I love to pamper my mom and grandma. They shouldn't have to do any house work or cooking unless they insist. Being the oldest child, I arrange for my brothers and sisters to each have a job so that mom doesn't do it. We cook her breakfast and give her gifts. I started a tradition to bake a family recipe cake special for mother's day. A few times, I have made handmade coupons for hugs and chores and one was to do anything she asked without giving a hard time.