An Old Man Life Story
Grandma telling a child an interesting story
An old man life story
Let me welcome you to my article (No: 2): An old man life story,
Dear readers let me start telling you my life story, since I want to tell you my life story for personal reasons, as I am going to explain here-under. Now, this article could have been two articles, because this is the beginning of: An old man life story (my life story), and includes also the duty of any man; anyhow, let us begin with,
An old man life story
Let me tell you a story, and transport you to another place and to another time, at the time when I was a young kid, and my mother or my grandma in the evening would tell me a story, just to keep me happy, and then go to bed and sleep.
Oh, my god! What did I say? Tell you fairy tales, that the elders of my time were telling me, when I was a young kid! No, sorry my dear readers I have made a mistake and I apologize, because you see, today I don’t remember much about those stories, that the elders of my time were telling me, even though those stories, seemed very interesting to us kids then. Now, because times have changed; I need to tell you, that in those times mothers and grandmothers had always a story to tell the kids, it was the only way to keep us kids quiet, since there was no TV and most time not even a radio for miles, the only news in those times were in the newspapers, if one could borrow it, from somebody that could afford to buy it, the rest of the news were the local news, that the people of the town would tell each other, so that they would know what was happening around them, so, people would pass these news around by word of mouth. Anyhow, the stories that these old ladies would tell us kids, they were as good as any other story, and if the famous Brothers Grimm had known them, they would have written them in their stories book. The Annotated Brothers Grimm : Jacob Grimm, Wilhelm Grimm
Now, I would like to point out, that a lot of things have changed since I was a kid, but I still remember lot of things, that I would like to tell you, so, let me tell you. Now that I happen to be talking about the mothers and grandmothers of those times, I would like to add, how they worked hard to keep kids quiet in those times, we will come to talk about my life story soon, as soon as I finish telling you this old fact of life; because here I would like to add something else, that today does not happen anymore in the western world, I am saying the western world, because what these old ladies were doing then, it might still be done in very backward countries today, one can never know; I can just imagine, that there might still be a few places, where progress as not taken place, and therefore, people are still using those skills, that their forbears have used for centuries or even thousands of years, before them.
Anyhow, let me describe to you, what these old ladies did to put a child to sleep, they would take the child in their arms sit on a sturdy chair and sing a lullaby, while they were rocking the chair until the child would go to sleep, or do the same thing, by putting the child in a rocking cradle and rock the cradle and sing a lullaby, those times were a lot harder than today, for young mothers as you can see for yourself, not only they had to look after the child, but they had also wash everything by hand, since there were no washing machines, or any throw away sanitary paper devises that would keep the child clean, so, they had to rely or their skills, which they had picked up from their elders, so, they had to work hard to keep things going properly.
Today is a lot easier for young mothers, because of the washing machine, and other things that make life less stressful, even singing lullaby is gone out of fashion, perhaps it is because there is so much music songs and everything else around us, so, singing lullaby is out of fashion, and for this reason you cannot hear any mother, singing their lullaby to their child in any town, I guess that even in the country outside towns they don’t sing anymore, it is the sign of the time people are not born singers, those young mothers were singing then, because they had to, it was their job to keep their children quiet even if their singing was out of tune as long as their child was satisfied. You see, children are attention seeker and they were happy, if they knew that there was somebody looking after them, and to hear their mother singing to them, and rocking them would satisfy them and fall asleep. Anyhow this is how it was done in those old days.
Beginning my life stories
Anyhow, I was saying that, when we were kids, the old ladies were telling us stories to keep us quiet; I wish I could tell you those stories, but I apologize for not being able to tell them to you. The stories, that my mother and my grandmother were telling me, they were good stories for us kids, since we the kids, would hear them many times, and still we were interested in them, perhaps we were waiting for the heroes of the stories to do what they had to do, to win their ways; but you see, today I have forgotten most of these stories, therefore, I am not able to tell them to you. But anyhow, this is not the only reason why I am writing this article; because what I would like to write here is this; I am going to tell you the story of my life. I know that now you are thinking, what is wrong with me, why should I tell you the story of my whole life? Well it is because, I cannot tell you a fairy tale anymore, since today people don’t believe anymore in fairies or fairy tales, and really, I don’t remember most of the tales, that I have been told when I was young, so, I could not tell you much of a story; therefore, I am going to tell you the story of my life, because that is the only story that I know better than anybody else.
Now that I have decided to tell you my whole life story, starting with this article called, (An old man life story), which is going to be the name of my story, I have also to say that there are other issues, that have prompt me, to write my life story, the main issues are written hereunder.
Firstly, I would like to tell you dear readers, I would like to write the story of my life, so that we can compare the ways, of how we are living these days, with the ways we used to live then; since I believe that to tell a story and make sense to the listener or readers, there should be a purpose for it as well, so, if we try to compare “An old man life story”, to today ways of living, then it may make this story more interesting for everybody.
Having said that, now I wonder what it would be like if one could go back in time like in time travel fictions, how nowadays ways of living would have affected the older generations. You see, in the old days normally time seemed to stand still, and very little changes would happen. We could say that the coming new generation, had to copy the older generation again and again for many generations, since there were no changes; if anything did happen it would happen very slowly, except when there were wars or some other violent happenings, like earthquake or diseases that could kill lots of people around; whereas today everything changes very fast even when there are no wars, earthquake or disease. Therefore, anything that is new today, in a few days can be said that is has become old and needs to change. I hope you see what I mean?
Secondly, I am going to tell you, why I feel that I should write this story, and why I believe I should write it. You see, I feel that every human being has a story to tell, and anyone of us could tell our own story, if we attach enough importance to the story that we want to tell. So, to me it happens that I believe that by telling you my life story, not only I become satisfied that I have written my own life story, but I would also feel that I am doing humanity a good service, because something can be learned from my life story. I believe that it is the life duty of any man, to try to improve anything, if we can. So, let me explain the way I feel, about what could or would be the duty of any man here under.
Let any old man do his life duty, Al Gore did.
The Duty of any human being
Or perhaps we should call this the duty of any man
The duty of any human being can be divided two ways. The first, or the main duty is how a human being should behave during his/her life, to be of good character, and viewed and thought to be of good character, because this enhances the quality of life itself; because these are the things that distinguishes us from the animals’ world, and from those do no good humans, that want to rip off the rest of the human society, by thinking only about themselves.
The second and important duty, would be an idealistic duty, which is about what a man should do, for the betterment of humanity. I believe that we owe this to humanity, because we have received it ourselves from humanity.
Having said that, now let us start to talk about this idealistic duty, that a man is supposed to do during his life, since we believe that it would be a good thing for all humanity, if he does, because the aim is to do something for the betterment of all humanity.
Therefore, to do that, let us start from the beginning of our own lives, by using our own lives observations, to decide what is the duty of any human being. We have reasons to believe that when a man (or woman) is born, they receive their gift of life from God and/or Mother Nature, or whatever one believes there is that makes life possible on earth. Of course all this would be achieved through and from their parents, who would be guided from their natural instinct to do what they have to do, to bring on a new life, as we all know this is the only way for life to reproduce itself and continue indefinitely.
Now, for life to evolve and become better, it is important that we all do our best, so, we should be very careful about what we do during our lives; therefore, this gift of life that we have received from God, Mother Nature or whatever we believe our lives come from, we have to be very careful with it, so, we should endeavour to guard our lives dearly during our own lives, with all our inner will and physical strength, because our lives is a very special gift that we have received from God, if we believe in God, or from Mather Nature or whatever one believes in.
You see, there are reasons to believe, that every one of us have our own ways of seeing this gift of life in different ways, but for those who believe in God have an extra special meaning, since God is the life giver of all existing life on earth. Therefore, the life duty of a man even in the eyes of God, is that a man must try to live his own life well, or at least as good as his parents have done before him, and if he can, he must try to improve the standard of life he has received. Now if there are any improvement that he has made during his life, they should be passed onto his children, so that the next coming generation that will come through him and from him, will have a better standard of life, that he has had during his life, since he has been able to improve that standard of life that he has received himself, so, let any man come forward and say what he has to say about his beliefs, or improvements that he could contribute to humanity.
Now that I have described above, what I think the life duty of any man could or would be, and of course believing every word that I have said above, there could be no way that I could or would avoid doing my duty for the improvement of future generations. Of course, by doing my duty as we have said above, not only I have achieved something good for the community at large, and therefore, I would feel that my life has been worthwhile living, because I have done something worthwhile during my life; otherwise I would feel that life has passed me by, and I have not done anything important, or contributed anything at all for the improvement of humanity and the future generations. For this reason, I believe that our life learning should be passed on, for the betterment of all humanity. Anyhow, we should come back to talk about this idealistic duty, after I explain better what I believe our other duty is.
The most important man that ever lived
The other human duty to society
This is the other human duty.
We have written above an idealistic duty of any human being, but there is another duty that everybody should follow, and everybody should know what it is, because it is very simple; “do not do to others, what you would hate if anybody does it to you”. Anyhow, apart from what has been said above, here we would like to continue and become more personal, so, will talk about ourselves, as we live our live presently.
We human beings that pride ourselves to be at the top of all living being on earth, we should ask ourselves what is our duty during our lives, in order to do the right things and be proud of ourselves, just because we have done what is right; we believe that on earth we are like gods’ and can do anything we like, so, we are able to dominate all other living species, but what about our own specie; are we doing the right thing to other fellow man one may ask?
The answer to that question is hard to explain, because there are so many wrong things, which we still do in this world. You see, we would like to believe and behave like gods’, but really to be like god one needs to behave like God, so, do certain duties that would be worth of being called a god, or better still, a good and benevolent god, and that is a hard thing to do.
Anyhow, we don’t claim to be gods, just because we believe that there is a spiritual God, that is very powerful and is the master of heaven and earth, so, we can never claim to be that powerful, at least we understand that; for this reason we give up the idea of being gods; but let us see what our duty would be, if we want to be at the top of every living thing, and feel that we have done our duty as well.
We believe that for mankind to stay at the top of everything and work in a positive way, a man should do his duty willingly; we believe that a man has got to do what a man has got to do, because this would be his life duty, anything that is detrimental to the rest of humanity and the living species should be avoided.
You see, we have this inborn wish within us, that we would like to be seen like a great man if possible, or at least better than the average man that is beside us when we do our duty willingly; so, let us talk about it and see, what our duty would be, if we want to be seen and counted as a good and honest man, from the rest of the world community.
As we have said at the beginning of this article, the duty of any man can be two ways; the first duty is that a man has got to live his life honestly; by this we mean that he has got to try to live his life, in a way that he would be able to earn his own living, he should work at whatever work he is able to do during his life, he should not try to steal anybody else money or belongings, he should pay his bills and his rent, and anything else in time, be punctual with his payments and his work duty. All these things might seem hard to achieve, so, some people might not agree with what is being said here; but in realty what we have said is easy to achieve, if you live a normal life and try to do it honestly.
We could say more about our duty, but I believe we have said enough to explain our point of view, because, this is the way that we should behave if we would like to be counted as a good man that has done his duty. This would be our first duty to our community and it covers the present time. The other idealistic duty that any of us could be called upon to fulfil, we have partly talked about at the beginning of this article, but now let us go back to explain a bit more, we would like to say, why our life learning should be passed on, and other point of views.
Passing on, our life learnings
Teaching is the art of passing knowledge to other people
Our life learning should be passed on to future generations
As we have said, at the beginning of this article, our duty as human beings, is that we should pass on what we have learned from life, for the betterment of future generations. Now that we have said what the life duty of any man is. I must start thinking what I could and should do to contribute to it; to achieve our own goal, do our own duty as a man and contribute our share; so, we could improve what we have received from life, by adding what we have learned during our own life. Perhaps we need to make a record of our lives experience overall, and then, we should try to see which way they could be used better.
In my case, I believe that one of the best ways to achieve that, is that I could write my own life story, in my life story I would try to say what the previous generation have taught me, and then, what I have learned myself during my life in detail, and thus by writing my life story, I would be passing on my knowledge for the benefit of future generations. You see, this is just another reason for writing, an old man life story, as I intend to do already, and then publish it in Hub Pages, so, I need to write most of my life observation down, and any other life experiences in such a way that they could be understood and would make sense to whosoever might read them.
In my life story I know already that some of my life happenings and observation would or could be felt a bit strange, especially those observations that have something to do with my psychological way of imaginary love life, and other things of that nature, therefore, I am warning my readers, not to give too much weight to those observation, whenever they come across and read them, if they don’t agree with them or they don’t understand them fully, don’t worry about it; you see, every one of us is different, so, we perceive those psychological things in a different way. I know also that some of my other life experiences and my life observations that I am going to write here, might seem a bit strange to some reader; but what can I do, if life sometimes is a bit strange? I can do nothing about it, except to tell you the way it is, and the way that I have seen it.
Anyhow, if I feel that I must do my duty, to improve what I have received from life, I am going to tell you my own life experiences to start with, even if they are going to be boring and seem strange at times, as I am sure, that they are going to seem strange every now and then, so much so, that one would think that they may be like a metamorphose. But, because a man has got to do what a man has got to do, I am going to do it anyhow; so, may God help me achieve that!
Anyhow, let us go back to my resolve, where I was going to write in my article about, an old man life story, but then, half way I ended up writing about, the duty of any human being; which is also part of my life story. So, now I need to go back to my life story, but at the same time I think that I might have said enough in this article, and therefore, I will be starting to tell my story of an old man life story in my next article, that I could call, A man life story or journey, just because I need to give every article a new name. See you soon dear readers, in my next article of my life story.
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