gets better, but even if it doesn't I will celebrate being alive and being fortunate enough to have found the love of my life and being able to marry him. Happy birthday to me, and anyone else out there who is celebrating their birthday today (that includes HawaiianOdysseus!)

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    • Kathryn Stratford profile image

      Kathryn 3 years ago from Manchester, Connecticut

      I like celebrating birthdays, be it mine or a loved one's. I always look forward to celebrating. I love your attitude about birthdays!

      The video was inspiring, as well!

      I enjoyed this article. I hope you're recovering, Karen! Have a fantastic weekend.

      ~ Kathryn

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      wetnosedogs 3 years ago from Alabama

      Wow, you are doing great!

      I love the idea of volunteering and also paying for the dinner. Those are different and that would make birthdays special.

      Take it easy.

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      Karen Hellier 3 years ago from Georgia

      wetnosedogs,

      Thanks...just trying to spread the joy!!! I'm taking it easy by the way and trying to make the most of my recuperation time by writing...as you can probably tell! I'm still lagging behind you and HO!

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      Karen Hellier 3 years ago from Georgia

      Kathryn,

      Wow, it's nice to meet another birthday fan! Yes, wasn't the video great? Wish I had thought of that for my 50th...well, it's never too late. I'm feeling better, thanks.

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      Dianna Mendez 3 years ago

      You have brought a great idea to my mind: having a birthday breakfast is a fun alternative. I would enjoy that first cup of coffee with friends. Thanks for the ideas on making this day a good one.

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      Karen Hellier 3 years ago from Georgia

      teaches12345,

      You are welcome. I hope you do get to have a birthday breakfast with friends. It will start your special day off in a special way!

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