A mother loves all her children but in different ways.
Things were just fine until one day, it was a Saturday and I was at his place as usual then he left with Mike his best friend to buy some Italian food in the Italian restaurant down the street, I wanted to go with them but he asked me to clean this, clean that and watch his cloths which were washing in the machine so I stayed back.
Just a minute after they left, his cell phone rang, I beeped outside but they were gone. Then I began to clean the living room and again the cell phone rang, it was an incoming text message so I picked the phone and checked the message.
“SWEETHEART,I HAVE BEEN WAITING ALL DAY”, the message read then the second one read thus “ANGEL, YOU ARE STRONGER THAN THE TOWERS OF BABYLON, YOU MESMERIZE MY SOUL AND TO THEE I GIVE MY SWEETNESS”.
As I approached the restaurant, I saw Bolo my husband to be and his best friend Mike sitting with two ladies, I could not believe my eyes, this is a guy who said he was going to buy Italian food sitting in a restaurant opposite the Italian restaurant with women and to worsen it, they kissed each other as I entered then i immediately descended on him, i coursed him and Mike too, i wanted to fight the ladies but the owners of the restaurant intervened and as we left the restaurant, I made up my mind that I will not see him anymore.
I made up my mind that it was over between us, he has been cheating on me all these years, and even had the caught to tell the lady that they will see later, he walked her to her car while I stood crying, then he left. I didn’t know how and when I got back to his house, the shock was too much for me, I cried and cried all because of the text messages then saw the physical, who am I not to break down?
I cried myself out and by now Mike was nowhere to be found, he knew that I will blame him so he disappeared. I don’t know if you have seen yourself in this kind of situation as you read my story today, believe me; it took me five hours to gather the courage just to ask him one question…'Bolo, WHY?'
I lost my memory which would take another six months to be treated, believe me, I lost myself and to worsen the matter, in all the seven months I spent in the hospital my so called husband to be visited me just twice. It was after my recovery that I recalled what happened. You see, all I can say is that I am now free, believe me I am because there is no need parading myself as a wife to be in the life of a man who doesn’t love nor care about me.
I was happy that he asked me to stay back that day, if not I would not have discovered the text messages and although he had plans to see that stupid lady that same day but if I had insisted to go with them, guess he would have changed his game plan and who knows, we might be married by now. O! Bolo, Bolo, I still miss him and every time I see him I feel like hugging him, why should I fall out and give another woman the chance?
It is true that if he truly love me, he will not cheat on me, it is also true that I don’t have to fight to win his love but you see, he said it that day when I asked him why, he boldly told me that “A mother loves all her children but in different ways”. Bolo, you broke my heart. He showed no remorse and our parents tried to make things work between us, we had series of meeting as if it was a land deal gone wrong but I have made up my mind, nothing will ever make it work.
As you can see; men can pretend, he was being a hardcore yet dying to get me back and at one point, he sent Mike who had already apologized to me one on one. I am not blaming him, how can i? He was watching his friend’s back and that is guys for you. Four months has passed, how time run? I called my younger sister after setting up an appointment with Mike and I begged him not to let Bolo know about our meeting, guess he told him because the two of them are like butter and bread.
During our meeting, my younger sister hide somewhere because we met at an open bar, she took shoots of us and even when I kissed him; that was it. I told him that I love him. There was a follow-up text messages and phone calls and I made it clear to him that it is over between me and his friend, you see, he was stubborn and a loyal type but who says that nature doesn’t play its own role in our lives, it was like an answer to my prayer as Bolo traveled out of the country for two weeks, now five months after our break up.
Mike was the one who dropped him off at the airport, I met him about three times during the idiot’s absence and gush! I finally got him, yes and we did it and as we were doing it, Rebecca’s camera’s was doing its work as well, you see Rebecca was a trained private Investigator and her camera has big eyes. I got what I wanted, yes I got it and immediately Bolo came back, I sent him the gift I had well packaged for him. Few pictures from all my meeting with Mike and ten from the day we did it then with a note.”Your friend and your ex”.
My intention was not to just to sleep with him, no! I blamed him for everything, why shouldn’t I blame him? He wasn’t a good friend and always ate from me, I was hurt and I wanted to break up everything, Bolo needed to lose him and confidence in him as well, who said that I don’t blame him, he carried all the blame because all these while, I have pretended that it was okay between us but it wasn’t so now Bolo will see the idiot he considered “My number 6” as he fondly called him.
I don’t know if you learned anything from my story but like Bolo said, “In different ways”. I would have forgiven him, he was right, he loved all his girl friends but in different ways and there is no doubt that we wouldn’t have made it to the altar but anyway although I now wallow in regret and seeing him every day in the same place, an office we now co-own especially when he chat with other ladies breaks me down but I wouldn’t be happier either to have a hubby who cheats on me, it is okay. A mother loves all her children but in different ways indeed so let it be.
Bolo, you win;i loose!!!