ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

7 Life Lessons from The Fault in Our Stars

Updated on January 12, 2015
7 Life Lessons we can pick up from the novel of John Green, The Fault in Our Stars
7 Life Lessons we can pick up from the novel of John Green, The Fault in Our Stars | Source
Cover of The Fault in Our Stars novel by John Green
Cover of The Fault in Our Stars novel by John Green | Source

I just finished reading The Fault in Our Stars, which I didn't really intend to read, until it just called my name - asking for attention and wanting to be read. Since it had been a while since I last gone through any books (well, except for academic ones), I decided to be kind and heed its call.

Days later, I found myself tearful as I finished reading the last line of the novel.

The Fault in Our Stars

Although the storyline is romantically depressing and tragic, The Fault in Our Stars is filled with bite-sized life lessons and realizations we could, and perhaps should, ponder on.

Of course, the impact and reception differ from reader to reader since we each have varying perspectives, but I am here to share things I personally got from the book - those things that I want to treasure and preserve by writing them here.

Warning: This post may unintentionally contain some spoilers and hints of what will happen in the novel, so read at your own peril.

A Famous Quote from the novel, The Fault in Our Stars
A Famous Quote from the novel, The Fault in Our Stars | Source

Another novel by John Green

An Abundance of Katherines
An Abundance of Katherines
Currently, I am reading another novel of John Green called the Abundance of Katherines which I find really intriguing. It's all about a guy named Colin Singleton who got dumped by 19 different Katherines.

A Short Overview

Before I begin sharing the realizations I picked from the book, let me briefly share with you how the story is set to unravel, just in case you haven't gone through the book.

A Fault in Our Stars is a novel by John Green revolving around the numbered days of Hazel Grace, a teenage girl who miraculously survived an impending death from lung cancer. Unfortunately, although she may have survived, the cancer was still left uncured making her lungs fail to be lungs. This in turn made living unmeaningful for Hazel, until she met Agustus Waters in a support group that completely changed her life.

The rest of the details is for you to find out. For now, let's proceed with the realizations I had from the book.

Watch the Movie Trailer of The Fault in Our Stars

Life Lessons from the Novel

1. A pile of dirt may still be a place for a flower to bloom.

Just when you think life couldn't get any better, it suddenly does. This is the same thing Hazel experienced herself when she met Agustus that resulted to a shift of perspective as she found a reason to live.

2. Sometimes life gives you an opportunity to do a favor for others when in fact, the favor is also and mostly for you.

I don't want to dwell much on this since I may spill some crucial details that may spoil the story. Nevertheless, this just suggests that life often plays tricks to us. We often find doing others some favor burdensome, but little do we know, we also get something from it. We just need to be open.

3. People usually interpret an act of selflessness as a selfish deed.

Throughout the book, Hazel mostly thought of herself as a grenade that will explode anytime and inflict ravaging pain to the ones close to her. This is why she wanted to shut herself off from others. A view from the outside may tell that Hazel was being too hard or possibly harsh, but from her view, "she was just protecting them".

4. Humor doesn't just die and so is hope.

Despite the ailments, characters in the novel just couldn't stop humoring themselves, and just like humor, hope seemed to also find its way towards Hazel and all other characters in the novel. Translated in another sense, "even if something is taken away, a replacement in another form will be given". That's hopeful thinking!

“I wanted to know that he would be okay if I died. I wanted to not be a grenade, to not be a malevolent force in the lives of people I loved.” - Hazel Grace of A Fault in Our Stars

5. Death or Losing in itself can be treated as a victory.

Though death may be bleak, it is a victory in another perspective. It's like a small reward for fighting so hard as it takes away all the unbearable pains in your life. However, note that I am talking about unforced death here, since I personally believe that there's no victory in taking lives by intention or by will. It's just a big no-no!

6. A sad and dark past brings both a blessing and a curse, but the choice is ours.

Peter Van Houten, a fictional author of An Imperial Affliction, revealed somewhere in the story that he had a daughter who died of cancer as well. This haunting past pushed him to come up with a great novel, but later this dark past devoured him and turned him into an anti-social alcoholic. Hence, we realize that past events leave us a choice, to dwell on it, or to use it as a weapon to move forward.

7. Living your life the way you want it to be is a choice.

It doesn't matter how long you have. What matters the most is how well you use and live it. The days of Hazel were numbered, though not specifically determined, but slowly, she chose the right choice of living her life and thrash the thought of "just surviving on a day to day basis".

Now, why shouldn't we do the same? Remember that not all cancer-free individuals are "living" and instead choose the path of "mere existence". Let us choose to be different by not waiting for a cancer to strike us just before we begin to realize that living is indeed a choice to make and a choice to take.

“Some infinities are bigger than other infinities.” - John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

© 2014 Renz Kristofer Cheng


    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment
    • Hansika Sachdeva profile image

      Hansika Sachdeva 

      4 years ago from India

      You are so correct. The book is just amazing. Great hub!

    • yougotme profile imageAUTHOR

      Renz Kristofer Cheng 

      5 years ago from Manila

      I was able to watch the film just recently, and you are right! Both the book and the movie adaptation were really amazing! It made me rethink of how I am living my life.

    • savvydating profile image


      5 years ago

      I've heard that the movie is also quite the little gem. It really is amazing how an event or a person can change our perspective "all of a sudden." We need more of that magic in our lives so that we can be more authentic right choosing to really live our lives rather than waiting for life to happen.

    • yougotme profile imageAUTHOR

      Renz Kristofer Cheng 

      5 years ago from Manila

      Thanks for dropping by SheGetsCreative! I'm glad you appreciate this hub I made for The Fault in Our Stars!

    • SheGetsCreative profile image

      Angela F 

      5 years ago from Seattle, WA

      #7! Definitely my favorite :)

    • yougotme profile imageAUTHOR

      Renz Kristofer Cheng 

      6 years ago from Manila

      @suzettenaples Yeah, I'm actually so excited too! And I think we need to prepare our buckets to catch the tears.

      @susi10 You're welcome! Thanks for appreciating the photos here in this hub! At first I thought the Fault in Our Stars will be similar to A Walk to Remember, but it was completely different!

    • susi10 profile image

      Susan W 

      6 years ago from The British Isles, Europe

      This was a very touching hub on the book, The Fault in Our Stars. I have seen it in all the bestseller lists and it is all over social media. It is a very touching book to read which has many life lessons embedded in its pages. Thank you for this enjoyable read, I like the images too. Shared and voted beautiful and awesome.

    • suzettenaples profile image

      Suzette Walker 

      6 years ago from Taos, NM

      Same thing happened to me - this book just jumped out at me and I had to read it. I have never read a book about death that made me laugh so much. It is so well written. I think the seven lessons learned from this book work for me too. These are the life lessons I learned from the book. The movie comes out next weekend and I can't wait to see it. This book was surprisingly good and I didn't expect it to be. Great write and article you have here!

    • yougotme profile imageAUTHOR

      Renz Kristofer Cheng 

      6 years ago from Manila

      @parrster Thank you so much for dropping by! I am positive that you'll love the book!

    • parrster profile image

      Richard Parr 

      6 years ago from Australia

      I've been meaning to read this book for some time. You've re-inspired me to download it. great review. voted up

    • yougotme profile imageAUTHOR

      Renz Kristofer Cheng 

      6 years ago from Manila

      @DDE Thank you very much for the dropping!

      @Ericdierker Yes. I wasn't really expecting that it will be that good. Luckily, I gave myself the opportunity to read this.

    • Ericdierker profile image

      Eric Dierker 

      6 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Good stuff good read and well done!

    • DDE profile image

      Devika Primić 

      6 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Lovely photos and a sounds good one. The review is well put together.

    • yougotme profile imageAUTHOR

      Renz Kristofer Cheng 

      6 years ago from Manila

      Thanks NateB11! It sure was a great novel, and not to mention very easy to read. More than that, the story is unique.

    • NateB11 profile image

      Nathan Bernardo 

      6 years ago from California, United States of America

      I love these pieces of wisdom here. Sounds like a great book.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
    ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)