RV Living— A Simple RV Christmas
Copyright ©2010 Stephanie Henkel
There's No Place Like Home
There's No Place Like Home for the Holidays is one of the sweetest and most loved songs of the holiday season. Those of you who have deep roots in your hometown and a lovely home to decorate during the holidays may become teary eyed hearing this song when you're far from home. You may wonder about living in an RV during the holidays and feel sorry for those of us who live a life on the road.
Home Is Where You Park It
One thing that full time RVers learn early is that we haven't left our homes; we've taken our homes with us. When we sell our "sticks and bricks" houses and pack our favorite belongings in our RVs, we make a commitment to our new home on wheels. Each of us personalizes our motor home or trailer differently. Some will redecorate with pictures and pretty curtains, others will add soft afghans and flowers to the table. Our cats, dogs and birds ride along in style and are treated as well as most people treat their children. We carry our music with us, and we're never without our cell phones and the computers that keep us in close touch with relatives and friends. We still have our books and our hobbies.
We are just as comfortable in our queen sized beds and comfortable furniture as anyone in a traditional house. Our homes are with us wherever we go and we truly believe the motto of many RVers that "Home is Where You Park It."
Simple Living in an RV
Some of the ways we've simplified our lives:
- Buy only "replacement" clothes when things wear out.
- Don't buy decorative objects as there is no place to keep them in the RV.
- Get news and information on line rather than buying magazines and newspapers.
- No more home phone, electric bill, heating bill.
- No cable or land line telephone.
- Use free book exchanges and libraries for reading material.
- Donate books we've read to campground libraries.
- Donate unused clothes and items to charities.
- Shop thrift stores for necessities.
- Stick to utilitarian kitchen items and eliminate duplicates.
- Pare down dishes and silverware to setting for six.
- Convert music CDs to digital for iPod or MP3 players.
- Skip expensive restaurants in favor of cooking ourselves or sharing pot lucks with other RVers.
- Recycle and reuse.
- Go green. Never use plastic disposables, carry reusable shopping bags, use refillable water bottles.
- Shop for inexpensive campgrounds and free boondocking sites.
- Don't buy jewelry.
- Confine club memberships to RV clubs and discount campground memberships.
- Volunteer at campgrounds and National Parks in exchange for free campsites.
- Take part in RVing activities such as potluck dinners, jam sessions, campground activities rather than go out for expensive entertainment.
The Simple RV Lifestyle
Living in an RV has taught us much about the value of living a simple life. Before retirement, we were an integral part of the rat race. With both of us working, it was a merry-go-round of spending, buying and accumulating more and more "stuff." Before retirement, we made a serious commitment to live a simpler life by cutting our spending, limiting our purchases and paring down the material things that we had accumulated through the years. Our rule became, "Do not buy anything unless there is a place for it in the RV."
Some brave souls jump into the RV life with both feet, selling not only their homes, but all the belongings that could not be packed into the RV. We sort of tiptoed into the RVing life by selling our house, but keeping some of our household things in storage for the time when we would buy a house again. That was a mistake, but that's another hub.
What started out to be a year of living in an RV turned into four years of full time RVing. In that time we learned many things about living a simpler life, most importantly that having material things is not necessary for a happy life. Because of space constrictions, we were unable to take all but a very few of the things that had surrounded us in our house. The funny thing is, we never missed them! Well, most of them... I did miss our toaster, and we ended up buying one for the RV eventually.
Although we visit our kids and grandchildren several times a year, we are often on the road through Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's because we don't want to drive the motor home back into the snow country of the northeast. During the holidays we do enjoy being around other people in the same situation. One of the first, and best things we did as new RVers was to join The Escapees, an RV club made up of mostly full time RVers. During holidays, we usually head to one of their parks to have Christmas and New Years with others in the same boat.
The transition from Christmas as it used to be before retirement and RVing to what it is now is drastic. I admit, I used to go a little crazy at Christmas, especially when the grandchildren arrived. Christmases Past were a madhouse of frenzied gift buying, decorating, wrapping and cooking. In the end, we were left exhausted with a pile of bills, a big mess to clean up and kids who got too much stuff.
A Simple RV Christmas
In our simpler life, Christmas is also calmer and simpler. We still buy a few gifts for the younger grandchildren, but others get gift cards or cash. We don't exchange gifts with anyone other than family. We keep Christmas spending under control.
I've even changed the way we send Christmas cards. We keep in fairly close touch with friends and relatives through email, phone calls and social media all year long. A real Christmas card is an important personal touch at holiday time, but only if it contains more than a signature. Rather than sending many cards to people we haven't seen or heard from in years, I find a recent travel photograph of my husband and myself and include it in a one page holiday letter that goes to a short list of friends. Or, if you prefer, send it as an email attachment to anyone on your Christmas card list.
Participate in Holiday Festivities Wherever You Are
Partly because we are RVing and partly because we don't need more stuff, we seldom buy gifts for each other, so we look for other ways to celebrate the holidays. Here are some things we've done in our years of full time RVing to keep the holiday spirit alive:
- Livingston, Texas at Rainbow's End. Our first Christmas RVing, we stopped in Livingston, Texas at the Rainbow's End Escapees Park to spend Christmas with other RVers. There we joined in a Christmas Eve party of music and snacks and met a fascinating couple from New Zealand who have traveled all over the world. On Christmas Day, we had Christmas dinner in the park club house where each couple brought a dish to pass and shared stories of their travels and their families.
- The Radio City Music Hall Christmas Show. We happened to be in Nashville just before Christmas when the Radio City Music Hall Rockettes were doing their Christmas Show at the Grand Ole Opry. We spent an afternoon wandering around the grounds of the new Opryland, then attended the show which was a delightful holiday extravaganza of music and dance, lights and beautiful costumes.
- Grand Ole Opry and Country Music Hall of Fame. While in Nashville another time, we viewed the nighttime lights of OpryLand Christmas decorations and went to one of the Grand Ole Opry country shows featuring many familiar names in country music that we loved. We also went to the Country Music Hall of Fame which was featuring a Christmas luncheon and live Christmas music.
- Garvin Woodland Gardens Christmas Lights Show in Hot Springs, Arkansas. One year we were near Hot Springs, Arkansas and spent an evening exploring Garvin Woodland Gardens, a fabulous gardens with millions of lights and fantastical Christmas displays.
- New Year's in Pecos, Texas. We spent one New Year's Day in the Escapees park in Pecos, Texas where the campground managers cooked a New Year's brunch with traditional collard greens and ham supplemented by pot luck dishes from the campers. There we met several people who were on their way to Quartzsite and invited us to join their group of "Boomers". It turned out to be one of the most fun times we've ever had.
- Corpus Cristi, Texas decorated boats and homes. The year we were on Padre Island near Corpus Cristi, Texas around the holidays, we took evening drives through the waterside communities to see all the boats decorated with lights.
- Mexican New Year's Eve. One very special Christmas season we camped in Texas near Eagle Pass and were invited to share New Year's Eve with our daughter-in-law's family for a Mexican New Year's Eve celebration of music, fireworks and pinatas. It was a memorable event!
Gifts for RVers
If you are looking for a gift for the RVing couple in your life, remember that space is very limited. Games that come in small packages, solar powered gadgets, pocket sized items are all good ideas. For more ideas, check out these useful articles:
Best Christmas gifts for RVing Snowbirds - A list of items that RVers are sure to enjoy.
Best RVing and Camping Books - A review of "must have" How-To books, campground directories and field guides for RVers and campers.
Solar Powered Gadgets - For RVers who camp off the grid, here's a collection of solar powered gadgets they are sure to appreciate!
RV Holiday Decorations and Food
Like other RVers, we like to decorate our rig a little bit for the holiday season. A Christmas wreath wired onto the front grill, a string of Christmas lights in our front window and a pretty little artificial tree or poinsettia plant on the table give us a festive air. When on the road, we sometimes miss some of the traditional foods of the season, so we try to find a specialty shop or deli with things that we enjoy. If we're lucky, we can find some homemade pierogies as we really don't have room in the motor home kitchen for pierogie making. I can still make our traditional Polish sour mushroom soup, though. We can usually compensate with some good Ghirardelli chocolate and a nice wine!
Keeping in Touch with Family and Friends
Cell phones and computers have made keeping in touch with family and friends so much simpler and convenient. Our first Christmas on the road when we were parked in Livingston, Texas at Rainbows End, we talked to each of our children and several of our relatives on Christmas Day. As we stood outside our rig talking, we could see people all over the park on their cell phones getting in touch with their loved ones and friends. Later, at the Christmas dinner, we all compared notes on how much cold and snow our kids were experiencing in their various home states. Now, with many computers having built in web cams, families can see as well as hear each other. The New Zealand couple that we met were able to see and talk to their children and grandchildren on the other side of the world -- and without long distance charges!
Christmas in an RV - Our Home on Wheels
Rainbow Plantations is an Escapees Park near the Gulf of Mexico in Alabama. The mild weather is a welcome relief from the frigid temperatures of northern states. Some of the campers leave to have Christmas with family in other states, but many residents stay through the holidays. The clubhouse is festive with holiday decorations while many of the rigs sport tiny lights and Christmas trees.
We won't exchange gifts with each other, because we recently treated ourselves to new laptops, but we'll probably go on a special outing to view local Christmas lights. On Christmas Eve there are special activities at the clubhouse and on Christmas Day there's a pot luck dinner. Meanwhile, Christmas music drifts from the RVs and we write out our Christmas cards sitting out in front of our rig and socializing with passersby. A digital picture frame shows digital photographs of family and friends.
While we miss our kids and grandkids, we know that we wouldn't see them all at Christmas even if we were in a house as they are spread over three states. This year, we'll keep in touch by phone and computer and plan our family gatherings for a warmer season.
We'll keep in touch with old friends while making new friends in our travels. Home IS where you park it!