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Valentine's Day: Planning Ahead

Updated on January 6, 2013
"Embrace Your Love"
"Embrace Your Love"

Planning Ahead Saves Time and Money

The Christmas decorations are put away, the resolutions have been made, and 2013 is well under way.

So NOW what do we do? We do it all over again!

Believe it or not Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. Now wait.. I’m not here to tell you to go right out and order those flowers or the surprised engagement ring or even the 30 pound box of chocolates.

But I am going to gently remind you that it is coming up and if you are planning or would like to start planning anything special for your significant other, now would be the time to do it. After all, it will be here before you know it and how wonderful it would be, not only on your checkbook, but on your nerves if you had that special day well planned ahead and not running around like a loose cannon trying to find that perfect gift and spending way too much!

In some ways, if you order, buy, or reserve ahead of time, you will get better deals.

There are hundreds of “Romantic Getaways” that are offering discounts on their rooms and suites along with a huge discount for their dinners for two.

Spa Retreats have specials offering wonderful massages for two in beautiful settings and some offer food and beverage afterwards.

The ideas are endless and there are so many to choose from depending on your budget.

You can also be creative with your time and money by spending a romantic night at home.
Who says that Valentine's Day has to drain your checking account? My hub on "How to Plan a Date With Very Little Money" has great ideas that can easily help you with your Valentine's Day plans.

The main thing is that you are together and embracing your romance and love for one another.

Getting Motivated

I’ve compiled a small list of ideas to help give you motivation and inspiration to plan ahead. As I mentioned earlier, there are so many ideas and offers out there. You just need to look in your area and see what is available. Be sure to check your local newspapers as well. Your favorite restaurant may be offering a “Romantic Dinner for Two.”


Place “LOVE NOTES” all over the house with Heart-shaped Post it Notes. Be sure to place the notes in places that your loved one will find them. Some ideas would include the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, cupboard door, front or back door, steering wheel in the car, their lingerie drawer, pillow, piano (if you have one), just about anywhere.
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Breakfast in Bed

Surprise your loved one with a delicious breakfast in bed. Keep it simple and tasty with coffee or tea, Orange juice, Toast, fruit & Yogurt. A great way to complete your gesture is with a long stemmed rose (or their favorite flower) and a beautiful card.
Long stemmed rose 3.00-5.00
Breakfast: 5.00-8.00
"I Love You" Card: 3.00-6.00


Surprise Her With a Picnic Lunch

Take her to her favorite park or beach. If she doesn't have a favorite place, do a little research on areas that would be perfect for a picnic surprise. Encourage her to wear the appropriate attire and secretly pack away a sweater or jacket just in case it gets a little chilly.

Ahead of time, pack your meal in a picnic basket with ice packs to keep it chilled. Pack a quilt or thick blanket and a couple of pillows. A nice touch would also include a CD player with her favorite music. To make it complete, this would also be a good time to give her an "I Love You" card.

Cheese and crackers
Grilled chicken
Chocolate mousse
Wine or Sparking Water with lemon slices

Menu cost: 15.00 - 20.00
"I Love You" card: 3.00 - 6.00

Romantic Bath for Two
Romantic Bath for Two | Source
Enjoy a bubble bath for two
Enjoy a bubble bath for two

Romantic Bath for Two

A romantic bath says it all when prepared with the perfect ambiance.
Some ideas for a romantic bath-time might include:

  • Sweet Vanilla Heaven Milk bath is not only a wonderful bath but it is also great for the skin. A "Milk Bath" recipe would include:
  1. Whole Powdered Milk (2 cups)
  2. Corn Starch/Corn Flour (1/2 cup)
  3. Baking Soda (1/4 cup)
  4. Sweet Vanilla Heaven Essential Oil

In a large dark glass jar, combine #1-3 together, secure lid on jar and shake until all the powders are mixed thoroughly. Remove the lid and add 10 drops (20 if you want a stronger aroma) of Sweet Vanilla Heaven essential oil. (When placing drops in the dry mixture, be sure that each drop lands independently of each other). Replace and secure the lid and shake the ingredients thoroughly. Let the mixture to sit for at least 24 hours to allow the oils to penetrate the dry mixture. Add 1 - 2 cups of the dry mixture under hot running water, swishing the bath water around to ensure no lumps. After your bath, massage each other with a good body lotion.

  • Essential Oils added to the bath water will enhance your senses and are very relaxing. Popular oils to use are Lavender, Eucalyptus, Rose, Citrus, and Jasmine.
  • Fresh Rose Petals with Rose Essential Oil (Check your local florist for the rose pedals. They throw away the outer pedals when preparing their roses. Ask them to save you a bag full)
  • A Bubble Bath is always a winner. Bubbles are very sexy!

Whatever romantic bath style you choose, be sure to add lots of candles, beautiful music, fresh strawberries, and sparkling water.

Cuddle up and watch a movie together
Cuddle up and watch a movie together

More Ideas for Valentine's Day

1 Dozen Long Stemmed Roses (Many Florists will have "early bird" deals)$49-60.00

Overnight “Getaway” and Dinner $150-? (Depending on where you stay)

Drive to the Beach to Watch the Sunset:
(Fruit, cheese and crackers, sparkling water) your favorite CD $10.00

Romantic Dinner at Home:
(Baked Salmon, steamed asparagus, salad, wild rice, wine and chocolate mousse for dessert) Lots of candles lit. Beautiful music for dancing. $15-25

Cuddle with the whole family and watch a movie - Pricelss
Cuddle with the whole family and watch a movie - Pricelss

Night at the Movies $20-30

Take a Walk Where You Haven’t Been Before $00

Rent a Limousine for 3 Hrs:
Bring your favorite munchies and drinks. The driver will take you anywhere you want to go. $130-$250

Romantic Night on the Town:

(Dinner, Live show/concert) $200-?? Depending on dinner and show

Cuddle Up With a Good Movie at Home in Front of the Fire Place $00

Cuddle Up With a Good Movie at Home in Front of the Fire Place With Your Kids $priceless

What is your idea of a romantic date?

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Elizabeth Rayen
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About the Author

Lisa has directed and acted in musical theatre for nearly 30 years. Her musical upbringing allowed her to pursue her career in teaching and directing and continues to direct shows today. As the owner of 2 online Home Décor sites, Lisa’s passion for Rustic Living all begins with her love for the home, outdoors, and her many hobbies. Lisa loves to laugh, and she share’s that love through her comedic hubs centered on her MOM. Lisa’s passions include writing, directing, acting, photography, singing, cooking, crafts, gardening, and home improvement, including decorating. Lisa also writes under her penned name, Elizabeth Rayen.

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      Elizabeth Rayen 5 years ago from California

      Thank you Pavlo! I totally agree with you! ♥

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      Pavlo Badovskyi 5 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

      I would rather plan ahead Chridtmas :) I like Valentines but not so much as the New year :)) Anyway your advices are universal and can be used for any occasion.

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      Elizabeth Rayen 5 years ago from California

      Thank you Dianna (teaches12345)! I couldn't agree with you more ♥ Thank you so much for your comment :)

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      Dianna Mendez 5 years ago

      I love all the suggested ideas, rustic. I think that just being together, regardless of the place and event, would be perfect. A walk on the beach at sunset is just as romantic as a full course meal at a five star restaurant. Voted up and beautiful.

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      Elizabeth Rayen 6 years ago from California

      Thanks Sunshine! :)

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      Linda Bilyeu 6 years ago from Orlando, FL

      Fantastic!!! :))

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      Elizabeth Rayen 6 years ago from California

      I know alocsin.. Where does the time go?

      Thanks for the vote.

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      alocsin 6 years ago from Orange County, CA

      That time of year again. Thanks for the suggestions. Voting this Up and Useful.