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Everyone here is busy finding love. But do people here, actually know what love is!! Can anyone give a conclusive definition of love. The three words "I LOVE YOU", also known as "three magical words," are no longer magical. These words have become the most common words for today's youth. Now-a-days love is not the pure love, its mere motive, is fulfilling physical desperation. It's just a bribe for getting intimate. Relationships have become just a matter of status among people - my best friend has a girlfriend, so even I want one!! Being in relationship has become a matter of pride as if they have achieved some kind of the king's treasure (ironically the treasure is just a fake one). I'm not against love, but have you ever noticed people around, who love you unconditionally but still, you take them for-granted. Do they not need your love or are you that much blind that you can't see it??
The purest and most beautiful source of love starts from our own home - The love of a MOTHER. The way she cares, the way she sacrifices and the way she cooks just for your happiness. The relationship of a mother and a child is the purest form of love. A mother is only the person in the whole world who don't expect anything in return. A mother does and does everything for her child but doesn't expect anything. She could fight for her child from the whole world, she could do everything for her child, she could even fight with god for her child. At the end, all she needs is a lovable smile on her child's face. If you can't see this love, then I'm sorry, but you could never ever feel someone else's love. If you can't love her back, then you can't even love another girl. A mother is compared to god, so at least give her a bit of love and a bit of respect. And even if you can't love her, do respect her. She does so much for you, that you ignore seeing, half of things with your so-called "open eyes".
The next person you always forget to love is your family- your dad, your sisters, your siblings. Have you ever noticed there love? Have you ever seen, how they support you each and every time? And you, always forget to thank them. Do you even notice, how hard your dad works, just to earn a bit of money so that you feel satisfied. Do you even show some courtesy towards him and ask at night- " how was your day?" No, right!! Because who cares- I have a cell phone, I have wi-fi which are much more important. It's just because of that man- your father, that you are having a cellphone in your hand and a wi-fi connection.
" And one day she dared to close the wi-fi, they had the best family dinner together..!!"
The last and one of the most important person you should love first is "YOU"- YOURSELF. In this present world, everyone is so dam busy that they have forgotten to give some of their time to their own self. Do even appreciate yourself for all the good you did today? Do you congratulate yourself for your achievements? No! Because we are much busier in updating others about our life!! We are much busier in comparing ourselves with other - Omg! She has car even I need one. Omg! She has heels even I need those. Gosh! Stop being like others. Just be yourself. You are excellent at being " you". Remember, you are beautiful in your own ways. Don't forget, you are one of the most precious creation of god.
Your search for finding love will definitely get over if you start loving yourself as who you are. You will find the ultimate happiness if you start appreciating yourself.
"Be who you are, not what everyone else say's."