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Cybersex is the new trend.

Updated on October 7, 2011

Let me be your hero,

he said to me,

would you cry if you saw me crying

I thought he was joking,

I feel his pain,

it was not game,

when I realize what was happening

I was too far into his game,

I became his hero,

I became his baby,

the antidote to ease his pain

I just want to love him,

just want to hold him,

however, have I fallen under his spell?

He weaken me with his words.

unlike a sword it soften the fibers in my soul

So, I willingly became his hero.

Am I such a fey,

He just wanted to be held

for just tonight, and I didn't care

I blocked out all the negativity

I just want to be his hero,

I need him , just as much as he need me

he keep whispering "Please be my hero to night

Called out my name, like i am a mile away,

called my name, called my name honey,

slowly as you touch my underwear

let me kiss away the pain,

when troubles come and things go wrong

and days are clueless,

and nights are long

we find it so easy to give in to despair

so we seek love and acceptance in cyberspace

and sex was on our brains;

sin and shame

a mind game of visualising and focusing

all that matters to us,

the feeling of feeling worthy and sexy,

as we become each other heroes.

Two troubled hearts failing to recognize

that love can be felt anywhere.

even in cyberspace,

Laughter and teardrops

pleasure and pain,

low tides and high tides

rivers and ravine,

sin and shame

we became the game,

and the game became an addiction

to ease our pain,

Triumphs and defeats

and losses and gain,

we saved each other souls at midnight

we accepted the unexceptable,

as we cry, laugh and dance in our minds

meaningful sex, and unconditional love

in the privacy of our homes.

when no one is at home

Kiss me now, and never feel guilty

we are the new alternative to suicide of loneliness

To hold on to our morals and standards

knowingly we are not that kind,

we are free lovers, of modern times

we refused to be bedding

we are the freedom fighter for the hearts

we seeketh love, to eliminate all the pain

as we reach for the stars,

knowingly, that the stars are unreachable

however, never lets no one stop you.

we are so lovable, let focus on the route to Mars

let's cum, together and let the stars

falls on us... my cyberspace lover.

Yes! oh yes, i am your hero baby

your my stud tonight.

http://hubpages.com/question/136500/is-cybersex-illegal-can-a-person-get-hookthis-new-trend-is-this-a-unnatural-behavior





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      mikeq107 

      6 years ago

      Yes, You got that right LOL :0)

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      Thank you, Yes, and do remember Gof also said that "God help those who help themselves too!

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      mikeq107 

      6 years ago

      Annie :0)

      "Mike this is my final answer(:0) it beat being so lonely in the night"

      Annie I trully believe you :0)...I have been where you have been and there is not much I have not done to fill the void, after all I,m a human who has needs and if they had been met as a child in a healty fashion I often wonder how things would have turned out...would I have married for true healty love...I,m glad for the pain now...Even after I aceted Jesus it did not all go away but instead when it came back I had some one to go through it with me on my healing road...Church and religion did nothing for me except confuse me...But Jesus/ father God knew all about my pain and did not judge or reject me as this world has done...truth is I trust no one but him...wait Yes I do trust my soul mate Cynthia:0))

      But I do understand you and love your bold honesty...because when we reach the end of ourselves thats where God`s love begins if we will let him touch our pain!!!!

      One love from him;!!!!!)

      Mike ;0)

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      we are the new alternative to suicide of loneliness

      Mike this is my final answer(:0) it beat being so lonely in the night

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      mikeq107 

      6 years ago

      Just a thought...This is where fiction writers go to have a fictional relationship LOL

      Michael :0)

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      mikeq107 

      6 years ago

      Guess safe sex has a new name :0)!!!!!!!!!

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      Thank you Rosie2010 thank for stopping by

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      Rosie Rose 

      6 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      Hiya Darknlovely, the title got me. So hot and so true. With the internet, no one is ever alone, and cybersex has become a norm. Good job! Cheers!

      Have a nice day,

      Rosie

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      Thank you so much cogerson, lot time no see(:)

      well anything to do with sex, it make some folks sigh a bit.One love annie

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      UltimateMovieRankings 

      6 years ago from Virginia

      Very nicely done....and a subject that gets many people thinking many different things....that being said...I liked the way your hub was structured....and I really liked the way you ended the poem/story...voted up and very interesting.

    • Katharella profile image

      Katharella 

      6 years ago from Lost in America

      It's ok you don't have to explain what it is to me. I've been connected to the net since 89 and fully understand it's ramifications.

      Some of those "lonely" people have a spouse in the other room asleep. If my man felt the need to be intimate with another woman online or not, the it'd be time to move on to someone who fulfills his needs.

      How would you feel if it was your lover or husband? And he found someone he'd rather have cybersex with than just plainly hold you one night, you'd be ok with laying there alone while he went back to another person?

      Just yes or no, would you be ok waiting for your lover to be done for the evening? It's not all singles you do realize.

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      Katharella... cybersex is nothing more than two lonely folks looking for something they both lost,

      But if it's really just masturbation, then is cybersex "real" sex? Dr. Keely Kolmes, Psy.D. , a San Francisco psychotherapist for individuals and couples, tells me, "I would say that whether or not it is 'real' sex depends upon how the interaction is experienced by the participants. It may even feel 'real' for one person in the encounter, and not for the other person with whom they are having cybersex. On the other hand, you may have two people having cybersex where neither of them considers it 'real,' despite arousal, a feeling of intimacy, and even mutual orgasm -- and yet their real-life partners may beg to differ." Kolmes adds, "But it's fascinating that two people can be having an experience and one person may compartmentalize it in a way that feels 'not real,' while the other person is feeling much more integrated about it."

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      Katharella 

      6 years ago from Lost in America

      I guess I just showed my age lol! I am kinda lost as to the resurfacing part though. Sites are blocked from search engines unless you unblock them, and pay sites make a good deal of money.

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      well, it might be old, to some, somehow it resurfacing again, thank for commenting

      one love

      annie

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      Katharella 

      6 years ago from Lost in America

      Hi Darknlovely, please don't think me rude but cybersex is actually quite old. Conversations were being held in groups called newsgroups and photos were uploaded via FTP. It might be new to people who just learned about it. America Online used to have a whole 18+ section for sex chat. It's just more hush now than it was due to the children online. People weren't charged for it then, now they have to pay.

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      Manoj Kumar Srivastava 

      6 years ago from India

      Darknlovely3436,

      Greetings from MAKUSR. Cybersex like masturbation is meant to relax the body and ease it. No harm. But in excess it harms the one practicing it. Sex any sex for that matter is the best gift God gave us. Let's enjoy it responsibly. There is no end to possibilities.

      Lots of Love,

      MAKUSR

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      dashingscorpio 

      6 years ago

      Whenever someone is being neglected or feels taken for granted it won't take much for a stranger to put a smile on their face and in their heart. I recently wrote a hub about commitment. A lot of folks stop doing all of the things that won their mates's heart after there is a "commitment". It's not unusual to hear someone say, "He/She is not the same person I fell in love with." When we change our circumstances change!

      Anyone who neglects their partner should never forget relationships are "at will". No one is stuck with anyone and people always have "options". An empty refrigerator at home has never stopped a "hungry person" from eating. Desire always finds a way.

      https://hubpages.com/relationships/commitmentisnot...

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      When your husband or wife move into the next room

      and that bond is lost, for one of the partner,

      the loving partner, hate the idea of going to bed alone,

      and feeling unwanted, however, he/she might not want to hurt the other person feeling, so they decided to look for what they once had, and they discovered the internet,

      and cybersex... so what can we say.

      "who to blame"? love. hate love.

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      Daffy duck I must agree with you too, however cybersex, is for those with a mind setting, that fit this kind of game, and i believe in meaningful sex, cybersex, do not carry STD it only, help out some lonely folks, who need love, and can only enjoy it this way.

      so "what is good for the goose, not necessarily good for the gander....

      thank you for commenting.

    • Darknlovely3436 profile imageAUTHOR

      Annie 

      6 years ago from NewYork

      Poshcoffeeco , well said, however, everybody is going to have a mix feeling about cybersex, and i agree with you

      it for those that can stomach this new trend.

      thank you for stopping by.

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      Steve Mitchell 

      6 years ago from Cambridgeshire

      You learn so much about people from what they write. We all seem to have the same thoughts at times. Everyone needs to be liked and loved. Cyberspace can be a benefit for people who need it. Well researched Darknlovely3436.

      Vote interesting.

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      Daffy Duck 

      6 years ago from Cornelius, Oregon

      Just remember that whatever you put out in cyberspace is out there....................................permenantly. :)

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      Alexander Thandi Ubani 

      6 years ago from Lagos

      From what i read, cyberspace seem to be fun. But i don't ve much knowledge about it. I think i like it

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